MOOOOOOOOOONNKKKKKKKKKEYYYYYYYYYS!

[Sam]

I hope I did not mess this up. I was not going to respond but now I must respond to 2 of your post.

I was not lecturing Tylergal or blaming her for for the event with FM. I admire Tylergal greatly. She is one of my favorite posters.

 This was just one of those misunderstandings that took place. She made a joke and it was a joke that most of us on at the time took it as such. FM did not, just as you did not think the joke email FM sent to you was funny.

When the disagreement escalated they were both threatening to leave. I begged Tyler to stay. I should have done the same with FM. Like I said in my other post we need all of our Monkeys.

As to Refugees, I joined Refugees one of the times Scared Monkeys was down. I NEVER posted anything that was against SM or Natalee and her family. I did disagree with some of the posters there. When the newer version of Refugees started I was not allowed to rejoin. Some of our other posters also belonged to the original. I never hid here or there that I belonged to both forums. Even Robin Holloway belonged to the original Refugees.



[quote="nonesuch]

Sam-



You were lecturing tylergal at the time Sam, blaming her for the entire event with FM, let's tell the truth about it. Odd you blame me this time, but never Darleen or FM, I think I see the pattern - the question is, do you?

I think you just identify with certain people like Darleen, enough said,  I think someone told me you can find her at the Clue Bus. As for Refugees well please also know I am not alone in feeling anyone who could tolerate the vicious spew there against Natalee, really doesn't need to even attempt to call anyone cruel or rude here.[/quote]

[Sam]

Well now I am back and breaking my own edict, you know Sam the more I read back of your posts, the more ridiculous and definitely targeted at me this all becomes.

You may need to read your own posts again, might serve you well. This one particularly, the one not directed at me? The one  you mention the MW reference and no tiaras?:

Sam

 

Joined: 28 Apr 2006    Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 11:47 pm    Post subject:
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Hi Monkeys,
Thanks San for noticing I was on and Hi to you. I had a real long post made and lost my connection before i could copy and paste it. So maybe this one will be shorter.

I have not been posting lately. I do not know if anyone noticed. LOL I was dissapointed in all the infighting that was taking place.I have never gave up on hoping for justice for Natalee and her family. I do think this post is going to upset some and I also hope they will get over it.

All of our Monkeys contribute something to this forum.

I also miss alot of our Monkeys who no longer post.

It really bothers me to see the no tiaras in some of the signature lines. If you go back and read the post that caused all that you may come to the same conclusion I did when reading it the first time. MW (making waves).
Hey Darleen I am making waves and I am not brownnosing either so don't be accusing me. LOL

When Tyler and Mermaid had the misunderstanding and I begged Tyler to stay, I should have also begged Mermaid to stay as well. For that I feel guilty. I am so glad Tyler stayed but I wish Mermaid would come back as well. I do believe a stepparent can love as much as a real parent.

I miss seeing Easy post as well. I should have logged in the night he was on and suggested we go to Easys place and invite others to join us.We have every single one of us been guilty of off topic conversations and I think Easy was in one of his hurting moods that night. He has contributed so much to this case also with his link to Jossy. Oh I know I am leaving some of our former posters out here and I am sorry but please come back.

I know we have been hoodwinked by some of our former Aruban posters but I do not think by all of them. With that said, I welcome KBM. He also maybe searching for answers. If they are to be found it is the Monkeys who have them. This is a post I made to him on his OT thread.

KBM,
welcome to Scared Monkeys.

I have not posted for awhile because of all the infighting. So I do want you to be aware that your first night here and the annoyance some showed toward you really had nothing to do with you.

What it really involved was alot of us Monkeys have invested 17 months of our time trying to discover what happened to Natalee. At times we become very frustrated and wind up taking it out on others. We all just want justice for Natalee.
JMHO

Sam


Ok All you Monkeys I hope this explains to you some of my views. Thanks for reading. It is Just MY Personal Opinion.

Sam

And since you cannot bother to read all of the posts in question, you just selectively pick and choose which you do read, here is one which was designed to humilate me. Read it Sam, your beloved Darleen wrote it which is WHY the no tiaras emerged, it was far more than one MW post which of course I asked her to clarify but instead she posted this?

