September 29, 2008 Monday
Chicagoland Final Edition
Hunt is over, but not the horror;
A missing man's skeleton turns up in a mass grave, fueling new suspicions over how he was slain
When Natalie Worthington's brother disappeared in South Florida in 1995, the family desperately wanted to know what had happened to him.
But when his skeleton turned up in a mass grave, the Montgomery woman wished she didn't know.
The remains of Jonathan Tihay, a former Aurora drug addict and drifter, were discovered in a wooded area in Ft. Myers, Fla., last year, along with the remains of seven other homicide victims. The body of Tihay, who was 24 when he disappeared, was positively identified through DNA, police announced last week.
As heart-wrenching as that discovery was to Worthington, what may have led to her brother's death was worse.
While police haven't named a suspect in the deaths, they have not ruled out Daniel Owen Conahan Jr., a Florida man on Death Row for a 1996 slaying of a vagrant who was found tied to a tree -- strangled, raped and sexually mutilated.
Conahan -- who reportedly lived in the Chicago area for years after being booted out of the Navy in the face of sodomy and assault charges -- maintains his innocence.
"When you read about that, it makes you sick to your stomach to think about a human dying that way, and someone that you know and you love," said Worthington, 30. "That was the worst -- finding out about [Conahan]. I wish they had never told me."
Worthington is preparing to have her brother's body cremated and the ashes returned to the Fox River Valley. She recently talked about his life while contemplating the terrifying mystery that surrounds his death.
Tihay grew up in Aurora, living with his mother, stepfather and Worthington, who was eight years younger. She remembers her brother as a good kid who liked to tease.
When he was a junior at West Aurora High School, his mother and stepfather divorced, and the two children moved with their mother, Rose DuMont, to Ft. Myers. After a year, Worthington returned to live with her father. Tihay stayed in Florida.
Away from the influence of his stepfather, Tihay slipped into petty crime. "When my mom took us, she was an alcoholic, so she let him run wild," Worthington said. "It all went downhill from there. He got into the wrong group. He got mixed up in drugs."
Tihay burglarized his mother's restaurant and storage unit in Florida and stole from his grandmother in Aurora, Worthington said. In 1991, he spent six months behind bars in Kane County and then in the Joliet Correctional Center on charges of damaging property.
Linda Van Plew, a neighbor of the family in Aurora, said her family was close to Jonathan Tihay. He'd phone her every week when he lived in Florida, up until the time he vanished. She recalled him saying, "Linda, I'm doing really good. I stopped the drugs."
"OK, well, how's the alcohol?" she asked.
"That's not so good," he told her.
Tihay had moved out of his mother's house by that time, but he frequently called her. That stopped in 1995, and soon the family tried to file a missing person report. But police had little interest in tracking down a transient drug addict who had vanished, Worthington said.
Last year, their mother -- who was suffering from pneumonia and malnutrition related to alcoholism -- returned to Illinois. She died in October without learning her son's fate.
Then in January, her former roommate in Ft. Myers called Worthington to tell her about what she saw on TV: An ecological surveyor had stumbled across a grave with eight skeletons in March 2007, and the site was just 11/2 miles from their Ft. Myers home.
Worthington called the police and reached Detective Barry Lewis, who wanted to know if Tihay had ever broken any bones. Though she and her brother were young when it happened, Worthington remembered that he had fractured his wrist during a football game in their yard.
Sure enough, the skeleton had a wrist with a fracture that had healed.
Ft. Myers police already had extracted DNA from all eight bodies, and the two they identified had, like Tihay, been white, male drifters with petty crime records. So, Tihay seemed to fit the pattern.
The detective flew to Illinois in March and took a DNA swab of Worthington's mouth. The test wasn't conclusive because she was a half-sister, but "we were fishing in the right pond," Lewis said.
Because Tihay's parents were dead, there seemed to be no way to get DNA, short of exhumation, and Worthington balked at that. But, Lewis said, Worthington told him, "I still have some of mom's stuff, and in that is a hairbrush."
The DNA from the hair matched.
Then Worthington learned of Conahan. He was convicted of killing Richard Montgomery in 1996 and initially had been linked to the so-called Hog Trail Murders -- five bodies found in nearby Charlotte County, according to news reports. Authorities ultimately did not find sufficient evidence to pursue him in those cases, and instead focused on the Montgomery slaying, the Charlotte County sheriff's office said.
But Conahan's name emerged in the Ft. Myers case because, during his 1999 trial, a drifter named Stanley Burden testified that Conahan had tied him naked to a tree and tried to strangle him at a site near the mass grave in which Tihay was found.
Christina Spudeas, Conahan's attorney, said Friday that her client has "absolutely no connection" to the Ft. Myers case or any other slaying.
As authorities continue to investigate, Worthington's family -- including her sister and another half-brother -- mourn.
Despite the violent death, Worthington finds some comfort.
"We are going to be able to put him at rest," she said.
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Remains found of man missing for 13 years
Nov. 7, 1970
Tihay is born in Aurora.
Summer 1987
Tihay moves to Ft. Myers, Fla., with his sister and his mother, Rose DuMont.
March-November 1991
Back in Illinois, Tihay is jailed in Kane County and then the Joliet Correctional Center on charges of damaging property.
October 1995
Tihay disappears in Florida.
March 23, 2007 An ecologist stumbles upon the remains of eight people in Ft. Myers.
November 2007
Police identify two of the deceased as drifters John Blevins, who lived in greater Ft. Myers, and Erik Kohler of Port Charlotte, Fla., both of whom had disappeared in 1995.
January 2008
DuMont's former roommate hears about the bones and calls Tihay's sister, Natalie Worthington of Montgomery.
March 2008
Officials take a DNA sample from Worthington.
Sept. 18, 2008
Ft. Myers police announce that one of the skeletons is Tihay's.
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