JSM'S BEGGING FOR BANNING THREAD #2

[Fanny Mae]

Fanny Mae - I am going to be honest with you!  I really like you and your sense of humor, but I do take offense to what I read here today.  If you had any doubt in your mine, if I was joking around on the Caylee thread, I wished you would have asked me.  The answer would have been YES.  IMO, there is absolutely nothing to get mad about on that thread - with the exceptions of the Anthony Clan.

I think you assumed more than was there. 

Now give me a kiss and let it go!   

BTW - I will never let "denial" being a river go!!   It will forever haunt you!!   

Bump -

Did you miss this or are you just ignoring it!!   

MYTIME AND SUNNY, I left the whole thing on Casey thread #142. You and Sunny were the ones that continue it on. I said I would agree to disagree there and told you I liked you and respected you and I did not get the same courtesy.

When I felt like I would say more after what you both did the other night right after I logged off in just a minute or two.. You were the ones who brought it there. I took a day off so I would say no more. I explained on this thread why I was not here yesteday, because some monkeys thought I was mad and them and wondered why I was not here.

Today you come here and keep goading me until you finally got me to say something. So now I have. You have both made me feel very uncomfortable to post here. I wish you both would just ignore my posts and leave me the he77 alone! Period. No more to say.

I overcame my denial a long time ago. It is painful and hard. If that insults you personally, I can't help it. It is a FACT! Not a river!

[Sassycat]

I didn't mean to say that calling out my BIL on his abusive behavior was a mistake.   It wasn't a mistake, but it cost me my sister.   But, I probably saved my nephew's life.   So, it was worth it.   My nephew that I watched be born because his real dad was in jail on cocaine charges.   One day my nephew will know the truth.   But today, he only knows that his mom and dad don't like me.

Why do people watch abuse in families and not say anything?   Because it is too painful to speak out.   I know.   I have lived it.  But I have no regrets.

You did the right thing! Good for you. 

Can I add one more comment and ask for opinions?    This nephew - my BIL isn't his real dad.   He adopted him when he was 3 years old and they never told him who his real dad is.   He doesn't know I was there when he was born.   I think it is wrong.  He is 19 years old and I think he should be told the truth.   My oldest daughter was adopted by my ex-husband when she was 2 and she always knew that she was adopted by him.   I never hid the truth.    What do you all think about this issue?   I sometimes think another reason why my sister cut me out of her life is because she is afraid I will tell her son the truth.

I completely agree with you!!  I knew too many people that found out later in life and it really turned their world upside down!  The truth is always the right way!! 

Thanks Mytime.   We had no problems with our oldest.   She knew from the beginning that she was special because she was adopted.    I think when my nephew finds out that he's been lied to, along with the harsh environment he has grown up in, he will rebell BIG TIME!   I believe that is what they are afraid of.   A big rebellion.    I would never break the news to him.  It isn't my place.   But, they must be fearful that I will, since I was outspoken about the abuse.

[Sassycat]

NoRose and Fanny - thanks.  I did express my concerns to my daughter this week, and she understands.   I'm going to do my best.  Keep us all in prayer.   

I will 

thanks.     

[Fanny Mae]

NoRose and Fanny - thanks.  I did express my concerns to my daughter this week, and she understands.   I'm going to do my best.  Keep us all in prayer.   

I will 

thanks.     

I will too SASSY.    

[Sassycat]

NoRose and Fanny - thanks.  I did express my concerns to my daughter this week, and she understands.   I'm going to do my best.  Keep us all in prayer.   

I will 

thanks.     

I will too SASSY.    

Thanks.   God knows I need all the help I can get.        I do believe in the power of prayer.

[no rose colored glasses]

NoRose and Fanny - thanks.  I did express my concerns to my daughter this week, and she understands.   I'm going to do my best.  Keep us all in prayer.   

I will 

thanks.     

I always think it is best to let the child know who his real parents are, or let them know they are adopted, imo.

[Sassycat]

One more comment and then I promise I will shut up.

