Haleigh Marie Cummings #11 4/04/09 - 4/13/09

[no rose colored glasses]

Just watched Greg's interview~he has always seemed honest about his past IMO, and just stated that Misty didn't want to go back because Ron beat on her am I surprised, NO............same on Ron we've heard about all along and his decision to leave his kids in the care of someone just off a 3 day bender, coming down from her little 3 day drug/sex/partying weekend is negligence pure and simple Get butterbean out of there ASAP before he completely comes unglued.

I totally agree, and in my opinion it would not take much for Ron to become unglued.

[cookie]

snip Heart:I would think that Crystal or some of her family members would have noticed that Haleigh's hands or fingers had been damaged during her visits with her/them.

I recall IM posting that Crystal had said that she had seen the pictures of Haleigh with the hands bandaged or whatever it is on her hands.

Personally I do not give much credence to that rumor.  IIRC it was not even on the CVZ site.

morning Heart...I don't believe that rumor either...and Crystal herself cleared that one up from the sounds of things...which is to her credit imo....she could have left that rumor out there .....but she didn't

Yes Cookie, I asked Kim about that right off and she said she even contacted the Doctor that took care of Haleigh that day at the hospital to make sure that it was the Turner  and could not be anything else and she is satisfied with the doctors examination of Haleighs hands, it was the turners  that she was wearing those bandages for.....

Yep. Crystal could have exploited the fact that Haleigh DID have bandages on her hands, and there were rumors about Misty scalding her hands, but she set the record straight. Those ARE bandages, but they aren't for abuse or burns. Sometimes the hands and feet swell really badly on kids with Turner's syndrome, and the doctor has to drain fluid out of them.

I finally found the photo of the bandages..  Once you see Haleigh in the photos, you realize, that she was much younger when the bandages were on her hand, very much pre Misty.. So we still have the commentary about the fingers in boiling water, which may be a reputable person, and very honest.. Look at her..  It is two separate incidences.

did you not see the above quote from HH?

[islandmonkey]

Just watched Greg's interview~he has always seemed honest about his past IMO, and just stated that Misty didn't want to go back because Ron beat on her am I surprised, NO............same on Ron we've heard about all along and his decision to leave his kids in the care of someone just off a 3 day bender, coming down from her little 3 day drug/sex/partying weekend is negligence pure and simple Get butterbean out of there ASAP before he completely comes unglued.

I totally agree, and in my opinion it would not take much for Ron to become unglued.

Very scary, in fact there have been 2 cases just this week where the father (and this is typically the case in these horrific actions), killed their entire family and then themselves, one was in Alabama IIRC where the parents where in a divorce and they had a court hearing the next day, the dad killed everyone inside the house and then himself and the other was a man in Washington state where his wife left him and he killed all of his kids and then himself outside a casino (in this particular case the neighbors had called DCF many times about the father, yet they failed the children by leaving them in his care), now instead of looking forward to Easter, they are planning funerals...........DCF needs to get their act together and in butterbeans case they need to do this ASAP as Con is a ticking time bomb IMO.

[islandmonkey]

snip Heart:I would think that Crystal or some of her family members would have noticed that Haleigh's hands or fingers had been damaged during her visits with her/them.

I recall IM posting that Crystal had said that she had seen the pictures of Haleigh with the hands bandaged or whatever it is on her hands.

Personally I do not give much credence to that rumor.  IIRC it was not even on the CVZ site.
morning Heart...I don't believe that rumor either...and Crystal herself cleared that one up from the sounds of things...which is to her credit imo....she could have left that rumor out there .....but she didn't

Yes Cookie, I asked Kim about that right off and she said she even contacted the Doctor that took care of Haleigh that day at the hospital to make sure that it was the Turner  and could not be anything else and she is satisfied with the doctors examination of Haleighs hands, it was the turners  that she was wearing those bandages for.....

Yep. Crystal could have exploited the fact that Haleigh DID have bandages on her hands, and there were rumors about Misty scalding her hands, but she set the record straight. Those ARE bandages, but they aren't for abuse or burns. Sometimes the hands and feet swell really badly on kids with Turner's syndrome, and the doctor has to drain fluid out of them.

