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« Reply #1220 on: November 21, 2009, 08:30:52 PM »

In the article in the paper it said that Brad Lockhart was the brother of Carey Lockhart-
Davis. Also Brad was not registered as Shaniya's father, he said thats why he couldn't
take her legally. If any money is sent in, won't that go to the mother, or the grandmother of Shaniya? I have never before in my life seen an article on how to
behave at a funeral. There are a lot of mad people down there, I would guess there will
be a police presence there.

Mary, (LOL) I never saw an article how to behave a Funeral either, geez.  I would say just bring your own Kleenex, I didn't and next thing I know Kleenex was being passed from one person to the other down the line for me weeping at my Uncle funeral.
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« Reply #1221 on: November 21, 2009, 08:33:41 PM »

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Where do you see all the photos discussed above??
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/fayettevilleobserver/obituary.aspx?n=shaniya-n-davis&pid=136204823
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« Reply #1222 on: November 21, 2009, 08:37:00 PM »

In the article in the paper it said that Brad Lockhart was the brother of Carey Lockhart-
Davis. Also Brad was not registered as Shaniya's father, he said thats why he couldn't
take her legally. If any money is sent in, won't that go to the mother, or the grandmother of Shaniya?

I have never before in my life seen an article on how to
behave at a funeral. There are a lot of mad people down there, I would guess there will
be a police presence there.



Mary

A lot of people are angry in regards to many aspects encompassing the demise of Shaniya.  I believe the words of the article are just a reminder that out of respect for Shaniya ... the memorial/funeral is an opportunity to put aside that anger for very a short time and ... honor her short life. 

Janet

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« Reply #1223 on: November 21, 2009, 09:10:27 PM »

That's the first thing that jumped out at me regarding Shaniya's obit, was that I couldn't find Aunt Carey's name listed.  If it's in there, it seems disguised to the public, perhaps not to family/friends.  It feels like a slap in the face to her. 

Even and especially *if* the last part mentioned somehow 'includes' Aunt Carey.  Because of what we've learned has been her role in Shaniya's life.  To have mentioned various other family members (many cousins etc) before that last part about a second family (if that includes Aunt Carey) could be seen as a slap if not worse, because it might feel like an after thought. 

SO MANY family members on both sides were carefully mentioned, one by one with relationship to Shaniya.  Seems they included everyone but the family pets, if any. 

My second thought was anger that Antoinette was listed second in the obit, as if she had such a special place in Shaniya's heart.  The one who 'acted as' mother ought to have had IMO, the honor of that respect. 

Antoinette could have been mentioned as an afterthought, if at all.  IMO   

This obit had to have been expensive, the longer one is, the more it will cost to put in the paper.  Have helped write a few before. 
   
Seems that with such detail on each person mentioned, a list could have been made by both sides of the family, then included together in order as ready to publish.  That's the way I've seen it handled before.   

But honestly, it seems the only one capable of paying attention with such detail, would be Aunt Carey.  So it's hard to wrap my mind around this one. 

 

 
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« Reply #1224 on: November 21, 2009, 09:21:17 PM »

I wonder if this is the same thing as the "foundation" that dad mentioned has been established? 

from the obit:
Memorial donations may be made to The Shaniya Davis Trust Fund, c/o Wachovia Bank, 4200 Morganton Road, Fayetteville, NC 28304.

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« Reply #1225 on: November 21, 2009, 09:23:03 PM »

In the article in the paper it said that Brad Lockhart was the brother of Carey Lockhart-
Davis. Also Brad was not registered as Shaniya's father, he said thats why he couldn't
take her legally. If any money is sent in, won't that go to the mother, or the grandmother of Shaniya?

I have never before in my life seen an article on how to
behave at a funeral. There are a lot of mad people down there, I would guess there will
be a police presence there.



Mary

A lot of people are angry in regards to many aspects encompassing the demise of Shaniya.  I believe the words of the article are just a reminder that out of respect for Shaniya ... the memorial/funeral is an opportunity to put aside that anger for very a short time and ... honor her short life. 

