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Blonde......my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am so glad you were with her and I am sure she was glad as well. I am inept at posting beautiful pictures on the board....but they are in my heart... please know my heart aches for you and your loss.

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Death will not hold her, for she is IN YOU - always Blonde.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

I am so sorry to read of your loss, Blonde.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers. 

Take good care and know what a blessing it was to have been with your mom as she moved on to a place where there is no pain or suffering.  It was also a blessing for her.

Blonde,
My sincere sympathy to you, and your family.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs and love,
TM

Deepest condolences to you and your family. My heart is breaking for you. Prayers going out for strength and peace for you all in this difficult time.

Oh Blonde,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of your Mom, but so glad you were able to be with her.  Thanks for sharing with us the time that you spent with her before she crossed over.  I'm sure there were angels there to escort her.  Your words brought back memories of the final moments I spent with each of my parents, and my heart is with you, and I share your tears, as I remember how difficult it is to let them go.

My mom passed away in 1980, when she was much too young, and my Dad passed away twelve years ago this week.  But reading your story brought back the feelings like it was yesterday.  The river of Love runs very deeply doesn't it?  Please accept my deepest condolences and I will be keeping you and your mom in my heart.

Helen Back

My sincere sympathy to you and your family. 

Blonde,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. It's wonderful that you were able to be with her when she passed. I'm absolutely sure that she looked down on you as her spirit went up to heaven and knew how very much you love her.

Hugs

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May our thoughts and wishes wrap you in a blanket of comfort.

I am so sorry to hear about your Mothers passing. May Gods Peace Surround You and Your Family.
God Bless
GE

Blonde,
I am so sorry for your loss but of course you know Sadie is in a better place, no more pain.
You were such a good daughter to keep trying to respect her wishes. All of us oldies would like a daughter like you and you have set a good example for your own daughter.

I also am including a link to some prayers for you from gold Monkeys.

http://goldmonkey.org/index.php?topic=971.0

Wings Of The Angels
by Tim Chambers
A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.

Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.

On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.

Blonde, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel, I've lost my mother too.

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OMG  Thank You
My heart is so heavy with sorrow.
 I can not think or sleep.
This thread makes me feel love and kindness from people I have never met.
After all the running around today I feel confort here.
I Thank You for all of your thoughts and kind words.
I miss My  Mom so much already.
 With Love
 Blonde


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Thank You all from goldmonkeys you are all so very kind.
 I miss you guys
Blonde

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Blonde - I don't know you, but have been reading as you have posted during your mother's illness, and prayed for both of you. 

BG

Blonde,
I am so sorry for you loss.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

billb

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So sorry Blonde.  My sympathies to you.

Blonde - I cry for you as I cry for myself!!  My mother passed away last May!  It has been the hardest thing I have ever gone through!! I wish I had the words to comfort you right now! I really wish I did!! Just know that you are loved by many, and you are in our thoughts and prayers!

We had a plague made for my MOM that says

When I come to the end of my journey
and I travel my last weary mile,
just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
and remember only the smile.

Forget unkind words I have spoken;
Remember some good I have done.
Forget that I ever had heartache
And remember I've had loads of fun.

Forget that I stumbled and bloundered
and sometimes fell by the way.
Remember I have fought some hard battles
and won, ere the close of the day.

Then forget to grieve for my going,
I would not have you sad for a day,
But in the summer just gather some flowers
And remember where I lay,
And come in the evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west,
Stand for a moment beside me
And remember only the best!!

I cry every time I read it but somehow I feel better too!!
So I thought I would type it and share it with YOU!

God Bless you, your family and your dear sweet MOM and may she finally rest in peace!!

((((hugs and tears))))

My deepest condolences to you and your family Blonde.


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MuffyBee

Blonde,

My deepest condolences to you.  Your Mother is blessed to have a daughter like you.  Your family is in my prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss.

In Love,
weeble

Blonde,

I am so sorry that you have lost your Mom.  Know that she is with you in spirit always and no one can take away your memories.

I know this final journey has been so hard for you and your Mom.  She was so blessed to have you there with her.  Now that she is free of the confines of her earthly body, gone is all the struggle and pain.  I wish the pain you feel now abates as you remember your Mom is in a much happier place.

Anything I can do for you, just ask and consider it done.

I love you, Blonde.

Bearly

Blonde, very sorry for the loss of your mother...
Keep your memories of her close in your heart...

Blonde

My Deepest Condolences to you and your family in the loss of your Mother.

Hugs,

MsVada

Blonde,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.  My sincere condolences to you and your family. 
I found this when  Mom passed on in 2001 .  I held it close when I lost my dad in 2005 too.  I hope it brings some comfort to you. 


