MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #44 7/07/09 - 7/10/09

[Leroy]

KLASS, I went on Musings as a lot of people know, and asked why STEEL was not banned, and I told you my reasons why. DOLCE has had two days to respond, and it is clear she is not coming here to explain herself. What she did far excedes what STEEL did that night, and has hurt many more monkeys, and insulted all our intelligence. As much as we wanted it to all be a big mistake, it is obviously now not.

I am asking the same question now, about why DOLCE IS NOT BANNED. SHE WILL NEVER SHOW HER FACE HERE, AND I DON'T WANT HER TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY. I KNOW I AM NOT AN ADMINISTRATOR, OR OWNER, AND I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY AUTHORITY TO EVEN ASK, BUT I AM ASKING ANYWAY. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND. I RESPECT THAT ONLY YOU HAVE THE BAN BUTTON. I AM ONLY ONE MEMBER HERE, OTHERS MAY HAVE ANOTHER TAKE ON IT. I AM NOT SHOUTING, I JUST WANTED YOU TO SEE THIS.   

Fanny - IMO banning her serves no purpose - like you said, she will never show her face here anyways.

[crazybabyborg]

I think it speaks volumes that Steel would write such a thing, and that he feels comfortable sending it to Dolce. Apparently he knew her better than we did.

Nobody played "Gotcha" with Dolce over all this. Dolce was taking advantage of posters; using them and making fools of them. Once that was known it had to come out so the charade would stop. Dolce made the rules and I'm vouching for Klaas that if there had been ANY chance at all that Dolce wasn't making it all up, it would never have been exposed.

There was no gaming spirit when faced with the possibilities Dolce was a phoney. I think the unanimous initial reaction was "OH NO!!! SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!"

Steel is simply petty and mean spirited and he's sending that e-mail to an individual he feels is receptive to that. I don't doubt he's right.

[Fanny Mae]

Hey Steel,

There is nothing to expose but have fun trying!!   

BTW - maybe you re-read my post!!  I didn't say I was going to do anything!!  But I know others might!! 

I don't think you are helping your friend, Dolce!!! 

Mytime

I will expose MT...she wear holey underwear!!

I will expose myself!! I don't wear any!!

Stop posting my personal picture!!!!

[SunnyinTX]

I really appreciate you all caring about my feelings and I am not avoiding you.  You cant imagine how I feel. I was not going to respond to your post because I know how hurt you are. I doubt there are any here who do not feel for you right now. But there are also many here who know exactly how you feel. Betrayal of any kind is very painful  I loved her. You loved the person you thought she was....you don't know the person she is....not really....but the revelations of the past days are certainly giving you some insight......not pretty but for the first time you are being exposed to the REAL Dolce.  I talked to her in some fashion every day.  No matter what she did, I still cannot just turn my feelings off. I feel bad for you....but your feelings are for someone who really doesn't exist.   I am worried about her, I am still trying to contact her but she is not taking any calls, emails, nothing.  Would the Dolce you think you knew treat you like this??  I hope you all wont hate me for this, I am just going to read for a while, I love you all.  Why should anyone hate you? No one here wants to see you hurt. But it obviously doesn't bother Dolce...the REAL Dolce. I am not one to mince words as most people know. I am worried that you are looking for something to hold onto...some truth in this mess.  Unfortunately the truth in this case is not pretty...it is very ugly. I don;t doubt that she liked you.....that you fulfilled some void in her life... just as her fantasies did...but you are not a fantasy...you are real and you ave feelings and you have been betrayed. Friends don;t do that to friends. Dolce has know for more than a week that her fantasies were being questioned by many. She knew she was going to be exposed sooner or later. She had ample time to tell you and us the truth.  Some of us may have even forgiven her had she told the truth......trust her...probably not. Please do not allow yourself to be drawn into another spider's web of deceit..

[SunnyinTX]

Hey Steel,

There is nothing to expose but have fun trying!!   

BTW - maybe you re-read my post!!  I didn't say I was going to do anything!!  But I know others might!! 

I don't think you are helping your friend, Dolce!!! 

Mytime

I will expose MT...she wear holey underwear!!

I will expose myself!! I don't wear any!!

OHMYGAWD Nut, that is BUTT ugly!!

