Caylee Marie Anthony #93 1/16/09 - 1/19/09

[Garden Gnome]

I heard she was on a monkey vacation!   

[always 1]

ATTENTION! THIS IS AN AM-MONKEY ALERT!

A1 is missing! Has anyone seen her??

I am in Texas and no one can see me!!!

[Garden Gnome]

Keep posting guys, we are almost out of this cage!   

[Dolce]

Dolce, you are so gonna be a totally good mom!

Aw thank you!  Unfortunately I have world experience that I never would wish on anyone, Fuzzballs story, Janetruths, and ALL of the others that I could not read due to the heartbreak..are just that, extremely heartbreaking an very underserved of any of those who have had to endure it. 

[Steel Monkey]

Borderline and sociopathy are not the same.  However, the poster seemed frustrated to me and perhaps felt that borderlines were being accused of truly anti-social or pyschopathic behaviors.  Perhaps the poster herself is borderline or has a loved one who is borderline.  Fear of abandonment can cause people to do some crazy things, but she is right in that borderlines are usually going to take it out on themselves not others.  I don't know anyone who would wish that a relative, even a very difficult or abusive one, would commit suicide.  But perhaps a borderline would think that others would want to be rid of him/her for good.

We just never know what trouble and heartaches people carry around with them every day.  Some handle those pains better than others.  But they take their toll, no matter what, and we can easily step on toes or hurt feelings without meaning to.

In the situation with the Anthonys, I think the problem comes in Cindy's absolute refusal to admit any problem at all with Casey now.  In the past she has told people that Casey was a sociopath and chronic liar.  Now she acts as if Casey were totally normal.  She denies any type of mental or emotional issues with Casey, and yet she says in her online post that Casey was jealous enough to take Caylee away and not allow Cindy to see Caylee or even talk to her.  Is that normal?  Her daughter did not report Caylee missing and yet Cindy says there are "reasons" for that. 

If Cindy admitted that her daughter had had problems for a long time, that they were unable to get her to seek help, that they feared for Caylee's safety but did not know what actions to take, that they walked on egg shells trying to keep Casey calm and happy...they would get lots of sympathy.  But when she says that everything was okay, people know that is a lie.

As usual Hudsunn, your post is not only timely, but spot on!

This is true (but I gave you a whole row of hearts)

And I loved every one of them!

[peanut]

IMO, bottom line is Casey Anthony is a slore who killed her baby.  I don't beleive she has any personality disorder that would get her off murder charges nor the death penalty.

ITA. May I also add....Casey will NEVER harm herself...never.

I agree. 

ditto.

[Steel Monkey]

ATTENTION! THIS IS AN AM-MONKEY ALERT!

A1 is missing! Has anyone seen her??

I am in Texas and no one can see me!!!

Are you anywhere near South Texas?  We could go out for a banana split!  I'll even buy!

[Dolce]

ATTENTION! THIS IS AN AM-MONKEY ALERT!

A1 is missing! Has anyone seen her??

Maybe I forgot to unpack her...wait I did not go anywhere.  A1 where you at kitty cat?

[dottie]

Hi Ms Sam, welcome to the cage! 

hello all!!!im new to the post.i enjoy reading all the post here,all very good ones!!!

Welcome ncbelle54 

Greetings All Monkeys!

Has anyone had any new word about this??

Quote:
Breaking: Court documents just handed over to the defense in the Caylee murder case will be released any moment now.
http://www.cnn.com/CNN/Programs/nancy.grace/

Why, why, WHY do people keep trying to use sociopath and borderline interchangeably? They're nothing at all alike! Borderlines aren't consciousless killers, they're terrified of abandonment and have huge self-esteem issues. A Borderline in Casey's shoes wouldn't have taken Caylee and killed her, she'd have left Caylee with Cindy and killed herself, or gone on a bender.  Just because you get tired of someone's suicide attempts or pity parties doesn't mean they're evil or a killer! It really, really, bothers me.

Borderlines need re-parenting and DBT.  They feel guilt, shame, and remorse, and can learn to take responsibility. Sociopaths don't respond to that kind of treatment at all--they're just missing a piece. They don't feel embarrassment or guilt or even sorrow. The best they can do is mimic.

