MONKEY MUSINGS DAILY OPEN DISCUSSION #43 6/30/09 - 7/07/09

[MuffyBee]

Hi Monkeys.  I don't post here often but I've been reading for a long time.  Now I see that Dolce has been outed.  Finally, I'm reading things like -

mytime writes - “Apparently, some  things are not adding up!!”

CBB writes - “Something is very, very wrong.....”

Klassend writes - “Dolce did pretty good up until the length of the babies.  If she had done her homework she might still have alot of us fooled.”

It's kind of a cruel thing to do to fellow posters.  I'd get angry because everyone on here was so concerned and happy for her.  I'm so glad that you know the whole thing was a lie because I caught on long, long ago, at the very beginning.  Even before I found out for sure, I didn't buy the whole bragging thing about her driver, the $2,500 diaper bag, etc.  There were times I was so tempted but I didn't think it was my place to accuse someone I didn't know. 

It's interesting how I  found out.  I was riding the train to work and there was a big poster – an ad for the maternity department of a local hospital.  The picture on the ad was the exact same picture that Dolce posted as herself.  Her avatar was even a lie.  It wasn't her.  She used pictures from their website.  I couldn't believe my eyes.  Then I started catching little contradictions she was  posting.  I was even suspicious when she posted a picture of her holding Sophie.  It clearly looked to me to be a doll and not a 12 “ baby.  Sounds to  me like she needs help.  All in all, it's a relief to me that you now know the truth.

BUMP

[SunnyinTX]

I really wish I hadn't discovered Starbucks coffee frappaccino ice cream with chocolate chunks on sale.  It is so good and soothing when you feel....ruffled.  I ate it all. boo hoo

hahahahaha...I am lactose intolerant so I can't eat ice cream.if I do I suffer terribly..but that sounds delicious!!

Oh Sunny, it is soooo goooood!  I am sorry you can't taste it.

LOL...enjoy it!!  I can dream!!

[Puzzler]

You know I don't know too many people that are young, beautiful, rich, talented, have a near perfect pregnacy with twins and spend a good part of the day on the computer.

I should have followed the old - "If it is too good to be true......." rule!! 

Mytime...when you spoke on the phone with Dolce...did she sound like a young woman in her twenties (I know you can't always tell)

[mytime]

You know I don't know too many people that are young, beautiful, rich, talented, have a near perfect pregnacy with twins and spend a good part of the day on the computer.

I should have followed the old - "If it is too good to be true......." rule!! 

Mytime...when you spoke on the phone with Dolce...did she sound like a young woman in her twenties (I know you can't always tell)

Yes, she did!  She sounded sweet and nice too. 

[BabsKats]

Did she also have the voice of a 12 year old, so she didn't make calls cause no one took her as a serious adult?

[mytime]

I think I only talked to her twice maybe 3 times....not long though.   

[Fanny Mae]

changing the subject!!!

Why in the hell do we have 2 musing type threads?  this is confusing!! OK....I want my own musing thread.....this is CRAZY!!!  Musing is supposed to be a place to discuss OT things and leave the threads clean..now we have this one and one called JSM's BEGGING FOR BAN THREAD (NO LONGER A VIRGIN THREAD)....I don;'t give a rat's ass who is or isn't a virgin...   give me ONE JUST ONE MUSINGS THREAD PLEASE!!!!

Sunny, JSM's thread was a spin off of Caylee's thread, because we were always going off topic and JSM was begging not to be banned all the time. She has a vicious sense of humor. We all followed over there, and usually go on rants about first one thing or another. We all knew each other from the Caylee thread. That is my take on things. We still post on Caylee's thread, but when we want to talk about things or joke around, that is where we go. Sometimes its even recipes and pictures, and is not exclusive. Anyone is welcomed. JMO

Fanny I do understand all that....however that is what this Musing thread was for....so if monks can go to that thread for O/T why could they not come here?  I am too damn old for this jumping from one thread to another...gggrrrrrrrrr  It's gotta be margarita time SOMEWHERE!!

Probably because the same reason when I post here I sometimes get no reponse, except by a certain few. There is a crew here, and a crew there. That's the best I can explain it. I should just log off today....

Fanny......I didn't mean to sound mean...it's just strange to me that there has to be more than one Musings type thread.....it is difficult to keep up with and then people feel like they are being ignored. Or as in my case, I don't know what's going on with some posters .......I try to read as many threads as I can, but I miss a lot......today happened to be a day where I could spend more time than usual on SM.....but tomorrow will be a different story.....it just makes sense to me to have one musings type thread..and this one has been here a long time and was under utilized...then another pops up and it's suddenly very popular????? .but what the hell I don't make the rules, I just TRY to follow them!!

I am just going to let it be, and let TPTB decide these things. I just know that what we do on JSM's thread fills a need for us. Not casting any aspersions on anyone or any thread. I just feel lucky to be here at Scared Monkeys. And I feel really touchy today. And I feel like eating chocolate, lots of chocolate! 