The nephew that was abused - well he had a brother (a real son by the BIL) that was never abused.  Go figure.
He was treated good and the one who was adopted was smacked upside his head regularly, and treated badly - until Aunt Iris broke bad.   Yeah - I have no regrets.     

[Sassycat]

NoRose and Fanny - thanks.  I did express my concerns to my daughter this week, and she understands.   I'm going to do my best.  Keep us all in prayer.   

I will 

thanks.     

I always think it is best to let the child know who his real parents are, or let them know they are adopted, imo.

You can never go wrong with the truth.     

[Fanny Mae]

One more comment and then I promise I will shut up.

The nephew that was abused - well he had a brother (a real son by the BIL) that was never abused.  Go figure.
He was treated good and the one who was adopted was smacked upside his head regularly, and treated badly - until Aunt Iris broke bad.   Yeah - I have no regrets.     

Sometimes there is one child in the family that is picked on. I have seen it myself. Usually when the picked on child leaves, another child is used as a victim. I can't understand the dynamic. JMO

[Sassycat]

I'm going now - before hubby thinks he's being abused or ignored.     

You all have a nice evening.   

[joesamas mama]

See you later monkeys, going to go home, change then go to the rink. Say a prayer. BBL.

JSM

 

Drive safe JSM. Have fun at the rink. Relax, you are going to do fine.   

Skated for about 15 minutes and left. Was just going into a spiral and this kid skated straight into me. That's when I grabbed my jacket and went home. The moon must have me skeered and nervous. 

[joesamas mama]

Sassy, No Rose, Fanny, Trimm, et al, I hope I don't ignore you. If I do, monkey slap me into next week! 

[mytime]

Fanny Mae - I am going to be honest with you!  I really like you and your sense of humor, but I do take offense to what I read here today.  If you had any doubt in your mine, if I was joking around on the Caylee thread, I wished you would have asked me.  The answer would have been YES.  IMO, there is absolutely nothing to get mad about on that thread - with the exceptions of the Anthony Clan.

I think you assumed more than was there. 

Now give me a kiss and let it go!   

BTW - I will never let "denial" being a river go!!   It will forever haunt you!!   

Bump -

Did you miss this or are you just ignoring it!!   

MYTIME AND SUNNY, I left the whole thing on Casey thread #142. You and Sunny were the ones that continue it on. I said I would agree to disagree there and told you I liked you and respected you and I did not get the same courtesy.

When I felt like I would say more after what you both did the other night right after I logged off in just a minute or two.. You were the ones who brought it there. I took a day off so I would say no more. I explained on this thread why I was not here yesteday, because some monkeys thought I was mad and them and wondered why I was not here.

Today you come here and keep goading me until you finally got me to say something. So now I have. You have both made me feel very uncomfortable to post here. I wish you both would just ignore my posts and leave me the he77 alone! Period. No more to say.

I overcame my denial a long time ago. It is painful and hard. If that insults you personally, I can't help it. It is a FACT! Not a river!

First of all, You did not let it go!!  You came to this thread to bad mouth what you preceived as double teaming.  You did not come here and say I just needed a day off.

As for you not getting the same courtesy....You are wrong again!!   Yes you did!  It is all there for anyone to read!!

Also, for your comment - "I wish you both would just ignore my posts and leave me the he77 alone! Period. No more to say."  Very nice grown up attitude!!  Becareful of the words you choose to speak to me with!! 

Lastly, we can post where ever we want and YOU have no right to say we can't!! If you are uncomfortable from your own making then all I can say is that is YOUR problem that is something YOU need to address. 

I am done with this subject and suggest you keep your rants private and not where anyone can read them.  I don't believe Klaas has said this is YOUR private thread for you to bash other posters or be rude to or about them!!   

I apologize to all the other kind monkeys in this thread that had to be part of this!!   

[joesamas mama]

See you later monkeys, going to go home, change then go to the rink. Say a prayer. BBL.

JSM

Have fun, but be careful 

  It wasn't fun and I was careful. Thanks No Rose! I think it is quite safer in the cage than on the ice tonight. 

