Lively Case Discussion #486 7/3 - 7/4/2006

[Carnut]

That mothering thing is a natural thing.  I can't relaly explain it, it just happens.  Only women can understand it.  There is absolutely no love that compares to a mother's love except for God's love.  Maybe God is a woman.

Well, Nature is a mother.

Since most all religions were begun by the Guys in charge, most all Gods are males.

Heck in most religions women don't really have much to say. Guess that's because most religions came about before womens lib.

[Carnut]

I think you are correct Carnut.  Most women tend to want someone that can provide for them.  They also want to be protected.  I know that is very old fashion, but I still think it is an inborn trait that many women have even in today's world.

I think a lot of it is the nurturing instinct.  Women want to tame the wild animals.

I think many women marry the wrong guy b/c they think they can fix him, and they can't.

I agree with you and you are sooo right, it doesn't work.

Ah, yeah, kinda works both ways, kinda hard for either party to effect much change on the other partner.

The one story that always gets me is the ever popular 'get pregnant to save the marriage'. Don't know how any reasoning can come to that conclusion.

[SunFreak2]

I don't think my kitty will care if I cry, he is still a young kitty and he is mean,,, but when he is tired he is so loveable! He lays across the back of my neck while I am on the puter and moves his head back and forth like he is reading!!!It's a hoot!!!!!

Keep his nails trimmed, first of all. Get one of those furry or feather toys on a string on a stick (the dangler thingee) and play with him at a distance until you tire him out.  I used to tie toys to a long shoe lace and throw it out and pull it back.  (There's those dang shoe laces again   )They usually outgrow the biting stage.

[cubbeegirl]

I think you are correct Carnut.  Most women tend to want someone that can provide for them.  They also want to be protected.  I know that is very old fashion, but I still think it is an inborn trait that many women have even in today's world.

I think a lot of it is the nurturing instinct.  Women want to tame the wild animals.

I think many women marry the wrong guy b/c they think they can fix him, and they can't.

I agree with you and you are sooo right, it doesn't work.

Ah, yeah, kinda works both ways, kinda hard for either party to effect much change on the other partner.

The one story that always gets me is the ever popular 'get pregnant to save the marriage'. Don't know how any reasoning can come to that conclusion.

No kidding.... wanna add a little stess... have a kid....  

[cubbeegirl]

I don't think my kitty will care if I cry, he is still a young kitty and he is mean,,, but when he is tired he is so loveable! He lays across the back of my neck while I am on the puter and moves his head back and forth like he is reading!!!It's a hoot!!!!!

Keep his nails trimmed, first of all. Get one of those furry or feather toys on a string on a stick (the dangler thingee) and play with him at a distance until you tire him out.  I used to tie toys to a long shoe lace and throw it out and pull it back.  (There's those dang shoe laces again   )They usually outgrow the biting stage.

We have a couple of those dangley things... but he just comes up to ya and bites ya.... it hurts... am hoping he outgrows it, he is only a few months old.when he gets tired he is soooo lovable!!!

[igsigs]

BAD BOY?  

Incorrect usage in the examples given. Joran most certainly would be a gatherer and not hunter. Lipstick aside, he is more effeminate than masculine. A killer of small animals, a kicker of younger siblings, a school bully amoung a class of 10, petty thief to his parents and a pathologically lying weasel does not a bad boy make. Underserved size gives false first impression. This impression can be deadly when combined with young tourists and a date-rape drug. This being his most effective social effort, with mother noting that the goon was dumped by only 2 previous girlfriends, one for extreme youth. Too nice, they both said. Joran likely disinterested in typical male/female relationship. Sociopath indeed.

Is 'can i bite you' an attractive pick-up line? Was Dahmer a bad boy?

[Lala'sMom]

I am calling it a night fellow monkeys.  Enjoyed the stimulating conversation and thought.  See you all tomorrow and double hugs for Nemo tonight. He's taking a trip.  

[Anna]

I think you are correct Carnut.  Most women tend to want someone that can provide for them.  They also want to be protected.  I know that is very old fashion, but I still think it is an inborn trait that many women have even in today's world.

I think a lot of it is the nurturing instinct.  Women want to tame the wild animals.

I think many women marry the wrong guy b/c they think they can fix him, and they can't.

And some of them have a big bowl of STUPID for breakfast, lol!!      

[cubbeegirl]

BAD BOY?  

Incorrect usage in the examples given. Joran most certainly would be a gatherer and not hunter. Lipstick aside, he is more effeminate than masculine. A killer of small animals, a kicker of younger siblings, a school bully amoung a class of 10, petty thief to his parents and a pathologically lying weasel does not a bad boy make. Underserved size gives false first impression. This impression can be deadly when combined with young tourists and a date-rape drug. This being his most effective social effort, with mother noting that the goon was dumped by only 2 previous girlfriends, one for extreme youth. Too nice, they both said. Joran likely disinterested in typical male/female relationship. Sociopath indeed.

