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« Reply #2500 on: February 19, 2009, 12:45:24 AM »

I just got a call from Mom's Doctor the MRI showed Pseudomonas it's took over her lungs giving her no air.
He will try one old drug and that's all he can do for her.
He thinks she has a week to live.
He said if she should pass he will not ressitate, because that alone would kill her, again because she is so frail.
It would crush her does that make any sense ?
Mom body is giving up I can see this for myself, her skin looks like marble, she is all swollen.
 God wants her



Blonde, My heart and prayers are with you and Sadie.  I know what a sad time it is for you.
God bless and keep you both.
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« Reply #2501 on: February 19, 2009, 05:51:10 AM »

I just got a call from Mom's Doctor the MRI showed Pseudomonas it's took over her lungs giving her no air.
He will try one old drug and that's all he can do for her.
He thinks she has a week to live.
He said if she should pass he will not ressitate, because that alone would kill her, again because she is so frail.
It would crush her does that make any sense ?
Mom body is giving up I can see this for myself, her skin looks like marble, she is all swollen.
 God wants her
 
The hardest thing to do is to put it in God's hands.  Hospice will help you and her.  Try to keep her as comfortable as possible with soft music, lotion on her arms or hands, reading to her..... telling her it's ok and that you will be fine.... even though you feel your heart is being crushed.  Sometimes they tell us they want to go home........ meaning home to Jesus.  Prayers are with you in this hard time. 

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« Reply #2502 on: February 19, 2009, 04:33:49 PM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 
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« Reply #2503 on: February 19, 2009, 04:42:14 PM »

Blonde~
{{{{HUGS}}}} You are doing what is right. Continue to tell her you Love her and assure her that you'll be ok. You & your family have been in my prayers from the first time you asked us all to pray for your mom being sick. It does sound like the Lord is wanting her to come home to be with Him. Your mom is really tired of being sick and she wants relief from it all.
Sometimes the healing we pray for is what WE want done here on earth, but sometimes, I believe that the healing that Lord gives us, is dying here on earth to be with the Lord in Heaven where we are made whole. I hope that makes sense of what I just typed. I know what the thoughts are in my head, just unsure if they come across as sounding right. Smile Stay strong, Blonde. We Love You Lots!!

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« Reply #2504 on: February 19, 2009, 06:05:31 PM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 
Blonde Please talk to someone with Hospice....They have alot of Training in these situations and will talk straight talk...so that You will better understand what is happening with Your Mom.....I have gone Through Hospice Four times now with My Brother Mother and Papa (Stepfather) and My Real Dad...They are Wonderful in helping You to understand.....Stay Strong....You Can Do This....You are Much Stronger Than You Think....Hugs....Hotping
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« Reply #2505 on: February 19, 2009, 07:06:40 PM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 

You are strong Blonde. Your life represents strength.
Remember that.
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« Reply #2506 on: February 19, 2009, 07:32:42 PM »

                               PRAYERS FOR BLONDE AND MOM
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« Reply #2507 on: February 19, 2009, 07:35:52 PM »

Ditto on the Hospice suggestion. My mother passed away in October. Hospice is familiar with the process and can probably give you a better time estimate than even the doctors. I told the Hospice nurse that we wanted my mom to stay for a few more hours until my brother could arrive. She said she wouldn't make Mom stay just to please someone else. Hospice represents the patient first, not the family, not even you. They will put her comfort and desires first. Many times the person is ready to go but we interfere. The hospice nurse told us to stop talking to my mom all the time. She said the person needs time and peace to prepare herself. It's not unusual to have someone pass away while the family leaves for a short time to get food or do necessary errands. It's hard to remember at the time, but this is a natural process. Now that she's passed on, I find I am relieved that my mother will not have to suffer any more from falls and discomforts and illness. At some point, the body only can bring more pain, not much pleasure.




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« Reply #2508 on: February 19, 2009, 10:04:25 PM »

Blonde,

My continued prayers for Sadie, you and your family.  My mind tells me what others have already posted to you, but my heart feels your struggle.  Tell Sadie you love her and be strong.  We're here for you. 
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« Reply #2509 on: February 19, 2009, 10:58:09 PM »

Blonde ~ you and Sadie continue to be in my thought and prayers.  God Bless
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« Reply #2510 on: February 20, 2009, 12:09:05 AM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 

Blessings for strength. 
God bless you both. 

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« Reply #2511 on: February 20, 2009, 02:02:34 AM »


Still holding you and Sadie up in prayer, Blonde. 

It may not feel like it to you now, but you are showing tremendous grace, faith, strength, and wisdom.  May God continue to strengthen and keep you, and may you and Sadie find comfort and rest in His protective grasp.