I finally found the photo of the bandages..  Once you see Haleigh in the photos, you realize, that she was much younger when the bandages were on her hand, very much pre Misty.. So we still have the commentary about the fingers in boiling water, which may be a reputable person, and very honest.. Look at her..  It is two separate incidences.

did you not see the above quote from HH?

It WAS on the CVZ site, I remember this so clearly because in the past 2 weeks I have had two different authorities in Putnam county email me asking me to call about this post. It may have been nothing, but the authorities were definitely interested in not only the fingers in hot water from Misty to the statement that Misty hated Haleigh............do I feel like I perpetuated a rumor, h@ll no, better safe than sorry and the authorities can track back the IP and contact the person who posted this tidbit to either verify or rule it out. My feelings about this are better safe than sorry and I was also asked by these authorities to pls send an other info on the blogs that seemed more unusual than the average rumor, and I intend to do so in the future because it only takes one lead to break a case.

[cookie]

^^^^^^^^^
If mom and dad are having problems and they want to kill themselves, kill themselves and leave the rest of the family alone ....especially the innocent children who have no say in these adult scenarios that they are placed in ....they have nothing to do with the adult fights...makes me so sick to hear about these murder/suicides especially about the little ones...poor babies...

[islandmonkey]

^^^^^^^^^
If mom and dad are having problems and they want to kill themselves, kill themselves and leave the rest of the family alone ....especially the innocent children who have no say in these adult scenarios that they are placed in ....they have nothing to do with the adult fights...makes me so sick to hear about these murder/suicides especially about the little ones...poor babies...

I TOTALLY agree......it's the unlimate act of a cowardice and also agree they should just end their own lives and not be so incredibly selfish in taking everyone else with them. It's funny that I had talked about these scenarios with my son's psychologist yrs ago, and about the fact that women will usually just take their own life and men take everyone's, he agreed with me that that is 99% of the time the facts proven by statistics.

[islandmonkey]

Keeping Haleigh in my prayers during this season of miracles!

[mlee]

Just watched Greg's interview~he has always seemed honest about his past IMO, and just stated that Misty didn't want to go back because Ron beat on her am I surprised, NO............same on Ron we've heard about all along and his decision to leave his kids in the care of someone just off a 3 day bender, coming down from her little 3 day drug/sex/partying weekend is negligence pure and simple Get butterbean out of there ASAP before he completely comes unglued.

That is exactly what I will work my fingers to the bone, to try to prove any further abuse that can found, to get that baby back to his Momma..

[cookie]

^^^^^^^^^
If mom and dad are having problems and they want to kill themselves, kill themselves and leave the rest of the family alone ....especially the innocent children who have no say in these adult scenarios that they are placed in ....they have nothing to do with the adult fights...makes me so sick to hear about these murder/suicides especially about the little ones...poor babies...

I TOTALLY agree......it's the unlimate act of a cowardice and also agree they should just end their own lives and not be so incredibly selfish in taking everyone else with them. It's funny that I had talked about these scenarios with my son's psychologist yrs ago, and about the fact that women will usually just take their own life and men take everyone's, he agreed with me that that is 99% of the time the facts proven by statistics.

that is amazing statistics IM!!
on a side note....thanks for the beautiful pictures for Haleigh..very lovely to look at

and take care of that new little jelly bean on his first Easter Sunday! saw that he had gained some weight! great news...

[islandmonkey]

Keeping Haleigh in my prayers during this season of miracles!

Sorry, posted wrong photos   My brain is on overdrive with everything going on in my life and these sad cases that break my heart

[islandmonkey]

^^^^^^^^^
If mom and dad are having problems and they want to kill themselves, kill themselves and leave the rest of the family alone ....especially the innocent children who have no say in these adult scenarios that they are placed in ....they have nothing to do with the adult fights...makes me so sick to hear about these murder/suicides especially about the little ones...poor babies...

