Sandra Cantu #3 4/15/09 -4/27/09

[no rose colored glasses]

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Local news station CBS 13 is reporting that they have confirmed with officials that Sandra Cantu's murderer is being investigated for drugging and molesting another child. The Tracy police would give no other information. There are also reports that today another parent came forward and accused Melissa Huckaby of being involved in child porn.

That's good, but why did this parent not come forward sooner.

[Dolce]

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Local news station CBS 13 is reporting that they have confirmed with officials that Sandra Cantu's murderer is being investigated for drugging and molesting another child. The Tracy police would give no other information. There are also reports that today another parent came forward and accused Melissa Huckaby of being involved in child porn.

Justice in the name of Sandra!  Her name will strike fear into these assh*le child abusers and molesters.

[no rose colored glasses]

Wow, on HLN they just spoke with a reporter in Tracy that said information on kiddy porn and an instance of a child under 10 being drugged by Melissa Huckaby has been turned over to the district attorney and is being investigated. The reporter said they have been trying to get this confirmation from LE for over a week and finally have heard there were reports made. He also said LE is being really tight lipped about this.

That's what I think .. This is SO Much Bigger than the Arrest of Melissa Huckaby - Thank You for posting that.

I'm afraid to see what else comes out from this!  This is just so sickening and sad for the family of Sandra as if enough hasn't come out already.  And to think there may be more children out there that MH and/or her cohorts abused!

While I am so very saddened for the loss of Sandra and her family, I am hopefull that she did not perish in vain, but rather has sparked a huge investigation into something that seems to have been kept under wraps and hush for a long time.  In her death she just may have saved thousands of other children from going through this same nightmare.  My prayers remain with her family.

That is what I'm thinking, I have to think she did not die in vain.

[Izzy58]

As anyone been able to find any proof on MH accusations about her ex on the DV, Child Kidnapping?  I'm beginning to think with all of this new info coming out that if anything Melissa was the abuser and possibly she herself kidnapped a child back then and drugged and molested him/her.  .......just a thought

[spring2]

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Local news station CBS 13 is reporting that they have confirmed with officials that Sandra Cantu's murderer is being investigated for drugging and molesting another child. The Tracy police would give no other information. There are also reports that today another parent came forward and accused Melissa Huckaby of being involved in child porn.

The right parent is going to find this out and go postal on a lot of people.  I'm telling you.  I think it is going to get UGLY!

[Deenie]

I'm just saying times are changing.  And I hear you Deenie but more and more we see women committing these same crimes that are typically done by men.
Teenage girls ganging up and beating lone victims is not funny to me, mothers more and more harming and killing their children. 
As we as women evolve in our lives so do our crimes.  JMO

I hear you too. You know Why all of this Anger is coming out of these Young Girls - they are a product of their environment. What is that? They come from homes that are Broken, they come from homes that have no " unification". A broken home means no one is in charge. I am a Single Mom. This is not about Single Moms. These Homes - There is no Mentor. There is no Rules in place.  The Child has no Respect nor Fear of their Parent/Parents ... nor for anyone for that matter. All the BS ..of Be your child's friend.
Is just what it is .. BS.  If you do not set into place " Boundaries" and "rules" from the get go into your child's life .. there will consequences ... And we are seeing it now in the media, and on the news and .. its not changing much. All these Parents who believe every child is a winner that as long as your body is the room.  We don't care if you did not participate - you were breathing, you were there that was enough.  All this babble about Everyone's a Winner, No scores- in grades and nor sports. Group Effort - All are Equal.

Sandra's Mom was one that taught her daughter to be Helpful, to be loving, to be giving of herself. Sandra has been spoken about that she loved to bake, to be helpful to want to be with others ... She would have I am sure of it ..become a Teen that was a reflection of what she was taught. You would never fathom Sandra to become one of these girls who are now in the video's beating the crap out of another ..with the Mom's Jeering it on while it happened or after the fact. 
jmo

[Izzy58]

As anyone been able to find any proof on MH accusations about her ex on the DV, Child Kidnapping?  I'm beginning to think with all of this new info coming out that if anything Melissa was the abuser and possibly she herself kidnapped a child back then and drugged and molested him/her.  .......just a thought

A friend of mine's daughter was sexually molested when she was a child. Through the years she has tried to commit suicide by hanging herself is a cutter etc. She also was diagnosed as being Bipolar and was on meds but refuses to take them.  The daughter is now 19, lives with her boyfriend and has a 3yrd old.  The daughter is very abusive to the boyfriend and from what I hear not a very good mother.  She also has had her DL suspended for several speeding tickets and has wrecked a car. The girl is on a destructive path and I fear for what her future may be like.  So while I was thinking of this girl that is when I began to wonder if in Melissa's case she also was abusive to her husband and possibly her own daughter.

[klaasend]

TOMORROW, AT 1PM PST News 10 will carry Sandra's public memorial service ONLINE:

http://www.news10.net/news/liveonline/

[fatcatlurker]

Sandra’s uncle, Joe Chavez, said he found it difficult to contain his rage toward Huckaby’s family.