Janet

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Shaniya Davis' funeral scheduled for Sunday
November 21, 12:27 PM
Surry County CPS Examiner Lisa Nixon


http://www.examiner.com/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m11d21-Shaniya-Davis-funeral-scheduled-for-Sunday


Good Evening Monks...try to get caught up.   Thanks for the link.  Has it been stated what the monies collected for the memorial fund will be used for?
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« Reply #1226 on: November 21, 2009, 09:30:17 PM »


Someone mentioned there was internet access, was that access within the rooms, or out in the lobby?  If within the rooms, am hoping that LE has checked that room's comp. for a history of live streaming, cam, etc.   

Child porn crosses my mind, as does Shaniya's death having possibly been made into a "snuff film".   

The reason I'm wondering all that... is because of the "robbery" that was at McNeill and gf's home (was it the same day he was arrested or in the days following?), and an E-machine was taken, or attempted?  I know there was some discussion in here earlier on. 

Could there be something accessed on the net in the hotel's comp that has to do with something similiar in that E-machine at McNeil's home? 

Just wondering if someone really really REALLY didn't want whatever may have been on that E-machine to be taken as evidence in Shaniya's case, so staged a robbery to make it go missing. 


Hi Wyks! 

I completely agree with you re: this was all for child porn of some sort- perhaps even something much larger than just him acting alone. MM is just a thug who has been involved in a number of 'enterprising' activities, including theft and drug dealing; playing broker or delivery guy in the world of child trafficking/porn would not be a stretch of the imagination.

I must have missed the robbery at McNeill's thing though . . . certainly would sound an alarm, I should think. Shall try to go back and find that. (I also confess to not knowing what an 'E machine' is - assuming it is a computer/data storage or transfer device of some sort - LOL.) Will go google that now. . . Thanks for the info, Wyks.

Hi Tams! 

Well at first some of us were thinking there was a 'hand-off' at the hotel.  On realizing McNeill went in there, then left with Shaniya, there must have been some other reason.  IMO.  I mean, I agree with many of you who think if it was just McNeill involved and no hand-off, then why the hotel?  A place with cams in the hallway, whether he knew that for sure or not?  It doesn't make much sense. 

But if this was porn or a snuff film, he may have wanted a place for that away from his own home.  Very hard, trying to understand what seems to be a sick and evil mind. 

The robbery at McNeil's home, yeah, am trying to find my notes on that.  Curious timing, if anything else.  IMO. 
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« Reply #1227 on: November 21, 2009, 09:38:17 PM »

That's the first thing that jumped out at me regarding Shaniya's obit, was that I couldn't find Aunt Carey's name listed.  If it's in there, it seems disguised to the public, perhaps not to family/friends.  It feels like a slap in the face to her. 

Even and especially *if* the last part mentioned somehow 'includes' Aunt Carey.  Because of what we've learned has been her role in Shaniya's life.  To have mentioned various other family members (many cousins etc) before that last part about a second family (if that includes Aunt Carey) could be seen as a slap if not worse, because it might feel like an after thought. 

SO MANY family members on both sides were carefully mentioned, one by one with relationship to Shaniya.  Seems they included everyone but the family pets, if any. 

My second thought was anger that Antoinette was listed second in the obit, as if she had such a special place in Shaniya's heart.  The one who 'acted as' mother ought to have had IMO, the honor of that respect. 

Antoinette could have been mentioned as an afterthought, if at all.  IMO   

This obit had to have been expensive, the longer one is, the more it will cost to put in the paper.  Have helped write a few before. 
   
Seems that with such detail on each person mentioned, a list could have been made by both sides of the family, then included together in order as ready to publish.  That's the way I've seen it handled before.   

But honestly, it seems the only one capable of paying attention with such detail, would be Aunt Carey.  So it's hard to wrap my mind around this one. 

