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Topic: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 - 10/03/09 (Read 410247 times)
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Wyks
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:29:31 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
for you wyks http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqhlPxR9nHY&feature=related
Brat! LOL! Not clicking on it.. not clicking on it.. not......
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: N2WISHN on October 02, 2009, 01:34:16 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:27:58 PM
My biggest fear is that we will never know the truth. There are so many rumors coming out of that town it is unreal.I think that is one of the obstacles in that case, the entire town is seeming like a gossip column
You may be right, and we may most likely will never know all there is to know about what happened to Caylee as well........
Oh I know and that is so sad. How dare them call themselves Grandparents of her. They are KC's parents and that is that. They chose KC over helpless Caylee and THAT is inexcusable.
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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For those following Lindsey Baum's case, doubledecker has posted there is a search going on at a house just outside McCleary. It's not known yet if it has to do with Lindsey's case or not, but I'm hoping it does. Lindsey needs to come home.
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=5994.msg967421#msg967421
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:35:48 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:29:31 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
for you wyks http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqhlPxR9nHY&feature=related
Brat! LOL! Not clicking on it.. not clicking on it.. not......
awww shucks.. it was a good one too
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: MuffyBee on October 02, 2009, 01:38:06 PM
For those following Lindsey Baum's case, doubledecker has posted there is a search going on at a house just outside McCleary. It's not known yet if it has to do with Lindsey's case or not, but I'm hoping it does. Lindsey needs to come home.
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=5994.msg967421#msg967421
Thanks,Muffy.
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Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:38:55 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:35:48 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:29:31 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
for you wyks http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqhlPxR9nHY&feature=related
Brat! LOL! Not clicking on it.. not clicking on it.. not......
awww shucks.. it was a good one too
Yeah I just bet.. mwahahaha!
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Quote from: trimmonthelake on October 02, 2009, 01:32:16 PM
Quote from: KCJackie on October 02, 2009, 01:21:44 PM
Quote from: CBB on October 02, 2009, 01:12:05 PM
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Not the "Small World" Torture!!!!!
Hi Trimm, been wanting to tell you I love your avatar!
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: ScareyCarrie on October 02, 2009, 01:35:07 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:27:58 PM
Quote from: N2WISHN on October 02, 2009, 01:20:47 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:17:49 PM
Quote from: N2WISHN on October 02, 2009, 01:12:00 PM
Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:06:04 PM
Please just let us remember there are people here with real hurts, real events that have happened to them, and when they opened up here they felt safe. Maybe it was false security, but they felt they were among friends.
I am so sorry that ANY of our members have had to go throught these painful episodes in their lives, almost too painful to tell, and when they did they feel that their pain was questioned and made fun of....I feel safe here, but sometimes I have not. Please let's help the ones that need support and not make fun or pour salt in the wounds, either here or on another forum.
How can we make this better? Sweeping it under the rug and saying "Oh Well, lets just move one" doesn't seem it is going to cut it. What can we all do to make this better. This is very upsetting for all of us who care about SM. Just suck it up doesn't seem the right way to handle this. JMO
It would be best to not let things get to this point to begin with. It's been said here many times, agree to disagree. Sometimes when posters disagree with one another rather than continue the disagreement just let it go at that point, early on and not let it escalate........
I can agree to disagree, have many times and have even logged off for a while to just let the thread move on so I can focus on something else when I return. I know not everyone will agree and all and some have a misconception of what I think. I have stated many times I do not support RC nor do I believe a word misty says, but I also know there is a lot of misinformation being put out by the media for the spin,so am reserving any finger pointing until more facts are known. I think RC is a complete idiot and I can't say on here what I think of Misty,but she could have a notarized tongue and I still would not believe her.
And all that is correct, IMO. So now we wait to see if the truth will ever come out(and to be honest, I sometimes don't even believe what is presented as truth, but that's another story)
My biggest fear is that we will never know the truth. There are so many rumors coming out of that town it is unreal.I think that is one of the obstacles in that case, the entire town is seeming like a gossip column
sorry to butt in, if i am out of place let me know i am good with hints!
but i just dont see, how and why this was not solved right away, all i cant think is soo much lying covering up an maybe not enough proactiveness (not sure if thats a real word) on LE part.....