I think you should ask your minister or priest or rabbi or spiritual leader what the difference is between anger and righteous anger? Please read this, you should feel much better knowing I"ve had to read it all over again.

darleenofalabama
 

Joined: 28 Apr 2006    Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 9:19 am    Post subject: Good Luck
 

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I would say that after having spent the summer in Europe and taking so much time away from this forum, that I've gained some objective perspective about it; however, I had done so prior to my time away; the distance has only confirmed my beliefs that ya'll have been victims of a farce; what I didn't realize was your collective and individual need for an outlet for your compassion. I hated to see so many of ya'll taken advantage of (and I'm not referring to Natalee's case, which is why I'm posting here), but I've come to realize that no one wants to feel they've been "played"; no one wants something like that pointed out to them. As people realize things that just aren't right here, they've simply left--as reflected in the dwindling active membership here. Around a year ago, I began feeling concern about the internal bickering and backstabbing going on among posters (and mainly with one common denominator), and I warned that if it continued, people would end up with only a small group fighting among themselves--and time proved me right, sadly. This has happened in spite of Red's and Tom's best efforts, too. At any rate, I've too much integrity to continue spending my time in this manner, under present circumstances. Good luck to ya'll. I hope each of you finds fulfillment.
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Now Sam you don't know the back story but I do, from Darleen's own email too. She does that, she confesses to how wicked she is behind people's backs to their face eventually. I think she enjoys it.

It seems she gave Red an ultimatum regarding me, that if he allowed me to return to post here last October <since she and Simian Sami succeeded in having me banned which was also in her email>, that Darleen said she would quit SM if I was allowed to return.

I feel sure you will try to find some way to justify how wicked and CRUEL this post was but I won't be reading, I've had more than enough, far more.

Pray for your support of cruel streaks Sam, but don't waste your prayers on me please.

Thank you None for finding that post of mine. Honestly it was not directed at you. If it had been I would have used your name. When you and Darleen had the disagreement on the MW post, you and some others added the No tiaras in your signature line. I did not say anything at the time because I could see where you were coming from. By the time I made the post you are quoting both you and Klaas had removed it from your signature.

Once more I will say we need all of our Monkeys. We can't just pick and choose. We do not have to like all of them. It might be nice to have an ignore button though.

If the Natalee forum dwindles to 4 or 5 Monkeys they will not have near the impact as a larger group. JMHO

Sam

[Carnut]

Once more I will say we need all of our Monkeys. We can't just pick and choose. We do not have to like all of them. It might be nice to have an ignore button though.

If the Natalee forum dwindles to 4 or 5 Monkeys they will not have near the impact as a larger group. JMHO

Sam

Here Here, I'll second that.

[nonesuche]

You don't seem to 'get it' Sam but not sure it matters, the no tiaras were put into the sig lines in protest of the horrendous post Darleen made, odd you have not one comment regarding her behavior ever. I don't need your lectures nor do I want them. I also regret the refugees didn't keep you there.

As for carnut post your post last night of "snatch photos" I don't think you have a leg to stand on. Tonight it's Easy you're after, who is next?

[Carnut]

Heh heh, sorry about the snatch shot talk, guess I was getting tired of all the gay porn talk.

[Sam]

You don't seem to 'get it' Sam but not sure it matters, the no tiaras were put into the sig lines in protest of the horrendous post Darleen made, odd you have not one comment regarding her behavior ever. I don't need your lectures nor do I want them. I also regret the refugees didn't keep you there.

As for carnut post your post last night of "snatch photos" I don't think you have a leg to stand on. Tonight it's Easy you're after, who is next?

None, I will respond for the last time on this thread. Honest.

I am sorry you felt I was lecturing you. I really thought we were having a discussion. I have explained myself over and over. You accused me of not reading it all in one of your earlier post. Did you read this from one of my earlier post on this thread?

When you and Darleen had the disagreement on the MW post, you and some others added the No tiaras in your signature line. I did not say anything at the time because I could see where you were coming from. By the time I made the post you are quoting both you and Klaas had removed it from your signature.

As to RU. I would have not lasted long there with all the hate filled garbage.  I just keep hoping we do not turn into the same kind of hate filled site. I do believe we should be allowed to disagree on some things. JMHO

Sam[/b]

[Jacqueline]

This is such bullshit.

