Scared Monkeys Discussion Forum

You come in groups to press your side of the case, that the non custodial parent, the one not even near the home of Haleigh, somehow is responsible for her disapearance. 

My suggestion would be to stay over at the Haleighbug.net site or go join Mlee at BNH or GM or CnG


The Admin of your site has openly bashed SM

(http://i118.photobucket.com/albums/o100/klaasen3/Sub7/MleeBNH.jpg)

Well, now isn't that interesting to say the least  ::MonkeyEek::

 ::MonkeyNoNo:: I read this yesterday Klaas and was shocked.........I've rarely ever seen any monkey act "abusive", except those that have been rightly banned, and I'm not quite sure who they think is owed an apology (which never came)or who has suffered from being a member of SM ::MonkeyConfused::

So, I guess I don't need this cute lil monkey face anymore ::MonkeyDevil2::

Many have tried, none have succeeded IMO.  Good luck with that. ::MonkeyRoll::

What?

There is no reason to openly put down the SM site or us Monkey's to encourage members to join the Haleighbug site.. I was a member and no longer my choice ..

Monkey's Rule..... ::MonkeyCheer2:: ::MonkeyCheer2:: ::MonkeyCheer2::

I agree JG............ ::MonkeyCheer2::

The purpose of the list is so that the people at SM that are the brunt of your posts will know who they are dealing with.  When you show up in the thread as a group it does make me wonder the motives. 

this is not fair...what mlee or any other member writes on another forum does not reflect what others who are also on that forum think or feel....most of us are not even aware of what went down, what happened, talk in code etc...to my knowledge, anyone can join over there...I don't post often, was invited to join and I did not see it as a "gang up" site at all...If I felt that any of this would have been something that I wanted to hide, then I would have used a different name to post under...
now if we are going to go into what other members post on other forums, some need to take a peak in at topix and see how a few  much loved posters from here  talk and treat some of the members here ...they use fake names and other id's to bash some of us on other forums and come over here as sweet as can be and they know darn well that they are favored by the mods here and will get away with what ever they want to say..
and also, who are the groups that you speak of? I see a few groups that show up at once as well who have similar views, does that not make you wonder about their motives as well????

I don't think that this is fair at all! you are labeling everyone on a  forum that most don't even post on very often....you have no idea what the posts could have been...doesn't mean that it was about people over her at all...it could have been as simple as ...good morning...any news today etc...
THIS IS REALLY NOT FAIR !!!!! 

I don't think that should say the brunt of my  posts, because I haven't said anything out of the way to anyone, Have I ?  If I have please direct me to it.  I'm sorry, but I'm lost as to why I am being made to look like I am against the scared monkeys when I have done nothing wrong, unless you call me being a member of another forum bad.  Please explain to me what it is that I have done. 


To the Scared Monkeys members who are here to only help find the missing....I applaud you for what you do, Please never stop!  

I agree...would really like to know where all of this came from because I am lost as well..

Wow, when did I say that I'm labeling all of you the same?  Like I said, being a member of another forum is never a problem, I am a member of many forums.

The problem is when you come over to SM from Haleighbug.net as a group and gang up on those that feel differently in the case than you. 

JNGA - did I say your name specifically?  Did I mention specifically (other than Mlee) any member of Haleighbug.net?  Why are you assuming I mean you?

I am not sure what is going on exactly but fwiw I was invited to that group by someone who wanted to discuss a certain possible theory with Haleigh's case. That was all. No one said anything bad about SM to me at any time. I am sure Klaasend must have a reason to question everyone if there is the thought of some type of foul behavior but honestly I never saw anything that made me believe anyone was anti SM.

The site was fairly difficult to navigate so I did not spend a great deal of time there other than to discuss the possible theory.

Because You and I were specifically converseing back and forth here in the last few minutes and because you put what you did as a reply to my comment and because my user name is on the list that you posted.

Oh oops! I saw the title "To HALEIGHBUG.NET members" so I assumed. (Ignore my previous post please.)

I'm not questioning everyone.  I'm simply letting those that are ganged up on know where those people are coming from.  It's a pattern that I and the moderators have noticed for a while now.  I'm just putting it out in the open.

As far as being a member of Haleighbug.net, that is not a problem at all. 