Poor child
Hi, I do not think we met. I think there are a lot of issues combined that are stalling the investigation, from rumors from the town folk to tension and finger pointing amongst the families,both sides to tips that are just well, I don't think I have to say it just (scrubs) and you get my point. I think the best witness to have listened to would have been the most innocent who would tell the truth in all his purity and that is Jr. how ever,the ball was dropped and seeds were planted in his little pure mind, so I will go with a man in black took her because that was his most pure revelation.
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:25:55 PM
Quote from: higherhopes on October 02, 2009, 01:23:16 PM
well, I can see that im not gonna get an answer so guess Ill go read around the boards and see if there is any news on Haleigh, I like that saying.......notarized tounge, Someone on Arts site said that about Tommy Croslin last night....hmmmm...well...I am off to find out what I can an see if we are any closer to finding this precious angel, Take care everybody, see ya in the Haleigh forum!
well it was not me. I have not posted anywhere for several days and use searching when I do. TC
It was you...it was under your post and under your name and I didnt say it was from the last few days, but it was you.......I can get the post if you would like.......you posted it yourself..........own it..
HH, give it a rest.
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Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
http://www.youtube.com/v/eIabgPX14R4&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca&border=1
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October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Thought I would bring over some pink ribbons in case anyone wanted to use one.
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Quote from: Cappuccino on October 02, 2009, 09:50:51 AM
I didnt want to post this on our crime victim threads but I have a response to the following posts because it needs to be said, please pardon the interruption of more pleasant conversation:
Re: Haleigh Marie Cummings #24 9/26/09 -
« Reply #1926 on: Today at 08:29:53 AM »
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Quote from: cookie on Today at 07:41:59 AM
Quote from: cartfly on Today at 02:38:34 AM
Quote from: islandmonkey on October 01, 2009, 03:25:55 PM
I have spent the last 1/2 hour reading the article that is posted on
Radionewz from Gunny
.....WOW, under the comments
there are so many SM members and mods mentioned in the post on there, about HH, me to Klaas and Muffy. WTF??????
WTH? There is some strange things going.....still confused. It must be a full moon, all the crazies are coming out of the woodwork!
I will probably get into trouble for this but here goes....
I just want to say that there have been plenty of snarky remarks made to me and about me on other forums by some members on this board...I could bring them over here to share them with the monkeys on here ..also, by bringing other comments from posters about sm posters, it does nothing but inflame people...why is this on the Haleigh thread? I thought that we weren't supposed to bring over here what is said about members on other places such as forums or twitter etc.... I am confused why this was brought here except to make some monkeys look bad and to inflame others....just my opinion of course...I never read over there so I would have never seen any of this but now I have seen it because a link to it was provided for all to see ...what is the reason for it to be here?
******my response long overdue
Hmm, Im coming in late on this & I will be very brief about it because it just doesnt seem right on our threads concerning victims which I have expressed before. Now, I'm getting a grand picture as to what the heck is going on behind the scenes & why my good name was unjustifably brought into a drama over a member that was banned a few months ago, name starting with a D. I was accused of being associated with this individual & God knows what else that I may not want to know, when truth be told my absence in July was solely due to landing in the hospital with respiratory distress, a surgical procedure & a diagnosis of COPD for 8 days & recovery thereafter. (needless to say I got no apologies to date) I'm debating now whether I'll go to that site cuz I was told I was defamed on a forum other than here. Then again it might not be a good idea because people may not like my response with a long reach (it would be publicly here). WHY? Why would anyone from here want to do that to me? If anyone had any concerns it was just as easy to ask Klaas or a mod to get in touch with me, as a matter of fact I was contacted which I appreciated so very much & then you all found out why I was absent beyond my daughter's visit you knew I was preparing for. When I came back & found this out I was insulted & hurt by it BUT I for the most part tried to let it go but all I see is continued drama occurring and I just have to say amongst adults...why? We are all here for more important reasons. I cant be too concerned with this because the truth is always on my side so beyond an initial reaction I have no worries what others may say or do misguidedly and/or with malicious intent for whatever ridiculous reason...that behavior is on them. This is just sad, we have a decent mission here at SM & its getting tarnished by "drama mama moments" by a few members that lose sight as to why we are all here or bring petty garbage & personal issues into the fold....My apologies for disrupting the thread but I wanted to express my offended feelings in the hopes that those engaging in this type of behavior may take heed to what damage unkind words, false accusations & junior high antics cause to decent innocent bystanders & a forum as a whole.