I TOTALLY agree......it's the unlimate act of a cowardice and also agree they should just end their own lives and not be so incredibly selfish in taking everyone else with them. It's funny that I had talked about these scenarios with my son's psychologist yrs ago, and about the fact that women will usually just take their own life and men take everyone's, he agreed with me that that is 99% of the time the facts proven by statistics.

that is amazing statistics IM!!
on a side note....thanks for the beautiful pictures for Haleigh..very lovely to look at

and take care of that new little jelly bean on his first Easter Sunday! saw that he had gained some weight! great news...

Thanks Cookie~not only has he gained weight, but his IVH ha resolved itself and they are taking him off the antibiotics as his infection has cleared up so much......he is a true miracle and again I express my gratitiude to all who have been praying for him.

Just found out at my sons's BBall game last night that the neonatologist's daughter is in my son's class at school, and funny you mentioned him as a jelly bean, one of my daughter's friends gave her a onesie that says "mama's little jelly bean", and it has a heart formed with jelly beans, so cute!!

[MuffyBee]

OT

Please go to each thread and wish these two monkeys a Happy Birthday!

CBB's Birthday Thread:
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4842.20

Deenie's Birthday Thread:
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4843.msg763842#new

[cookie]

thanks Muffy...will do! 

[GramaMonkey]

I woke up this morning to the arrest of Melissa Huckabee for Sandra's murder, after reading in her forum for an hour, I came here for updates on Haleigh. Thanks for the posts from over yonder  it made me laugh, and I needed a good laugh. They cannot be serious, and if they are, well   

Next, they will want to dress like us as well.

you had to go and post my picture didn't ya?? you know I hate the pink bikini I look much better in the green one...

Maureen ~ We shall have another go at this. 

[cookie]

  woo hoo! grama! 

[Maven]

Hey Monkeys

While I'm waiting for our eggs to finish cooling so we can decorate, I wanted to ask this question.

In the Sandra Cantu case police have said that inconsistencies in part lead to the arrest of MH, they say some of her statements gave them probable cause. I am wondering since Misty has so many inconsistencies as LE have stated, is the reason she is not behind bars because they have not found a body?  If Haleigh has been murdered/died and they find her, would Misty still be getting away with her inconsistencies?

[no rose colored glasses]

^^^^^^^^^
If mom and dad are having problems and they want to kill themselves, kill themselves and leave the rest of the family alone ....especially the innocent children who have no say in these adult scenarios that they are placed in ....they have nothing to do with the adult fights...makes me so sick to hear about these murder/suicides especially about the little ones...poor babies...

I can never figure this out, why take the whole family with you. This is all driving me crazy trying to figure why people do what they do. But right now, if anyone can figure Sandra's killer out, I'd appreciate it, none of this, what we have been told makes sense. Why are these cases lately seem to be so insane, from forum to forum I go, feeling like I'm in the Twilight Zone.

[no rose colored glasses]

woo hoo! grama! 

Neon green, cool, this morning with the pink bikini, I choked on my coffee laughing so hard.

[mlee]

Hey Monkeys

While I'm waiting for our eggs to finish cooling so we can decorate, I wanted to ask this question.

In the Sandra Cantu case police have said that inconsistencies in part lead to the arrest of MH, they say some of her statements gave them probable cause. I am wondering since Misty has so many inconsistencies as LE have stated, is the reason she is not behind bars because they have not found a body?  If Haleigh has been murdered/died and they find her, would Misty still be getting away with her inconsistencies?

They questioned her earlier in the week, and she acted odd, then she spent the rest of the week in the hospital???  When she got out, she started giving interviews with the press.. True Starlet, and she announced to them that she had lost a big black Suitcase, but she was sure it wasn't the same Big black Suitcase they had found with a body in it, little Sandra. So, the press called LE, made them aware, then it was all downhill from there, she was in for about 4 hours, started out, not knowing anything, and ended in complete agreement with the Detectives. Motive??
No earthy idea.  If they had anything they could use against short elevator, she would be picking out throught the bars.

[smiles101]

I woke up this morning to the arrest of Melissa Huckabee for Sandra's murder, after reading in her forum for an hour, I came here for updates on Haleigh. Thanks for the posts from over yonder  it made me laugh, and I needed a good laugh. They cannot be serious, and if they are, well   

Next, they will want to dress like us as well.

Omg...lol!