IMO It is sad when folks cannot distinguish the difference between and argument and a fight. I was raised up taught that an argument is a debate and a fight well... we all know what that means. I am sick of the fighting that goes on in any of the groups. I disagree with that type of behavior as it does nothing to help anything so I completely understand your stance against it.

and Klaas, what about the ones who have their own groups HERE and gang up on us who don't share their views?? they email back and forth and discuss things and then come here and post ....we see it!! why don't you?  they gang up on other forums...I can bring over plenty of posts if you want me to...
I have never gone to Haleighbug or any other forum and then come straight over here to gang up on anyone...I am my own person, think for myself and have my own views which are not always what the group thinks that I should think...no one influences how I feel.....
like I said, I have hardly posted over there, some have not posted at all and some have posted a lot...does not mean a thing....so we post on other forums....so does everyone else here...
I don't organize with anyone to come here and bash any forum member...if I want to bash someone, I can do it on my own just fine...I don't need a gang behind me to do it..
I would really like to see what you are meaning by ganging up on other members?
because there may be a few who don't agree on the Crystal/ron bashing? do any of the members of Haleigh bug gang up on any other members on any other threads?
I am just not getting this at all...
I would really like to see some examples of the 'ganging up' that you are referring to...thank you...

 ::MonkeyShocked::  Just so all the monkeys know, I have not ganged up on anyone, nor do I want to...I don't have time for childish behavier like that.  I do however feel that I am being picked on for no reason.  There, in the past, have been monkeys that have ganged up on their fellow monkeys, but none of them are members of HB.

can you show when any of us have shown up in this listing as a group? the same posters are always on the Haleigh thread here..so it would be hard not to post at the same time that the other four or five posters are posting..doesn't mean that we all showed up to gang up on anyone...even if you were not talking about me or JNGA or anyone else that is on that list, you made a generalization by posting this list of members...members who have not done anything wrong...
it is interesting that you have the members group listing cause to be honest with you, I did not know who all the members were over there...that is how involved I was in the whole thing...and yet, since my name is showing up on the list, that makes me look like someone who has bashed SM and it's members...not fair to have done this Klaas...in my opinion for what ever that counts for...

Klaas, I have looked but can't find the place where I can delete my account, Would you be so kind as to do it for me or point me in the right direction.  I just want you all to know that I have done nothing wrong.  To the one's who are truely here for the missing, Please don't stop searching  Monkey Huggs  

I believe we are all here for the missing.

klaas, this is confusing. By posting the member list am I to conclude that when I see 2 or more from the list posting at the same time...they're 'ganging up'? Because that's how it reads to me.

thanks rosie...

this is really outrageous...it has done nothing but inflame and divide the forum...in my opinion.

The member list has been deleted. 

I have removed the member list but to answer your question, pretty much yes.  That has been the pattern.

MOO~But I don't think so, I think she opened this thread after all the hoopla and "code" talk the other day that started the ban of MLEE (I'm NOT speaking for Klaas or anyone) just my perception of why she started the thread......if anyone wanted to talk about how they don't argue etc over there, they can do it here and NOT on the normal Haleigh thread. There were HB members that would tell our members "you'll just have to trust me"  ::MonkeyConfused:: when asked why they held a certain opinion they held, it ....

In regards to the members, that has never been private and anyone has access to iot, so I don't see the big deal in posting the names as most already knew anyway. JMO on things............

You cannot delete your account.  You don't have to post here, nobody is forcing you to stay.

Who are the members that you are talking about?

that is because your name is not on it and you were not one of the ones who has been perceived from now on as a person who goes behind the scenes to talk about other members here...
who are you talking about who was talking in"code" and give us an example..
because I don't know anything about it!!! and if the member list was free for anyone to go see, they had the chance to go see it if they wanted to...it did not have to be printed on here....and with the implication behind it...Please, show all of us the code that you speak of and please break the code as well so that it is clear that it really is/was a code ...

I'm locking this thread.  It is not a discussion thread I just wanted to make it known I don't appreciate the owner/admin of the Haleighbug.net forum. That they (Mlee) has been banned from SM.  Anyone with a problem with that or SM is free not to post here.  

The "code" discussions were in the main Haleigh thread.  If you wonder who was talking about who I suggest you read back.  I am locking this thread now.

But.............there's a mod from this forum on that list.
And I personally know one member there who would never do what she is now acuused of.

Cookie no one can show us proof because what is being said isn't true and I'm tired of going around in circles with this.  Please ban me.  Thanks

Yes, and I just want to know one theory of why Haleigh is alive and living with relatives, besides the custody issues. Just one reason, that is all I would love to see. Why would a relative do this, it seems cruel and insane to me, and if one did do this, why?  ::MonkeyConfused::

Why?  Can't control yourself?  Just don't log in and don't post.  What is so hard about that?