I truly love it here & I feel close to the majority of you with an ever growing mutual respect...let's work together on not letting negativity cloud our days & hurt each others feelings
I wanted to respond to you here on SM because I DID see what was going on. At the time of the whole D*lse episode going on here on Musings I questioned the gossip and bashing that was going on while the people were involved were still monkeys and not banned. I also saw other Monkey's name being brought up, if only why were they not here, and could they be connected. I thought we were not supposed to talk about other monkeys.
I did go to the Forum Wars forum and saw much worse. I quickly left.
I do not go to other forums any more, nor do I suggest anyone go to such a site.
I have see other Monkey's being talked about here in musings, and as far as I know, they are still monkeys. SeaSearcher was one I can think of right off hand, and what he had failed to do. I have seen my own name being discussed here......What is the criteria for this??
I am sorry for what happened to you
Capp,
and for the simple reason you had the unfortunate happening of falling ill at the wrong time when D,A, & S were the topic of conversation. I felt really bad it happened to you, and wished at the time I had a way to get in touch with you.
I hope you are feeling much better, and I know you are strong both in grit and character, and I admire you very much.
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Hi, I do not think we met. I think there are a lot of issues combined that are stalling the investigation, from rumors from the town folk to tension and finger pointing amongst the families,both sides to tips that are just well, I don't think I have to say it just (scrubs) and you get my point. I think the best witness to have listened to would have been the most innocent who would tell the truth in all his purity and that is Jr. how ever,the ball was dropped and seeds were planted in his little pure mind, so I will go with a man in black took her because that was his most pure revelation.
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well nice to meet you!!!!
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:31:35 PM
Quote from: N2WISHN on October 02, 2009, 01:12:00 PM
Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:06:04 PM
Please just let us remember there are people here with real hurts, real events that have happened to them, and when they opened up here they felt safe. Maybe it was false security, but they felt they were among friends.
I am so sorry that ANY of our members have had to go throught these painful episodes in their lives, almost too painful to tell, and when they did they feel that their pain was questioned and made fun of....I feel safe here, but sometimes I have not. Please let's help the ones that need support and not make fun or pour salt in the wounds, either here or on another forum.
How can we make this better? Sweeping it under the rug and saying "Oh Well, lets just move one" doesn't seem it is going to cut it. What can we all do to make this better. This is very upsetting for all of us who care about SM. Just suck it up doesn't seem the right way to handle this. JMO
It would be best to not let things get to this point to begin with. It's been said here many times, agree to disagree. Sometimes when posters disagree with one another rather than continue the disagreement just let it go at that point, early on and not let it escalate........
I totally agree with that one, and I did think
SEARCHING
reached out with a very profound post on the Haleigh Thread, and let everyone know she was in pain, and how she needed some understanding. She wanted other monkeys to reach out to her, and help her, and to my knowledge, I was the only one that responded to her plea to be friends and not hurt one another. "There will always be personality conflicts" is the answer I saw.
I may get a swat myself for this, but I think
SEARCHING
was right. I have seen some threads getting this way, and others, you dare not say anything about a personality. I just think we can post about these cases without getting personal and feeling like you need to protect yourself. I have seen posters make little snippy midnight posts to gripe about other posters, and I have seen posters come in because sometimes we chat and they feel that since they can only come online and skim the threads, they should not have to see our chats and jokes. It goes on on every thread. I thought this was a place to discuss the cases, and not cater to the ones who only have a little time now and then to read. We should stay on topic, I understand that. But sometimes, especially on a doc dump day, the info is hard to take, and sometimes a little levity is in order. Why are some thread treated differently than the others. JMO
I guess now I am waiting for the big red button again......