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« Reply #2512 on: February 20, 2009, 02:22:56 AM »

Blonde, you are doing everything you are supposed to do. You aren't writing this script, but you're reading every direction perfectly. All you can do at this point, is turn the pages as they come.

Hospice could be a great help, but it's something you'll need to speak with the physicians about, and I totally understand you wanting to hear from your Mother, her own wishes. That's important to you now, and will be important to you in the future, whatever that is. You are in my heart and prayers, Blonde.


Father, please walk with Sadie and her daughter the path before them so that they feel your comfort and peace. Father, please guide their feet so that they do not falter, and help them know they can lean on you for rest and to replenish strength.
Father, be a light to them when worry and fatigue dim their outlook. Lift them from despair into your Will and Promise!
Father, Hold them in your arms and Bless them.
In Christ's name I pray..........Amen
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« Reply #2513 on: February 20, 2009, 05:34:02 AM »

Blonde,  I totally understand you wanting to do what your mom wants.  You are so lucky that she is sharp and can talk to you when she isn't medicated.  Follow your heart.  You know your mom best.  Do you have a brother or sister or friend that can go through this with you and be another set of ears and eyes?  We were told to let my MIL go by one Dr. and another asked us why we wouldn't try to save her.  We look up to the Dr's. for their medical and professional opinions only to have our hearts and minds stirred more!  You are doing everything right.  You are fighting for your mom and I am sure she is proud of you.  I would definately keep a notebook or journal with dates, Dr's. names, mom's vitals, etc.  When you get home you can review things and think straight on your own time.  WRITE DOWN YOUR QUESTIONS. Also, later down the line, you may doubt decisions you or the Dr's. made. Having a journal to look back on will show what you and your mom went through and how you fought for her.  Prayers are with you and Sadie.
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« Reply #2514 on: February 20, 2009, 01:54:49 PM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 

Blonde ... of your Mom's medication could be reduced temporarily so that her mind can clearly comprehend her situation ... she could personally make the decision.  The heavy  burden of indecision regarding your Mom's wishes which you are currently carrying will be lifted.

With love

Janet

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« Reply #2515 on: February 20, 2009, 05:44:16 PM »

I'm so confused I went to talk to our Preist today to ask for help.
Then I blessed Mom with Holy Water that they gave me.
An older Doctor was on today he didn't agree with yesterdays Dr sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I'm tired and want Mom to tell me what she wants to do.
 
These Doctor's are giving me a different story every day, the younger one wants to let her go.
The older one says she can live like this if she wants, until her body dies.
This could take a year.
I asked the Doctor to NOT drug her so much so that we can ask her.
 Mom's mind  is sharp when not on drugs all day.
I want to do what she tells me to do.
I just can't take all this.

 

Blonde ... of your Mom's medication could be reduced temporarily so that her mind can clearly comprehend her situation ... she could personally make the decision.  The heavy  burden of indecision regarding your Mom's wishes which you are currently carrying will be lifted.

With love

Janet



Thank You Janet and all monkeys for your thought and prayers.
I don't know how I would have gome through this without you I mean this from my heart.
I do have a sister and neice who think this life of Mom's is crul, and If they were POA they woulld end this now.
This was why Mom picked me, I can't do it.
The Doctors have reduced her meds and started her new medication.
I need my Daughter and a Priest with me to be sure I hear my Mom's wishes, we will ask her tomorrow.
 What she wants us to do.
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« Reply #2516 on: February 20, 2009, 05:56:22 PM »

Bless You Blonde......My Thoughts and Prayers are with You and Sadie and Your Entire Family!
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« Reply #2517 on: February 20, 2009, 07:15:14 PM »

[[[[[[[[[Blonde]]]]]]]]]]  so much responsibility you have taken on.
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« Reply #2518 on: February 20, 2009, 10:30:08 PM »

Blonde

Prayers and thoughts for you.

At times like this, some doctors look to a family member to "make a decision".  I have never understood this.  As a daughter, you will always feel you have done too much or too little.

Try to believe that the decision is your mother's.  You only speak for her because she is not able to speak for herself.  Think of the times she has spoke about friends or relatives, in a similiar situation.  Remember times she did give an opinion.  When trying to decide.  Speak her words, whether you agree with them or not.  She knows you know her heart.

Don't take on the burden of being the one to decide.  Speak for your mom. Use her previous words and thoughts. You will then be able to rest.
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« Reply #2519 on: February 21, 2009, 12:29:15 AM »

Blonde you and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers.

All the monkeys with needs / concerns are in my prayers.
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