 

 

I see a Caroline listed as a great aunt - bet that is her. I agree on the egg donor - she did not act like a mother so she tore up her parent card in my book. I might have listed her as "prior to her death  Shaniya lost her mother to stupidity and drugs."   But then again I am known as a bit of a bioch!
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« Reply #1228 on: November 21, 2009, 09:45:45 PM »

It's so hard when someone dies and there are mixed feelings in one side of the family, the other, or between both. 

When the person who called herself my adoptive mother passed away, I did not go to the funeral.  She had been 'mommie dearest' to me, OMG abusive.  Yet my adoptive father, who I have called 'daddy' for 50 years now, and who was not abusive to me, loved her, in his own disconnected way.  I did have to go and view her gravesite later on.  Just to assure myself that she was gone.  My dad had put this on her gravestone:  "Beloved wife and devoted mother." 

I was livid!!!!!!!!  She may have been a devoted wife, but she was NO devoted mother!  It took several years to realize that 'in my dad's eyes', she had been.  Sigh. 

So whoever wrote Shaniya's obit, may have included feelings and such that may not be true for some of the family, yet for some it very likely is.  The funeral will likely be a very tense couple of hours, considering how Shaniya died, and the events that led up to that.  Am kind of hoping for all their sakes that it's private, not open to the whole public.  I don't have the need to watch a possible implosion between and within the families.  Added media and public would likely make things even more tense. 
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« Reply #1229 on: November 21, 2009, 09:50:07 PM »


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I wasn't aware of Funeral Etiquette:(



Shaniya Davis' funeral scheduled for Sunday

http://www.examiner.com/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m11d21-Shaniya-Davis-funeral-scheduled-for-Sunday



Funeral Etiquette

http://www.mountcastle.net/funeral.htm


In the South, the etiquette is to take fried chicken and potato salad and a banana pudding to
the family as soon as you hear of the death.


I was born and raised in the Deep South, and I have never taken those food items anywhere. Please don't generalize, or spread myths. Southerners take all kinds of food  on all kinds of occasions. I have been to funerals where the deceased person's family had a caterer take care of the food.
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« Reply #1230 on: November 21, 2009, 09:56:48 PM »

I knew I shouldn't have gone by memory on the obit, coulda shoulda went back and looked. 

Am correcting myself on an earlier post when I said that 'many cousins etc.' were mentioned before the last part about the second family.  It's the other way around, sorry.   

"and her second family, Tyrongella Davis and the Turner family of Raeford. She had a host of other cousins and relatives.

Still and all... am thinking in those last two lines, Aunt Carey was mentioned somehow in disguise. 
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« Reply #1231 on: November 21, 2009, 09:58:28 PM »

Banana pudding and Fried Chicken what a beautiful gift.  The griefing could eat the pudding for breakfast or dessert.
People around here send Bagel platters with cream cheese, I'm sure it depends on the person who brings sends what.
A neighbor once sent a Tuna Casserole and I thought that was great.

We don't much know from Bagels in the South. We do biscuits.  But the church ladies all get together and prepare the
food for the family gathering after the funeral.  I love tuna casserole.


Good Grief.....I live in Alabama, and I have eaten bagels all my life. There is a restaurant that serves bagels and lox in Mountain Brook, and I ate there all the time as a child.
When my Dad passed away...people brought lasagna, salad, and garlic bread.
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« Reply #1232 on: November 21, 2009, 09:59:23 PM »

That's the first thing that jumped out at me regarding Shaniya's obit, was that I couldn't find Aunt Carey's name listed.  If it's in there, it seems disguised to the public, perhaps not to family/friends.  It feels like a slap in the face to her. 

Even and especially *if* the last part mentioned somehow 'includes' Aunt Carey.  Because of what we've learned has been her role in Shaniya's life.  To have mentioned various other family members (many cousins etc) before that last part about a second family (if that includes Aunt Carey) could be seen as a slap if not worse, because it might feel like an after thought. 

