DESTINY'S AUNT PASSED AWAY with a special request page 2

[jmagic]

Destiny, you have made me come out of lurking twice within a week, both times I have cried.  I know your pain, been there. She has always loved you and you will always love and miss her.  May God be with you to help you through these times. You have my deepest sympathy.

[kkate]

Destiny

[Tater]

Praying for a speedy heart healing Destiny..Big Hugs

[Lala'sMom]

Destiny
Remember what you told me about my mother a few weeks ago?  I will never forget that...ever...it healed many wounds and told me that life continues into the next stage.  You are the one that convinced me that our loved ones remain close to us even in death.  Your aunt is right there near you as you read this.  She is saying thank you for all the wonderful and kind things you did for her while her spirit was preparing for the next phase. There is one thing that transcends time and space and that one thing is LOVE.  You showed your aunt and all of us what that word really means.  Those memories are precious now and each time you think of your aunt she will be near you with her love engulfing you and holding you close.  Love never ends.

[LilPuma]

Sorry to hear of your loss, Destiny.  Love crosses that thin line between the physical and spiritual worlds, it survives the death of the body.  Your aunt's spirit lives on.  I pray you find peace as  you pass through this difficult time.   Beth Holloway, in her book, quotes a French philosopher who says "We are not physical beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a physical experience." 

[texasmom]

Destiny,
I'm so sorry for your loss.  You were an example for all of us in your aunt's final days, she was so fortunate to have you to love and care for her.  Love never dies, and so now it will be shared between you in a different way; but it will always be there.  I hope that the pain of her loss will ease for you soon, and that you'll be back here with us. 

We all love and miss you. 

Hugs and prayers,
TM

[SS]

Destiny - I am so sorry to learn about your loss.  My thoughts are with you during this time of sadness.  I know that you were very close to your aunt and you miss her.  Please remember that her spirit will always remain with you. 

[Magnolia]

God Bless you, Destiny.  I know you loved her.
It was evident when you spoke of her.
I am so sorry for your loss.

[can]

Thinking of you Destiny, in your time of grief, and I know that the love and devotion you shared with one another will comfort you in the coming days and years.
God Bless.
Can.

[Katysmom]

When someone you love becomes a memory,
the memory becomes a treasure.

Destiny, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. 

[SunnyinTX]

I posted in the other thread not knowing about this one.....

Destiny...LOVE never dies. Her love is always yours to call upon when you need it most. She walks with you in the sunshine and the rain. She laughs with you and feels when you are sad. Her arms are always open to embrace you. She watches over you day and night. FEEL HER LOVE

[anothermonkey]

I'm so sorry about your aunt, Des.  I don't know if you two made it to your court date, but even if you didn't, you still had a beautiful mother-daughter bond that some of us will never be fortunate enough to experience. 

My thoughts are with you.

[SS]

We miss you, Des.  You are in my prayers.  Is there anything that we can do to help?

[Nut44x4]

My sincere condolences

[KYcat]

Dear Destiny, my deepest heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your Mother.  She sounded like a most amazing woman, much like her daughter.  What a great blessing that you had each other and her spirit will forever be with you.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Much Love and Hugs to You

[klaasend]

Special Request from Destiny:

O/T...Dearest Monkey Family...

Last Wednesday...my dear, Sweet Aunt/Mom passed over...sorry I've not been on the forum for a some few weeks...but, I'm sure you understand.

I miss her so very much...I've been lost...the sole purpose of my life for the past 2 and a half years...has been being here for her.

My bio Family tried to put her away in a state mental facility over two years ago...and sell her home....I intervened...brought her back home...and with her lawyer's help....got them to leave her alone.

I lived with her 24/7....took over taking her to all her med appointmets....and finally 6 months ago her Dr's advised me to bring in Hospice...to over see/care for her her in her final days...Kat was a 2 time cancer survivor for the past 16 years....Kat was also the 43rd Woman to make Captain in the US Navy...never got married...nor had children...I was it...and I MISS HER SO MUCH!

Kat was stationed all over the world in her 24 year career with he Navy...we have talked so many times about the places that she wanted to revisit...and places she wanted to go to before she died...

I am asking you...anyone...whom I may send a small glass vial...perfume sample size from a department store...If I may send a vial of her *creamains* to you...to make sure she is all the places she loved so much...and to please send me a photo of the place you left her for the photo album I'm doing for Kat's life....The Director of the Funeral Home will be here with the creamains...to help me fill the very small vials....Her/My family refused to let her be buried in the Family plot with her loved ones...so I've made arraingements...to sneak up there in the middle Of the night...and sprinkle some her on out Grannie's grave...because it was Grannie who raised us both...Kat was a depression baby...just left on a doorstep after she was born....I spent incredible amounts of time...trying to help her track down who her bio family was...no luck...

My Family is so much like the Anthony Family....KEEP THE SECRETS....

If there is any way you can help My Dear Sweet Aunt/Mom....rest in peace...in places that she wanted to visit...but didn't have the health to get there...please let me know...I will be eternally gratefull...

Bless You All...

Destiny

[MSE]

Destiny
I would love to help you.  How can I give you my address ?
Melanie

[bikerbev]

Destiny,
I am only about 40 minutes from the Naval Academy/Stadium in Annapolis, MD.  Do you think your aunt would like to leave a bit of herself there?  If so, please let me what I can do.

[Katysmom]

I am a few miles from Branson, Mo and would be more than willing to help you with your wish. 

[anothermonkey]

Des, that is so awesome what you're going to do for your aunt/mom.  It's a shame about the family.  It it great that you want to send her everywhere she loved. That is really a wonderful idea.  I don't know if she was a fan of Ohio (I'm not a native, but I've been here about 5 years now), but there are some lovely state parks around here.  We also have a beautiful stream (with hiking/biking path) in the "old town" section of my city.  They've recently redone it with beautiful fountains, etc.. but you can take some of those fun paddle boats down the river, and there are a lot of wild geese and ducks and beautiful swans there. (My kids and I just love it).  If this at all sounds like a place your aunt would have wanted to visit, please let me know.

I am sorry for your loss.