I hope you don't get the button sis, I think that we all will disagree at times and when reading,things are misunderstood sometimes and some are even re-posted out of context to suit another's needs. I do have pain in my life and I know others do also. I feel that if a post is made and I am offended by it that others who have been thru similar things as I have will be hurt also,so I try to point that out, sometimes it just does not go over very well. Someone posted a " pick yourself up and move on" comment about rape. I was getting instant messages like crazy over that,because rape survivors know it is not that easy to do.Some people know, though I am not a psychologist nor anything with a title like that, I do carry the title of survivor and do talk to rape victims and listen to them and try to help them thru. Certain things that are said I wish would not be as they can be very hurtful to others and I just wish that we would all think in those terms while posting, yes, I included me as well.There are things I have said that I wished I could take back but it was already posted. so I am guilty just the same.
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:31:35 PM
I totally agree with that one, and I did think
SEARCHING
reached out with a very profound post on the Haleigh Thread, and let everyone know she was in pain, and how she needed some understanding. She wanted other monkeys to reach out to her, and help her, and to my knowledge, I was the only one that responded to her plea to be friends and not hurt one another. "There will always be personality conflicts" is the answer I saw.
I may get a swat myself for this, but I think
SEARCHING
was right. I have seen some threads getting this way, and others, you dare not say anything about a personality. I just think we can post about these cases without getting personal and feeling like you need to protect yourself. I have seen posters make little snippy midnight posts to gripe about other posters, and I have seen posters come in because sometimes we chat and they feel that since they can only come online and skim the threads, they should not have to see our chats and jokes. It goes on on every thread. I thought this was a place to discuss the cases, and not cater to the ones who only have a little time now and then to read. We should stay on topic, I understand that. But sometimes, especially on a doc dump day, the info is hard to take, and sometimes a little levity is in order. Why are some thread treated differently than the others. JMO
I guess now I am waiting for the big red button again......
I enjoy your posts for the most part and appreciate that you post here often. The same goes for the other regulars that keep this board alive. I'm one of those hit and miss kind of posters. I'm usually lurking, but just can't think of something worthwhile to post alot of times. There are times when I attack the characters in these dramas but that is not what I want to do. Sometimes there's just nothing new going on and off I go commenting on how much I hate this or that person and how disgusting they are and how I would like to see an angry mob tar and feather them, then lynch them. I think the mods do what they can but see there's apples and oranges on here and the two will never be just alike in their views. We're big people, we can be friends with those who accept us and not let those that don't accept us get us down.
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Quote from: cece on October 02, 2009, 01:47:00 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
http://www.youtube.com/v/eIabgPX14R4&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca&border=1
Hahaha, wyks wouldn't click my link.
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Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:35:48 PM
Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:29:31 PM
Quote from: Wyks on October 02, 2009, 01:24:33 PM
Ack noooo! Now I can't get 'that song' outta my head.
for you wyks http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqhlPxR9nHY&feature=related
Brat! LOL! Not clicking on it.. not clicking on it.. not......
I refuse too.
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Quote from: SuzieQ on October 02, 2009, 01:48:54 PM
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Thought I would bring over some pink ribbons in case anyone wanted to use one.
How do I use it?
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Quote from: higherhopes on October 02, 2009, 01:46:06 PM
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Quote from: higherhopes on October 02, 2009, 01:23:16 PM
well, I can see that im not gonna get an answer so guess Ill go read around the boards and see if there is any news on Haleigh, I like that saying.......notarized tounge, Someone on Arts site said that about Tommy Croslin last night....hmmmm...well...I am off to find out what I can an see if we are any closer to finding this precious angel, Take care everybody, see ya in the Haleigh forum!
well it was not me. I have not posted anywhere for several days and use searching when I do. TC
It was you...it was under your post and under your name and I didnt say it was from the last few days, but it was you.......I can get the post if you would like.......you posted it yourself..........own it..