[Bearlyhere]

Dolce's last post on 6/23/09:
"Hi friends, just wanted to leave a quick note to let you know that I am fine, a bit on the sick side, but fine none-the-less.  I am taking a break for now from SM due to the babies, lack of sleep, and some additional stress that was thrusted upon us.  Just wanted to give a heads up and let you all know we are fine.  I hope to be back soon, but family comes first and right now that is my focus.  I love you all and apreciate you all so very much and all the work that you do.  As a bunch and as an individual you all make wonderfull things happen in the name of justice.
Love
D"

I found a post of Dolce's that proved to be true:



Dolce on 8/26/08

Hi!  I am new too..welcome!!  These bloggers are AMAZING, and they catch EVERYTHING!  I feel a step behind no matter what..LOL

[mytime]

Did she also have the voice of a 12 year old, so she didn't make calls cause no one took her as a serious adult?

 

She did sound young!  But I believe now she is 27 and not 24 as she has posted!!  I don't see why she would lie about that though - not a real big difference. 

[numbersgirl]

You know I don't know too many people that are young, beautiful, rich, talented, have a near perfect pregnacy with twins and spend a good part of the day on the computer.

I should have followed the old - "If it is too good to be true......." rule!! 

 

I make handbags and I contacted her about purchasing luxury fabrics.......she told me she would get back with me...

But my real "ah ha" moment came when she revealed that she was handwriting W-2 Forms for her husband's employees on January 31.   Any company that's "all that" does NOT hand write W-2 Forms...for the love of God, you might break a freshly manicured nail!

[MuffyBee]

Dolce's last post on 6/23/09:
"Hi friends, just wanted to leave a quick note to let you know that I am fine, a bit on the sick side, but fine none-the-less.  I am taking a break for now from SM due to the babies, lack of sleep, and some additional stress that was thrusted upon us.  Just wanted to give a heads up and let you all know we are fine.  I hope to be back soon, but family comes first and right now that is my focus.  I love you all and apreciate you all so very much and all the work that you do.  As a bunch and as an individual you all make wonderfull things happen in the name of justice.
Love
D"

I found a post of Dolce's that proved to be true:



Dolce on 8/26/08

Hi!  I am new too..welcome!!  These bloggers are AMAZING, and they catch EVERYTHING!  I feel a step behind no matter what..LOL

 

[mytime]

You know I don't know too many people that are young, beautiful, rich, talented, have a near perfect pregnacy with twins and spend a good part of the day on the computer.

I should have followed the old - "If it is too good to be true......." rule!! 

 

I make handbags and I contacted her about purchasing luxury fabrics.......she told me she would get back with me...

But my real "ah ha" moment came when she revealed that she was handwriting W-2 Forms for her husband's employees on January 31.   Any company that's "all that" does NOT hand write W-2 Forms...for the love of God, you might break a freshly manicured nail!

Our company is not all that..........and our accountant does that for us! 

[Nut44x4]

what babies?

[joesamas mama]

FANNY? Get your big butt back here, and be sure to stand next to me, so mine won't stand out as so unusual!

Queen
"Fat Bottom Girls"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-D99n9f3vU4

  Muffy. 

[numbersgirl]

Mytime....that's why your signature line is what it is!   

[Puzzler]

I noticed in the babies' thread that the pics that Dolce posted are not showing up any longer.  Did any other monkey save those pics and can share with us? Especially the one with Sophia getting a bath?

[mytime]

what babies?

 

short and sweet!! 

[no rose colored glasses]

I noticed in the babies' thread that the pics that Dolce posted are not showing up any longer.  Did any other monkey save those pics and can share with us? Especially the one with Sophia getting a bath?

Have they been pulled 

[SunnyinTX]

FANNY? Get your big butt back here, and be sure to stand next to me, so mine won't stand out as so unusual!

Queen
"Fat Bottom Girls"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-D99n9f3vU4

OHMYGAWD!  I love it!!

[Nut44x4]

Hi, I have called Dolce, emailed her, texted her, and told her what is going on.  Her cell phone goes to voice mail.  She has not responded at all.

I am sorry Always!  I really am.  I emailed Dolce a week or so ago telling her that people were questioning her.  She said she would come on explain everything when the timing was right. 

Her story about her bio mom just does add up or make sense now!! IMO!!

Come on when the timing was right? 

She claimed to have a crazy bio mom stalker who was threatening to take the babies.  She was so scared of her and was literally afraid to leave the house.

I see she wasn't afraid to go to Tranformers, famliy party, etc.  How could she be unsafe in her own home - on line??  Why leave up the babies avatar?  Ok, now the anger is setting in.  I believed a lot of what she said. 

Wow, and why would her crazy bio mom stalker threaten to take the babies? I really believe she is unbalanced, maybe due to being pregnant and perhaps losing the baby/babies. And I thought her stepmom was at her house helping her and her husband, I doubt very much if her bio mom woud break in and steal babies.

OMG...I'm on over-load! 

What babies ?