I can't stand it when people try to call Casey a "Borderline" personality. Cindy might be a Borderline. Lee might be. But not Casey. I understand that everyone hates their Borderline relatives and can't wait for them person to actually commit suicide instead of just making all those failed attempts or threats, all those crazy scenes that make the feared abandonment a certainty. But being a pain in the ass drama queen isn't the same thing as being a cold-blooded killer.

This is the most hateful thing I have ever seen on this forum   I'l have you know that my son just got out of the hospital from a suicide threat and I can damn well tell you that not one of my family members hate him or  "can't wait for them person to actually commit suicide instead of just making all those failed attempts or threats, all those crazy scenes that make the feared abandonment a certainty."

This is a totally asinine and irresponsible statement and if this is the type of comments allowed on this post I will no longer be here!!!

WOW...    

[NO1ZMONKEY]

Mtnmom -  I'm sorry for all the pain you've endured, also.   Hugs to you, too.   

I think we all have to be sensitive to each other's feelings and realize that we just don't know what others have gone through in their lives.   

 

Thanks Sassycat. 
We just never know if typing something might open a Pandoras Box.  We are a great  caring bunch of monkeys and learning alot from each other. Im thankful for you all.

I agree.   I'm thankful for my monkey friends, too.

Im grateful too! I feel like I have a bunch of new mommies!

And a few new dads too!

[Sassycat]

Fuzzball - thanks for clarifying what you meant earlier.   

Alot of us came out of dysfunctional homes  - and didn't feel love from parents and siblings.
I've never tried to commit suicide - but I've suffered from depression and panic attacks (due to suppressed anger and emotional abuse from my first husband) - and got help for it.

I hope things are better for you now.

[Leroy]

Keep posting guys, we are almost out of this cage!   

Thank goodness!  Quick - someone say something to make Peanut do another *gigglesnort*...that was too funny!   

[Mtnmom]

ATTENTION! THIS IS AN AM-MONKEY ALERT!

A1 is missing! Has anyone seen her??

I am in Texas and no one can see me!!!

Im filing a missing monkey report right now....

[peanut]

Keep posting guys, we are almost out of this cage!   

Thank goodness!  Quick - someone say something to make Peanut do another *gigglesnort*...that was too funny!   

haha!

[Nut44x4]

Keep posting guys, we are almost out of this cage!   

NUT is Standing by .....   

[Tevye]

This is the most hateful thing I have ever seen on this forum   I'l have you know that my son just got out of the hospital from a suicide threat and I can damn well tell you that not one of my family members hate him or  "can't wait for them person to actually commit suicide instead of just making all those failed attempts or threats, all those crazy scenes that make the feared abandonment a certainty."

This is a totally asinine and irresponsible statement and if this is the type of comments allowed on this post I will no longer be here!!!

WOW...    

Dottie, if you read on, it becomes more clear. It's one of those things that you need to know the backstory to understand. Don't go, I'd miss your bluebells!

[Leroy]

This is the most hateful thing I have ever seen on this forum   I'l have you know that my son just got out of the hospital from a suicide threat and I can damn well tell you that not one of my family members hate him or  "can't wait for them person to actually commit suicide instead of just making all those failed attempts or threats, all those crazy scenes that make the feared abandonment a certainty."

This is a totally asinine and irresponsible statement and if this is the type of comments allowed on this post I will no longer be here!!!

WOW...     [/color]

Dottie - I am sending you the biggest monkey hug ever.  I'm so sorry!

[CynInOregon]

Dolce, you are so gonna be a totally good mom!

Aw thank you!  Unfortunately I have world experience that I never would wish on anyone, Fuzzballs story, Janetruths, and ALL of the others that I could not read due to the heartbreak..are just that, extremely heartbreaking an very underserved of any of those who have had to endure it. 

I can feel your heart in that post Dolce. Big warm, understanding hugs.

[Leroy]

Keep posting guys, we are almost out of this cage!   

Thank goodness!  Quick - someone say something to make Peanut do another *gigglesnort*...that was too funny!   

haha!

did you do it Peanut, did you do it??    

[trimmonthelake]

O/T but

Has Sassy smoked yet?   
I hope not.