Is 'can i bite you' an attractive pick-up line? Was Dahmer a bad boy?

Yup.... I would definitley put those two into the just plain sick and evil category....

[igsigs]

Oh, and Happy 4th of July Monkeys!!

 

[cubbeegirl]

And Tyler, I too am trying to teach my son about the fine art of folding laundry and loading the dishwasher. Funny thing is that he loathes it now and I have pictures of him when he was very small standing on a chair having the time of his life washing the dishes....  

[cubbeegirl]

Oh, and Happy 4th of July Monkeys!!

 

Happy 4th to you too Iggy!!!!

[Hotshot]

You are braver than I am with the bungee jumping thingy....they want to take me up on the Superdome roof and I refuse to go!!!! I don't do well with heights....dunno why.....

Wow, and then to your house too.  LOL, I had to prove to her i am NOT too old!!

HotShot - I went bungee jumping once with my Dad.  He was 70 years old, and he had to talk me into jumping with him.  He went first, then I went.  It was so cool.  He's 83 now, and I've been wanting to buy him a parachute jump, but I would absolutely die if he got hurt doing it.

I am not Hotshot, but that is pretty awesome SunFreak!!!!!

Fif you enjoy it?

[Hotshot]

did you enjoy it.  typing in the dark...LOL

[justinsmama]

I don't think my kitty will care if I cry, he is still a young kitty and he is mean,,, but when he is tired he is so loveable! He lays across the back of my neck while I am on the puter and moves his head back and forth like he is reading!!!It's a hoot!!!!!

Keep his nails trimmed, first of all. Get one of those furry or feather toys on a string on a stick (the dangler thingee) and play with him at a distance until you tire him out.  I used to tie toys to a long shoe lace and throw it out and pull it back.  (There's those dang shoe laces again   )They usually outgrow the biting stage.

OMG! Milo is nearly five years old and he still bites and gnaws on me! He is a beast!

[Hotshot]

Hotshot, how did we find out about the blond and the late-night partying our Sporter is doing now?  Of course, I understand if you cannot divulge that, but we sure do want to know all we can about this evil critter.

A friend of mine lives there and works at the marriott

[Kat_Gram]

Well now Hotshot has got me sitting here trying to figure out the attraction with guys like that......

Guys like what?

Ya know, guys like the sporter.... or Scott Peterson.... or Ted Bundy.....

I guess some girls like it rough, or to be pushed around.  It's beyond me.

Is he out in public in Aruba with this girl ?
At the casinos ?
That would make an interesting front page post or a front page of the Globe or the National Enquirer. but you would need pictures of him and her together.
He is very cocky isn't he ?
Plus what kind of a job did he get ? Casino inspector ?
Drink tester ?

[Carnut]

Well now Hotshot has got me sitting here trying to figure out the attraction with guys like that......

Guys like what?

Ya know, guys like the sporter.... or Scott Peterson.... or Ted Bundy.....

I guess some girls like it rough, or to be pushed around.  It's beyond me.

Is he out in public in Aruba with this girl ?
At the casinos ?
That would make an interesting front page post or a front page of the Globe or the National Enquirer. but you would need pictures of him and her together.
He is very cocky isn't he ?
Plus what kind of a job did he get ? Casino inspector ?
Drink tester ?

Maybe she's a bodyguard in disquise?

[cubbeegirl]

I don't think my kitty will care if I cry, he is still a young kitty and he is mean,,, but when he is tired he is so loveable! He lays across the back of my neck while I am on the puter and moves his head back and forth like he is reading!!!It's a hoot!!!!!

Keep his nails trimmed, first of all. Get one of those furry or feather toys on a string on a stick (the dangler thingee) and play with him at a distance until you tire him out.  I used to tie toys to a long shoe lace and throw it out and pull it back.  (There's those dang shoe laces again   )They usually outgrow the biting stage.

OMG! Milo is nearly five years old and he still bites and gnaws on me! He is a beast!

Now I am really bummed.....

[Tylergal]

BAD BOY?  

Incorrect usage in the examples given. Joran most certainly would be a gatherer and not hunter. Lipstick aside, he is more effeminate than masculine. A killer of small animals, a kicker of younger siblings, a school bully amoung a class of 10, petty thief to his parents and a pathologically lying weasel does not a bad boy make. Underserved size gives false first impression. This impression can be deadly when combined with young tourists and a date-rape drug. This being his most effective social effort, with mother noting that the goon was dumped by only 2 previous girlfriends, one for extreme youth. Too nice, they both said. Joran likely disinterested in typical male/female relationship. Sociopath indeed.

Is 'can i bite you' an attractive pick-up line? Was Dahmer a bad boy?

Well said.  Yes, there is something very effemite about our Sporter.  He is not the "bad boy" type in the sense you think of the rough, tough football player who is muscular and assertive.  He is definitely a weird person who is sick, and will most likely kill again if the occasion presents itself.  I hear he is all the rage in the gay community in Europe.