[Fanny Mae]

KLASS, I went on Musings as a lot of people know, and asked why STEEL was not banned, and I told you my reasons why. DOLCE has had two days to respond, and it is clear she is not coming here to explain herself. What she did far excedes what STEEL did that night, and has hurt many more monkeys, and insulted all our intelligence. As much as we wanted it to all be a big mistake, it is obviously now not.

I am asking the same question now, about why DOLCE IS NOT BANNED. SHE WILL NEVER SHOW HER FACE HERE, AND I DON'T WANT HER TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY. I KNOW I AM NOT AN ADMINISTRATOR, OR OWNER, AND I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY AUTHORITY TO EVEN ASK, BUT I AM ASKING ANYWAY. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND. I RESPECT THAT ONLY YOU HAVE THE BAN BUTTON. I AM ONLY ONE MEMBER HERE, OTHERS MAY HAVE ANOTHER TAKE ON IT. I AM NOT SHOUTING, I JUST WANTED YOU TO SEE THIS.   

Fanny good point.  Up until the email Dolce sent I wanted to make sure she had every opportunity to "set things straight" and that's why I didn't ban her.

I think I should ban her now but I'll leave it so she can read.  I want her to be able to SEE what she has done.

Steel was banned a while back.

Yes, I know he was, and I cried after it was done and felt resposible.  But I also thought it was necessary. 

And now I am even more worried about A1. 

[Sassycat]

KLASS, I went on Musings as a lot of people know, and asked why STEEL was not banned, and I told you my reasons why. DOLCE has had two days to respond, and it is clear she is not coming here to explain herself. What she did far excedes what STEEL did that night, and has hurt many more monkeys, and insulted all our intelligence. As much as we wanted it to all be a big mistake, it is obviously now not.

I am asking the same question now, about why DOLCE IS NOT BANNED. SHE WILL NEVER SHOW HER FACE HERE, AND I DON'T WANT HER TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY. I KNOW I AM NOT AN ADMINISTRATOR, OR OWNER, AND I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY AUTHORITY TO EVEN ASK, BUT I AM ASKING ANYWAY. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND. I RESPECT THAT ONLY YOU HAVE THE BAN BUTTON. I AM ONLY ONE MEMBER HERE, OTHERS MAY HAVE ANOTHER TAKE ON IT. I AM NOT SHOUTING, I JUST WANTED YOU TO SEE THIS.   

Fanny good point.  Up until the email Dolce sent I wanted to make sure she had every opportunity to "set things straight" and that's why I didn't ban her.

I think I should ban her now but I'll leave it so she can read.  I want her to be able to SEE what she has done.

Steel was banned a while back.

Can Steel still read here?   And, if they get new IP addresses, can they still read here?   just curious.   TIA.

[CasuallyCool]

I think it speaks volumes that Steel would write such a thing, and that he feels comfortable sending it to Dolce. Apparently he knew her better than we did.

Nobody played "Gotcha" with Dolce over all this. Dolce was taking advantage of posters; using them and making fools of them. Once that was known it had to come out so the charade would stop. Dolce made the rules and I'm vouching for Klaas that if there had been ANY chance at all that Dolce wasn't making it all up, it would never have been exposed.

There was no gaming spirit when faced with the possibilities Dolce was a phoney. I think the unanimous initial reaction was "OH NO!!! SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!"

Steel is simply petty and mean spirited and he's sending that e-mail to an individual he feels is receptive to that. I don't doubt he's right.

Steel was here to only flirt with the monkey's who had a pretty avatar.  Does my butt look big in my picture?

[Bud's Girl]

I thought Steel's avatar said "kot" under it ... as in A1, the kot (cat).   


Wow, mt, what did you ever do to Steel?   Way to win friends & influence people, girlfriend.   


May Steel & Dolce are the same person.   

[klaasend]

I know you can't see this but it says "Monkey Protection Program"   

[SunnyinTX]

KLASS, I went on Musings as a lot of people know, and asked why STEEL was not banned, and I told you my reasons why. DOLCE has had two days to respond, and it is clear she is not coming here to explain herself. What she did far excedes what STEEL did that night, and has hurt many more monkeys, and insulted all our intelligence. As much as we wanted it to all be a big mistake, it is obviously now not.