I am not the only one who was sick of her tiara crap way before she made the cruel comments to None, which for some reason, some just like to overlook...

I do not understand how someone can be so cruel, and glad I don't cause i would never want to work that way.

Most of the Monkeys make valuable contributions to the Natalee thread and some just use it to make trouble...

I am very sorry not to see Flying on the forum, I really miss her.

But we are all better off when troublemakers just stay away.

[nonesuche]

Heh heh, sorry about the snatch shot talk, guess I was getting tired of all the gay porn talk.

which was beyond childish and how old are you? I don't appreciate the breast comments tonight either, particularly all of this on the Natalee Holloway board. Have some respect and grow up.

[LouiseVargas]

I am a Monkey. I see no evil, I hear no evil and I speak no evil.

Bill and Hillary have a philosophy for dealing with each other. "That was then, this is now, and how shall we move forward?" A winning formula.

Come on, can we please try to focus on more positive things? This type of infighting diminishes the credibility of the entire board. Do you boxers want to be responsible for that when our hosts do their best to provide a forum for subjects other than personal attacks. What are you thinking? Why?

[Angiex911dsptchr]

Heh heh, sorry about the snatch shot talk, guess I was getting tired of all the gay porn talk.

 I guess its time myself and my Sistah NONESUCHE come out of the closet. We are lezbo lovers.   I hope nobody faults us for that.. for we both are very loving and caring women.  A few know about our secret.. now its out. She agreed it was time to let it out.. so know you al know.

 I love you my Nonesy..   SMOOCHIES!

[nonesuche]

Angie !!!  

You swore you would not tell, now we can't have our formal coming out party and make it the celebration of love it should be ! I'm so disappointed for I so love a party.  

But I still love you too, smoochies to my Angie always !!!

[Angiex911dsptchr]

Angie !!!  

You swore you would not tell, now we can't have our formal coming out party and make it the celebration of love it should be ! I'm so disappointed for I so love a party.  

But I still love you too, smoochies to my Angie always !!!

 But but but.. we cant have out first lovers quarrel.
We can still have our coming out party. I am sure some wil; be happy for us     I will make this up to you baby.. its my turn to cook dinner.. what would you like?

[yapperz1]

Don't you gals know a secret is only a secret if one person knows it.
OH...the party is at my house wooohoooooo

[cubbeegirl]

WOW! You two have no idea how great a weight you have taken off of my shoulders. I promised you two that I would never reveal your secret for fear of the treatment you might receive on this board. I for one am happy that you finally have felt comfortable enough to let the truth be known. I applaud you for your courage and back you all the way.

[nonesuche]

you called me baby in front of everyone   that was our little secret.

[Angiex911dsptchr]

Don't you gals know a secret is only a secret if one person knows it.
OH...the party is at my house wooohoooooo

 

 Aweeeeeeeeeeee YAP.. TY so much for accepting us.. I knew you knew all along  you wont mind if we hold hands do you?  

[Angiex911dsptchr]

WOW! You two have no idea how great a weight you have taken off of my shoulders. I promised you two that I would never reveal your secret for fear of the treatment you might receive on this board. I for one am happy that you finally have felt comfortable enough to let the truth be known. I applaud you for your courage and back you all the way.

 Thanks Sweety..    It nice to get it out in the open FINALLY!
 Im sure you are on the list to come to YAPS for the coming out party..

[cubbeegirl]

Don't you gals know a secret is only a secret if one person knows it.
OH...the party is at my house wooohoooooo

Am I invited?

[Carnut]

Angie !!!  

You swore you would not tell, now we can't have our formal coming out party and make it the celebration of love it should be ! I'm so disappointed for I so love a party.  

But I still love you too, smoochies to my Angie always !!!

 But but but.. we cant have out first lovers quarrel.
We can still have our coming out party. I am sure some wil; be happy for us     I will make this up to you baby.. its my turn to cook dinner.. what would you like?

Aw shucks, two more prospects off the list.

[Angiex911dsptchr]

you called me baby in front of everyone   that was our little secret.

 But baby... I cant help it... now.. you know you call me your pooky bear....   dont it feel great to get this out?