OldF

Blonde,

I was thinking about you and wanted to let you know that you've been in my heart all day. Again, let me express how sorry I am for your loss. What a Blessing and Good Steward of the gift of "Mother/Daughter" you have been. You did not let your Mom down when it got hard, Blonde, and you remained in the center of God's Will throughout. The Love that Sadie has now entered, guided your steps and He is still there. He holds your Mother's hand and He holds yours, too.

Your Mom is pain free and joyous and healthy and surrounded by wonder and beauty and love.......... the love transcends the divide and you are in her heart, Blonde. Sadie has clarity of wonderous understanding and my prayer is that you feel God's comforting hands holding you during this difficult time.

You are so loved, and I wish I could give you a hug and wipe away the tears. If there is anything at all you need, please know it would hurt my feelings if you didn't let me know. I love you, Blonde!

1 Corinthians 13:

12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face;
now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known.
13 But now faith, hope, love, abide these three;
but the greatest of these is love.

Blonde, just wanted to check in to let you know I'm thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. One night when I was driving thru heavy snow and traffic in NJ and terrified I couldn't navigate both, I smelled Rick's cologne fill the car.

It's such a comfort, I hope you smell gardenias often. I love gardenias, carried them in my wedding bouquet.

I hope you can 'see' your mother dancing in heaven's clouds with your Dad in your mind's eye.

Blonde, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. I miss my mother every day of my life and thank God for having given me such a wonderful one!

Like nonesuche's cologne filled car, and your recognized fragrance of gardenia scented lotion, I awoke from fretful sleep 2 days after Daddy died, to the smell of a freshly starched shirt and tobacco ( to me a heavenly odor ) that immediately set me in the arms of Daddy from the time I can remember. As a child, I sat on his lap and that smell was his alone. As an adult, every hug was surrounded by that smell. I know, as you and nonesuche know, that it was a gift uniquely tailored for us, packaged so that we wouldn't miss it. We all cared for our loved ones that passed, and despite my firm beliefs, it's difficult to go from total focus as caregiver to no need any longer. I admit, I found my mind wandering aimlessly and still hoping he was OK and cared for.

After that awakening, even my mind knew he had no need for physical help anymore. He was utterly whole, he was more alive and fulfilled than ever before. There had been rejoicing at his homecoming and he was amidst a joyous reunion with his own Mother, Father, and family. Perfect Love had not forgotten me either, and I believe that Daddy, in his heavenly understanding, helped fashion that gift just for me as a promise to be there to greet me someday, and the same Christ who was standing with my Father, and also living within me, brought that gift to my awareness, to comfort me.

Some of the work we do is eternal in nature. Your caregiving to Sadie, Blonde, is eternal. The love you shared your whole life is eternal. You remain in my heart and prayers. I love you!

Blonde - You and your family continue to be in my thoughts. 
With heartfelt condolences.
Can.

Blonde, I just saw that your mother passed away.  I'm so sorry.  Please accept my sincere sympathy.

Mary

Blonde so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family. The hardest thing in my life has been my mother's passing, not a day goes by that I don't think about her. God bless you and your family. Mary

Blonde, I have been out of town and just got truly back into the cage today. I am so sorry about your mom. I hope you are doing well. Remember she loves you and you loved her tremendously. God Bless. JSM

I was just in the prayer thread and saw your experience and cried and cried. My mom is my best friend and the thought of this day saddens my heart.

I will try to hang onto the fact that I have no regrets and have made amends to Mom and Dad and know that they love me through out all time.

I truly beleive Dad is with me always and we will never be alone. My Mom has notes for the way she wants us to behave, what we are to say{She has already proof-read her eulogy}, and what she is to wear,who is doing her hair, and the CELEBRATION better be festive and fun. She is a great lady and I can tell so was your Mom.

I only hope I can be as strong as you and that I am with her in the end of this life and the beginning of the next.    Glad to get to know you better even under such sad circumstances.
Love Jan

Blonde - My deepest condolences on the loss of your Mother. Take all the time you need.  I recently lost my Mom too, and it does really knock you to your knees. I understand how you feel. Just remember that we care about you, and we'll still be here when you are ready to talk again.

You are in my prayers....God Bless you Blonde.

Blonde thinking of you today...........
wanted to share a poem for you

Eight million candle lights
Alive and majestic
Balance on the head of a pin
An elephant floats on butterfly wings
The earth is paper thin
The Yin and the Yang can never meet
Yet there always bound together as one
So life is to death and love is to hate
And darkness is broken by the sun   http://tinyurl.com/coekha

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Blonde, that I can be only half the daughter to my Mom that you were/are to yours, I will be a good daughter.

God bless you!  Take care of yourself and your needs.  Go do something you have wanted to do for a while and talk to your Mom as you do it as if she were there.  She is still with you.

Love you,

B