SO MANY family members on both sides were carefully mentioned, one by one with relationship to Shaniya.  Seems they included everyone but the family pets, if any. 

My second thought was anger that Antoinette was listed second in the obit, as if she had such a special place in Shaniya's heart.  The one who 'acted as' mother ought to have had IMO, the honor of that respect. 

Antoinette could have been mentioned as an afterthought, if at all.  IMO   

This obit had to have been expensive, the longer one is, the more it will cost to put in the paper.  Have helped write a few before. 
   
Seems that with such detail on each person mentioned, a list could have been made by both sides of the family, then included together in order as ready to publish.  That's the way I've seen it handled before.   

But honestly, it seems the only one capable of paying attention with such detail, would be Aunt Carey.  So it's hard to wrap my mind around this one. 

 

 

I see a Caroline listed as a great aunt - bet that is her. I agree on the egg donor - she did not act like a mother so she tore up her parent card in my book. I might have listed her as "prior to her death  Shaniya lost her mother to stupidity and drugs."   But then again I am known as a bit of a bioch!

I posted earlier that AD sold her soul to the devil when she traded her child for a drug debt....it rally pizzed me off that she was mentioned at all in the orbit and as someone else stated she did not pass away she was murdered...I think the whole thing was a mess but who I am...besides a  ranting monkey
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« Reply #1233 on: November 21, 2009, 09:59:58 PM »

Incident report.. November 13th...April Autry

Agency Name
Fayetteville Police Department  Incident/Investigation
Report OCA
2009-039644 
ORI
NC 0260100
 Date/Time Reported: Friday 
 
Month Day Yr Time Hrs
11 13 2009 10:44:00 AM 10
#1
 Crime/Incident(s)
0510 -   Attempt
 Complete  At Found: Friday 
 Last Known Secure: Friday 
 
Month
11  Day
13  Yr
2009  Time
10:43:00 AM  Hrs
10  Month
11 Day
13 Yr
2009 Time
10:42:00 AM  Hrs
10 
#2 Crime/Incident(s)
  Attempt
 Complete  Location of Incident
922 WASHINGTON DR
FAYETTEVILLE, NC  Offense Tract
8602-03 
#3 Crime/Incident(s)
  Attempt
 Complete  Premise Type
HOME OF VICTIM - SINGLE FAMILY DWELLING  Victim Residence Type
 Single Family
 Multi Family 
 How attacked or committed
LISTED SUSPECT AND A UNKNOWN SUSPECT KICKED IN THE FRONT DOOR AND THEN RAN WHEN HE SAW THE VICTIM  Forcible
 Yes
 N/A
 No Weapon/Tools
Crime #1: PERSONAL WEAPONS (HANDS, FEET, TEETH, ETC.) 
 # of Victims
1  Type:  Person  Business
 Society  Government
 Financial Institute  Religious
 L.E. Officer Line of Duty  Unknown  Injury  None  Minor  Loss of Teeth
 Broken Bones  Severe Lacerations
 Internal  Unconscious  Other Major  Drug/Alcohol Use:
 Yes  Unknown
 No  N/A 
V1 Victim Business Name (Last, First, Middle)
AUTRY, APRIL   Victom of Crime #

0510
 DOB/Age
22  Race
B  Sex
F  Relationship to Offender

Acquaintance
 Resident Status
 Resident
 Non-Resident
 Unknown 
Home Address

Apt #
,    Home Phone 
Employer Name/Address


,    Business Phone 
VYR  Make  Model  Style  Lic/Lis  VIN 
 STATUS           L-Lost      S-Stolen      R-Recovered      D-Damaged      Z-Seized      B-Burned      C-Counterfeit/Forged      F-Found
 (Check "OJ" column if recovered for other jurisdiction) 
 Victim # DCI Status Value OJ Qty Property Description Make/Model Serial Number
1  71  D  $500.00    1  FRONT DOOR TO RESIDENCE     
                 
