Lively Case Discussion #613 5/4 - 5/5/2007

[klaasend]

[Dayhiker]

I didn’t mean to drag things down.  Life ain’t easy and the answers ain’t simple.  My kid is digging his own hole and I can only pull him out so many times before I grow weak.  And, I am feeling pretty damn weak tonight.

Easy, you didn't drag anything down. Just keep the faith. You do your best and the rest of life will take care of itself. I wish your son the best, you have done all that you can do, bro.

[klaasend]

That's almost as funny as these poses of Dompig:  

[Dayhiker]

What a lovely couple! Wedding bells must be blooming. LOL Klaas!

[Tiger]

well,the arubans and Dutch like to hit on weekends,less chance to get out of jail early.I am still lurking

[Anna]

I just got home about an hour ago and have been trying to find Jossy on the news.  Did he appear?  No one did a transcript or did he say anything new or say what his theory was?

I just scanned but couldn't find anything about it.

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[Tiger]

i will help anyway I can Easy.

[Kat_Gram]

story : true.
My daughter worked as a corrections officer. I lived close and would sometimes meet her there after her shift was over. Or go to visiit her in the lobby during her break.
I would go to the booth and say, I'm here to see my daughter, her co workers knew who I was, and I had a man ( probably a laywer ) say how sorry he was for me as I looked like such a nice lady.  
....
If this is an addiction issue with your son , then a treatment centre or
AA or NA would be the best, but you can't make him go. And you can't keep enabling him either, because that just prevents him from facing his problems and issues. And things will just get worse until the point of no probation. Can't he be sent by the court to treatment ? They do that here. Sometimes, it's at the end of a sentence where they go to a live in
house for treatment.

[Tiger]

No new theory,except he is guilty,Anna

[klaasend]

[Kat_Gram]

Doen't Guido dance ?

[klaasend]

I just got home about an hour ago and have been trying to find Jossy on the news.  Did he appear?  No one did a transcript or did he say anything new or say what his theory was?

I just scanned but couldn't find anything about it.

.

Nothing new.  If you go to the website and click on the video tab you can watch it:

http://www.nbc13.com/gulfcoastwest/vtm/news.apx.-content-articles-VTM-2007-05-04-0021.html

[klaasend]

Plague in the Hague

[Dayhiker]

I can think of another name for that bag, Klaas, but won't say it.

[Tiger]

I have seen that hotel in the flesh.It wasn't infested then

[Easywriter]

story : true.
My daughter worked as a corrections officer. I lived close and would sometimes meet her there after her shift was over. Or go to visiit her in the lobby during her break.
I would go to the booth and say, I'm here to see my daughter, her co workers knew who I was, and I had a man ( probably a laywer ) say how sorry he was for me as I looked like such a nice lady.  
....
If this is an addiction issue with your son , then a treatment centre or
AA or NA would be the best, but you can't make him go. And you can't keep enabling him either, because that just prevents him from facing his problems and issues. And things will just get worse until the point of no probation. Can't he be sent by the court to treatment ? They do that here. Sometimes, it's at the end of a sentence where they go to a live in
house for treatment.

It is an addiction issue!  Good sense does not come into play.  Would you do the same thing over and over if you knew it would land you in jail?

[Tibrogargan]

I didn’t mean to drag things down.  Life ain’t easy and the answers ain’t simple.  My kid is digging his own hole and I can only pull him out so many times before I grow weak.  And, I am feeling pretty damn weak tonight.

Easywriter I believe that before we come here we each write the script for our future experiences, and it is how we act and react to the milestones as they appear before us, is how we will judge our efforts at the end of it all.
Your son has to accept his own responsibility for any of his actions but it is so important that he knows he has your support as a father and forgiveness when he has come to a resolution as to his further actions.

God bless you both and give you strength and wisdom to accept His Will.

[Kat_Gram]

That's almost as funny as these poses of Dompig:  

Alright Anita, we are here to arrest you ! ! For Fashion Crimes !
Hand over the see thru clothes ! !

[sb]

My take on when this could / would be solved is to lay those charges
against the Kalpoes. The kidnapping, the rape, the sexual assault.
Even Joran says he thinks Deepak did it. Then we will see the Crown Witness thing come in. To get at Joran. Dompig said they had enough
for the rape / assault, just do it !  They don't all have to be charged at once or for the same charges. Joran is the prime suspect for the murder, but the 2 year clock might be ticking on the other two.

This post just rang a bell for me.

AT ANY TIME, they could have charged K2. Whenever they wanted to. We know little about the evidence Aruba has against them but if they HAVE it, they have had 2 years now to enact the scapegoat scenario. K2 are not the sons of a Dutch judge, they are not protected in ANY way. The only protection K2 has is WHAT THEY KNOW and HOW WILLING THEY ARE TO TELL IT.

No charges.

I don't think either Kalpoe is a Crown Witness, either. I think that's someone else.

[Anna]

Why is Dompig standing like that?

Boy, is he FAT!