“I want to go over there and beat the crap out of those people, but I’m not going to do that,” he said as he stood at the entrance to the mobile home park where the little girl lived with her mother. “I just want to vent my anger but it’s not in me.”

“How would you feel if somebody took your daughter like that?” asked Chavez, referring to Huckaby’s own 5-year-old daughter. “Why would you do that?

He said Huckaby should face the death penalty if convicted.

I can't post the link I found this on.

[klaasend]

TOMORROW, AT 1PM PST News 10 will carry Sandra's public memorial service ONLINE:

http://www.news10.net/news/liveonline/

FYI - I've created a thread for the LIVE LINK for tomorrows service.  That way those trying to find the link quickly or from work can get to it easily.

http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4869.0

[no rose colored glasses]

Thanks Klaas 

[klaasend]

As anyone been able to find any proof on MH accusations about her ex on the DV, Child Kidnapping?  I'm beginning to think with all of this new info coming out that if anything Melissa was the abuser and possibly she herself kidnapped a child back then and drugged and molested him/her.  .......just a thought

I think the sh** is about to hit the fan 

[califmom]

TOMORROW, AT 1PM PST News 10 will carry Sandra's public memorial service ONLINE:

http://www.news10.net/news/liveonline/

FYI - I've created a thread for the LIVE LINK for tomorrows service.  That way those trying to find the link quickly or from work can get to it easily.

http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=4869.0

Thanks so much Klaas!!

[fatcatlurker]

I'm just saying times are changing.  And I hear you Deenie but more and more we see women committing these same crimes that are typically done by men.
Teenage girls ganging up and beating lone victims is not funny to me, mothers more and more harming and killing their children. 
As we as women evolve in our lives so do our crimes.  JMO

I hear you too. You know Why all of this Anger is coming out of these Young Girls - they are a product of their environment. What is that? They come from homes that are Broken, they come from homes that have no " unification". A broken home means no one is in charge. I am a Single Mom. This is not about Single Moms. These Homes - There is no Mentor. There is no Rules in place.  The Child has no Respect nor Fear of their Parent/Parents ... nor for anyone for that matter. All the BS ..of Be your child's friend.
Is just what it is .. BS.  If you do not set into place " Boundaries" and "rules" from the get go into your child's life .. there will consequences ... And we are seeing it now in the media, and on the news and .. its not changing much. All these Parents who believe every child is a winner that as long as your body is the room.  We don't care if you did not participate - you were breathing, you were there that was enough.  All this babble about Everyone's a Winner, No scores- in grades and nor sports. Group Effort - All are Equal.

Sandra's Mom was one that taught her daughter to be Helpful, to be loving, to be giving of herself. Sandra has been spoken about that she loved to bake, to be helpful to want to be with others ... She would have I am sure of it ..become a Teen that was a reflection of what she was taught. You would never fathom Sandra to become one of these girls who are now in the video's beating the crap out of another ..with the Mom's Jeering it on while it happened or after the fact. 
jmo

I agree again, I've had moments in the Haleigh thread, when they start talking about young mothers.  You see my mom was 16 when she got preggers and 21 w/3 little ones.  My parents are still married 40+ yrs later and we ran wild and free like Sandra growing up but we had rules and believe me my only sense of entitlement was over my body.  That no one but I could touch it unless I got a spanking the old fashioned way!!  Boy were we glad when mom lost her belt in the grapefruit section at the market.  Ha! Ha!

But yeah I think we are reaping what we've sown.

[fatcatlurker]

Thanks Klaas!


JVM Issues on now talking

[fatcatlurker]

As anyone been able to find any proof on MH accusations about her ex on the DV, Child Kidnapping?  I'm beginning to think with all of this new info coming out that if anything Melissa was the abuser and possibly she herself kidnapped a child back then and drugged and molested him/her.  .......just a thought

A friend of mine's daughter was sexually molested when she was a child. Through the years she has tried to commit suicide by hanging herself is a cutter etc. She also was diagnosed as being Bipolar and was on meds but refuses to take them.  The daughter is now 19, lives with her boyfriend and has a 3yrd old.  The daughter is very abusive to the boyfriend and from what I hear not a very good mother.  She also has had her DL suspended for several speeding tickets and has wrecked a car. The girl is on a destructive path and I fear for what her future may be like.  So while I was thinking of this girl that is when I began to wonder if in Melissa's case she also was abusive to her husband and possibly her own daughter.

IDK we don't have much info on her growing up.  Other than Mother Hen as child during holidays to the other family children and than on to her marital issues.  Clueless here.

[klaasend]

JVM reports -KOVR in Sacramento

May have been involved in the production of porn.  Implication that MH was involved in a prior case of a 10yr old being drugged.

[fatcatlurker]

Did you guys just here that??

HLN she may have been involved in the production of some child pornography!

[klaasend]

JVM reports -KOVR in Sacramento

May have been involved in the production of porn.  Implication that MH was involved in a prior case of a 10yr old being drugged.

On my list of top 2:

[N2WISHN]

JVM reports -KOVR in Sacramento

May have been involved in the production of porn.  Implication that MH was involved in a prior case of a 10yr old being drugged.

On my list of top 2:

JVM just said that Melissa had been in a relationship with Christian Sinclair