I am asking the same question now, about why DOLCE IS NOT BANNED. SHE WILL NEVER SHOW HER FACE HERE, AND I DON'T WANT HER TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY. I KNOW I AM NOT AN ADMINISTRATOR, OR OWNER, AND I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY AUTHORITY TO EVEN ASK, BUT I AM ASKING ANYWAY. I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND. I RESPECT THAT ONLY YOU HAVE THE BAN BUTTON. I AM ONLY ONE MEMBER HERE, OTHERS MAY HAVE ANOTHER TAKE ON IT. I AM NOT SHOUTING, I JUST WANTED YOU TO SEE THIS.   

Fanny, I am not Klaas...but IMO there is no reason to ban dolce.... IMO it would help some to see a real apology and EXPLANATION. Personally I don't care one way or the other. She carried this farce on for 10 months...giving her a little more time to come clean can't hurt. This is easy for me as I do not have an emotional stake in whether she is banned or not.

[mytime]

I thought Steel's avatar said "kot" under it ... as in A1, the kot (cat).   


Wow, mt, what did you ever do to Steel?   Way to win friends & influence people, girlfriend.   


May Steel & Dolce are the same person.   

Maybe I should not have asked his shoe size???   

[SunnyinTX]

I know you can't see this but it says "Monkey Protection Program"   

 

[mytime]

I know you can't see this but it says "Monkey Protection Program"   

I am just getting caught up again and...........


 

[Babybear]

Hey Steel,

There is nothing to expose but have fun trying!!   

BTW - maybe you re-read my post!!  I didn't say I was going to do anything!!  But I know others might!! 

I don't think you are helping your friend, Dolce!!! 

Mytime

I will expose MT...she wear holey underwear!!

I will expose myself!! I don't wear any!!

OMG  Steely Dan got more than he bargained for.  Cover yourself uip young lady. 
 

[Northern Rose]

I think it speaks volumes that Steel would write such a thing, and that he feels comfortable sending it to Dolce. Apparently he knew her better than we did.

Nobody played "Gotcha" with Dolce over all this. Dolce was taking advantage of posters; using them and making fools of them. Once that was known it had to come out so the charade would stop. Dolce made the rules and I'm vouching for Klaas that if there had been ANY chance at all that Dolce wasn't making it all up, it would never have been exposed.

There was no gaming spirit when faced with the possibilities Dolce was a phoney. I think the unanimous initial reaction was "OH NO!!! SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!"

Steel is simply petty and mean spirited and he's sending that e-mail to an individual he feels is receptive to that. I don't doubt he's right.

Steel was here to only flirt with the monkey's who had a pretty avatar.  Does my butt look big in my picture?

If that is your butt you are holding then it means you can spin your head around a full 360   

[Bud's Girl]

I thought Steel's avatar said "kot" under it ... as in A1, the kot (cat).   


Wow, mt, what did you ever do to Steel?   Way to win friends & influence people, girlfriend.   


May Steel & Dolce are the same person.   

Maybe I should not have asked his shoe size???   

 

[SunnyinTX]

I thought Steel's avatar said "kot" under it ... as in A1, the kot (cat).   


Wow, mt, what did you ever do to Steel?   Way to win friends & influence people, girlfriend.   


May Steel & Dolce are the same person.   

Maybe I should not have asked his shoe size???   

 

[zoeandme]

I think it speaks volumes that Steel would write such a thing, and that he feels comfortable sending it to Dolce. Apparently he knew her better than we did.

Nobody played "Gotcha" with Dolce over all this. Dolce was taking advantage of posters; using them and making fools of them. Once that was known it had to come out so the charade would stop. Dolce made the rules and I'm vouching for Klaas that if there had been ANY chance at all that Dolce wasn't making it all up, it would never have been exposed.

There was no gaming spirit when faced with the possibilities Dolce was a phoney. I think the unanimous initial reaction was "OH NO!!! SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!"

Steel is simply petty and mean spirited and he's sending that e-mail to an individual he feels is receptive to that. I don't doubt he's right.

Steel was here to only flirt with the monkey's who had a pretty avatar.  Does my butt look big in my picture?

I agree with you about Steel....I mostly lurk, but over time I have witnessed him being overly flirty with a couple of different monkeys.  Oh and yes, your butt is so big....

[Fanny Mae]

And are the shoes Manolo Blahnik's?