HH, give it a rest.
IM GONE.................................
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Re: MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #51 9/14/09 -
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Quote from: Searching on October 02, 2009, 01:54:22 PM
Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:31:35 PM
Quote from: N2WISHN on October 02, 2009, 01:12:00 PM
Quote from: Fanny Mae on October 02, 2009, 01:06:04 PM
Please just let us remember there are people here with real hurts, real events that have happened to them, and when they opened up here they felt safe. Maybe it was false security, but they felt they were among friends.
I am so sorry that ANY of our members have had to go throught these painful episodes in their lives, almost too painful to tell, and when they did they feel that their pain was questioned and made fun of....I feel safe here, but sometimes I have not. Please let's help the ones that need support and not make fun or pour salt in the wounds, either here or on another forum.
How can we make this better? Sweeping it under the rug and saying "Oh Well, lets just move one" doesn't seem it is going to cut it. What can we all do to make this better. This is very upsetting for all of us who care about SM. Just suck it up doesn't seem the right way to handle this. JMO
It would be best to not let things get to this point to begin with. It's been said here many times, agree to disagree. Sometimes when posters disagree with one another rather than continue the disagreement just let it go at that point, early on and not let it escalate........
I totally agree with that one, and I did think
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reached out with a very profound post on the Haleigh Thread, and let everyone know she was in pain, and how she needed some understanding. She wanted other monkeys to reach out to her, and help her, and to my knowledge, I was the only one that responded to her plea to be friends and not hurt one another. "There will always be personality conflicts" is the answer I saw.
I may get a swat myself for this, but I think
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was right. I have seen some threads getting this way, and others, you dare not say anything about a personality. I just think we can post about these cases without getting personal and feeling like you need to protect yourself. I have seen posters make little snippy midnight posts to gripe about other posters, and I have seen posters come in because sometimes we chat and they feel that since they can only come online and skim the threads, they should not have to see our chats and jokes. It goes on on every thread. I thought this was a place to discuss the cases, and not cater to the ones who only have a little time now and then to read. We should stay on topic, I understand that. But sometimes, especially on a doc dump day, the info is hard to take, and sometimes a little levity is in order. Why are some thread treated differently than the others. JMO
I guess now I am waiting for the big red button again......
I hope you don't get the button sis, I think that we all will disagree at times and when reading,things are misunderstood sometimes and some are even re-posted out of context to suit another's needs. I do have pain in my life and I know others do also. I feel that if a post is made and I am offended by it that others who have been thru similar things as I have will be hurt also,so I try to point that out, sometimes it just does not go over very well. Someone posted a " pick yourself up and move on" comment about rape. I was getting instant messages like crazy over that,because rape survivors know it is not that easy to do.Some people know, though I am not a psychologist nor anything with a title like that, I do carry the title of survivor and do talk to rape victims and listen to them and try to help them thru. Certain things that are said I wish would not be as they can be very hurtful to others and I just wish that we would all think in those terms while posting, yes, I included me as well.There are things I have said that I wished I could take back but it was already posted. so I am guilty just the same.
here i go butting in again
but i must say, i am sorry for what you have been thru, any and al of you! it seems to me back in the day ( hehe im not that old but still ya get my drift) that it was not a common thing to admit to or talk about freely, being raped or molested, ppl have come along way, and unfortunately it seems to me it has become a more common occurance.
It is often hard to say anything, because when reading a psot or comment you dnt get the full effect. like the tone, sarcasm or not, facial expressions, and body language that are so heplful in determining ones intentions or thoughts when talking with you.
I just think that things should be taking lightly if they are not a clear an direct threat or put down, as it could have been unintended.
Many subjects to me are touchy and should be entered lightly when not face to face conversations.
Sorry if i am confusing or no one cares, just my opinion and i wish all the best, and happy times.
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