JSM's BEGGING FOR BANNING #28 8/23/11 - 10/24/11

[theboyzmom]

Thanks, JSM.  She did put quite a fright into me.  I was married once, and annulled pretty quickly to/from 'the boy next door', so that probably goes both ways (what TBM said).  Men can be pigs, too.  He was a mean man. 

I just read something that says starting a family is a very frightening thing, because the more it means to you, the more you have to lose.  When you think about it, that is so true.  I know you know what I mean. I would love to talk to you about it.

He is a widower, same as my ex, and that means, if the relationship does not work out, losing not only him, but his son, too.  I lost two sons in that marriage, and the loves of my life.  It may sound odd, but I don't know if I am willing to open myself up to that again.  They were never treated as anything but my sons, never used the word step.  It tore all of us apart.  Maybe that is what has been tearing up my stomach all week.  I feel like such a baby.

I was gun shy after my divorce too. My ex was a bastard and I am glad to be rid of him. Swore I would never get married again. But I got a wonderful man that treats me like a queen! Have faith - you will find a good guy and the risk will be worth it.

[theboyzmom]

Josef is eating  I have been so worried since yesterday's episode of puking in my car and not eating today at school. He is so thin and frail looking. I just wish we could find something that doesn't mess with his belly. Hopefully I will see the vet tomorrow and tell him to start the steroids. So what if I have to lose sleep the whole night taking him in and out. I would rather do that than have him not eat and wither away. 

(((JSM)))   (((Jo)))

  Thank you Bearly, means a lot to me. You are such a dear 

The Monkeys mean so much to me.  I miss talking to everyone.  I am here, almost every night when everyone is sleeping, but sometimes I do not write.  This week has been a rough one on the back and the belly.  I am not looking for sympathy, only trying to tell you all, I am not gone by choice.

My neighbor whose dog has crossed the rainbow bridge is having a terrible time and I spend some time each night with her.  She is drinking very heavily and that is making her even more depressed.  She rents to several people and they are all on vacay this week, so it has been even harder for her.  She could really use some prayers.  She has had a very tough life.  She will be at a basset affair this weekend and next.  This weekend is Girl's Weekend, so I will not be able to go, but I am hoping to go next weekend.  Girl's Weekend is another reason I have been lying on the down low this week.  One day of acting part way normal and it knocks me out for 3.  I should really go on steroids, too, but have been on them too many times this year, I think.



Love you
 

I will keep both you and your friend in my prayers - I have been down the drink too much road and am always open to talking to someone that wants to stop. Hopefully she will bounce back and get over her grief. Unfortunately, drinking will only prolong the process!

[CasuallyCool]

Oink oink. Thank you monkeys. Good night.

[cookie]

hello and good nite! 
read all the posts...been busy all day..
hope that everyone who needs our prayers and support will continue to let us know so that we can put our magic to work!

gonna check out a few threads then hit the monkey bunky with hubs...love that man!

[Green Eyes]

Evening Monkeys    I have posted a request in the Prayer Thread for our Northern Rose. Her and her family can use our Prayers right no. Thank You

[Green Eyes]

Oink oink. Thank you monkeys. Good night.

Good Night CC  Miss your smiley face here in the cage.

[MuffyBee]

Evening Monkeys    I have posted a request in the Prayer Thread for our Northern Rose. Her and her family can use our Prayers right no. Thank You

Link to GE's Post for Northern Rose in the Prayer thread. MB
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=21.msg1469484#msg1469484

Klaas has opened a thread for Northern Rose. MB
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=12112.msg1469494#msg1469494

[Brandi]

Evening Monkeys    I have posted a request in the Prayer Thread for our Northern Rose. Her and her family can use our Prayers right no. Thank You

Thank you for letting us know, Green Eyes.

It's such sad news.

[Brandi]

4Donks:

I left you a post at: http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4314.msg1469506#msg1469506

[Green Eyes]

Evening Monkeys    I have posted a request in the Prayer Thread for our Northern Rose. Her and her family can use our Prayers right no. Thank You

Thank you for letting us know, Green Eyes.

It's such sad news.

Your Welcome Brandi  My Heart aches for Northern and her family. It is so very sad.

[4 Donks]

4Donks:

I left you a post at: http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4314.msg1469506#msg1469506

You're the best....thanks.

[joesamas mama]

please pray for Josef. We are at the vet right now he isn't doing well. Nephew brought us here. Had to carry him down the stairs

[CasuallyCool]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

[BabsKats]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

Oh CC I'm so sorry to hear this, please let GE & I know if there is anything we can do, our love to both!

[CasuallyCool]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

Oh CC I'm so sorry to hear this, please let GE & I know if there is anything we can do, our love to both!

Thanks Babs. Just be there for JSM. I wish I was and that's what hurts so much.

[4 Donks]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

Prayers for Josef, JSM and CC.

[BabsKats]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

Oh CC I'm so sorry to hear this, please let GE & I know if there is anything we can do, our love to both!

Thanks Babs. Just be there for JSM. I wish I was and that's what hurts so much.

We sure are, I know how you want to be here and how much you love JSM. 

[CasuallyCool]

Ruby and I are praying for you and Mr. Josef. I so wish I was with you JSM it's tearing us both up.

[CasuallyCool]

On oxygen now. Joe, you be strong. Your sister wants to meet you. Oh JSM, I wish there was something I could do.

[CasuallyCool]

Prayers desperately needed for Josef and JSM, as she just rushed him to hospital. It appears a ruptured spleen and may not make it through the night.  :  (

Prayers for Josef, JSM and CC.

Thank you. It just hurts so much that I can't be there for her. :  (