[Fanny Mae]

I'm going now - before hubby thinks he's being abused or ignored.     

You all have a nice evening.   

Good night, SASSY. 

[joesamas mama]

I am sorry SASSY, I see you did address me twice about this. I aplolgize, as I have been hoping around to Caylee's thread and and the docs, and on the Billings thread, where things are breaking. I have not given enough time to posting on any of them.

I would never knowingly ignore you, and I said earlier I was in a sucky mood, so not to pay any attention to me today. I apologize. 

Its ok Fanny.   I'm not in a great mood, either, I guess.   Lunch with my daughters didn't turn out very well.   What was suppose to be a steak salad at Lone Star ended up being a fish sandwich at Checkers because they were fighting with themselves - and fighting with their boyfriends.         I get to have lunch with them every other Friday and look forward to it.   But not when they are fighting.   Not fun.   They want me to referee it all.   Sometimes I just get tired of it and want to lock them up in a room with boxing gloves.

  Sassy I know you aren't here, but that reminds me of our trip to DC, except my mom thought me and my sister were ganging up on her. Not in a mean way, she laughs about it now. She fell asleep on the plane with her mouth wide open and we took a picture of her. She didn't like that at all. 

[Fanny Mae]

See you later monkeys, going to go home, change then go to the rink. Say a prayer. BBL.

JSM

Have fun, but be careful 

  It wasn't fun and I was careful. Thanks No Rose! I think it is quite safer in the cage than on the ice tonight. 

I am glad you are back safely.   

[Fanny Mae]

I am sorry SASSY, I see you did address me twice about this. I aplolgize, as I have been hoping around to Caylee's thread and and the docs, and on the Billings thread, where things are breaking. I have not given enough time to posting on any of them.

I would never knowingly ignore you, and I said earlier I was in a sucky mood, so not to pay any attention to me today. I apologize. 

Its ok Fanny.   I'm not in a great mood, either, I guess.   Lunch with my daughters didn't turn out very well.   What was suppose to be a steak salad at Lone Star ended up being a fish sandwich at Checkers because they were fighting with themselves - and fighting with their boyfriends.         I get to have lunch with them every other Friday and look forward to it.   But not when they are fighting.   Not fun.   They want me to referee it all.   Sometimes I just get tired of it and want to lock them up in a room with boxing gloves.

  Sassy I know you aren't here, but that reminds me of our trip to DC, except my mom thought me and my sister were ganging up on her. Not in a mean way, she laughs about it now. She fell asleep on the plane with her mouth wide open and we took a picture of her. She didn't like that at all. 

My sister used to suck her thumb, way up till the day she died.   

[joesamas mama]

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090807/ap_on_en_tv/us_billy_mays
Autopsy: Cocaine contributed to Billy Mays' death
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 7 mins ago

TAMPA, Fla. – An autopsy shows that cocaine use contributed to the heart disease that suddenly killed boisterous TV pitchman Billy Mays in June, officials announced Friday.

and Oxicleancontin too.

[joesamas mama]

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/08/07/protests-rowdy-town-halls-pose-risk-health-care-reform/
Health Care Debate Shifting Into Free Speech Battle
Both sides of the aisle are playing hardball. Though Democrats first accused Republicans of leading "mob rule" at health care meetings, health care reform supporters are responding in kind.

FOXNews.com
Friday, August 07, 2009
The tensions and passions flaring on both sides of the health care reform battle are starting to overshadow the substance of the debate itself.

It's a tinderbox that threatens the health of the reform package being pushed by Democrats.

Both sides of the aisle are playing hardball. Though Democrats first accused Republicans of leading "mob rule" at health care meetings, health care reform supporters are now responding in kind.

The sides are engaging each other outside town hall meetings. Sensational footage of rowdy participants at a town hall forum in Tampa, Fla., drew heavy attention Friday. So did footage of a man, standing next to his son in a wheelchair, shouting at Rep. John Dingell in Michigan.

  You said DINGLE