Number of Vehicles Stolen:   Number of Vehicles Recovered:   
 
 Officer Name/ID#
TAYLOR, MATTHEW J  Officer Signature  Supervisor Signature 
 Complainant Signature  Case Status
 Further Investigation
 Inactive
 Closed/Cleared
 Closed/Leads Exhausted  Case Disposition
 Unfounded  Juvenille/No Custody  Extradiction Declined
 Cleared by Arrest  Refuse to Cooperate
 Cleared by Arrest by Another Agency
 Death of Offender  Prosecution Declined 

http://police.ci.fayetteville.nc.us/print_report_page1.asp
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« Reply #1234 on: November 21, 2009, 10:01:01 PM »


I see a Caroline listed as a great aunt - bet that is her. I agree on the egg donor - she did not act like a mother so she tore up her parent card in my book. I might have listed her as "prior to her death  Shaniya lost her mother to stupidity and drugs."   But then again I am known as a bit of a bioch!

Hmmm, that sure could be! 

I like your idea of the way to list the egg donor!  Hehe....
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« Reply #1235 on: November 21, 2009, 10:06:14 PM »


I posted earlier that AD sold her soul to the devil when she traded her child for a drug debt....it rally pizzed me off that she was mentioned at all in the orbit and as someone else stated she did not pass away she was murdered...I think the whole thing was a mess but who I am...besides a  ranting monkey

yeah.. "passed away" just minimizes the horror of it all for Shaniya.  IMO.   

 
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« Reply #1236 on: November 21, 2009, 10:06:21 PM »

Incident/Investigation
Report OCA
2009-039649 
ORI
NC 0260100
 Date/Time Reported: Friday 
 
Month Day Yr Time Hrs
11 13 2009 12:03:37 PM 12
#1
 Crime/Incident(s)
2030 -   Attempt
 Complete  At Found: Friday 
 Last Known Secure: Friday 
 
Month
11  Day
13  Yr
2009  Time
12:03:37 PM  Hrs
12  Month
11 Day
13 Yr
2009 Time
12:02:00 PM  Hrs
12 
#2 Crime/Incident(s)
  Attempt
 Complete  Location of Incident
922 WASHINGTON DR
FAYETTEVILLE, NC 
Offense Tract
8602-03 
#3 Crime/Incident(s)
  Attempt
 Complete  Premise Type
HOME OF VICTIM - SINGLE FAMILY DWELLING  Victim Residence Type
 Single Family
 Multi Family 
 How attacked or committed
VICTIM IS BEING NEGLECTED BY SUSPECT
 Forcible
 Yes
  N/A
 No Weapon/Tools
Crime #1: PERSONAL WEAPONS (HANDS, FEET, TEETH, ETC.) 
 # of Victims
1  Type:  Person  Business
 Society  Government
 Financial Institute  Religious
 L.E. Officer Line of Duty  Unknown  Injury  None  Minor  Loss of Teeth
 Broken Bones  Severe Lacerations
 Internal  Unconscious  Other Major  Drug/Alcohol Use:
 Yes  Unknown
 No  N/A 
V1 Victim Business Name (Last, First, Middle)
 AUTRY, AMARI    Victom of Crime #

2030
 DOB/Age
00  Race
B  Sex
Relationship to Offender
Child 

Resident Status
 Resident
 Non-Resident
 Unknown 
Home Address

Apt #
,    Home Phone 
Employer Name/Address


,    Business Phone 
VYR  Make  Model  Style  Lic/Lis  VIN 
 STATUS           L-Lost      S-Stolen      R-Recovered      D-Damaged      Z-Seized      B-Burned      C-Counterfeit/Forged      F-Found
 (Check "OJ" column if recovered for other jurisdiction) 
 Victim # DCI Status Value OJ Qty Property Description Make/Model Serial Number
                 
Number of Vehicles Stolen:   Number of Vehicles Recovered:   
 
 Officer Name/ID#
SANDBERG, DEBRA L  Officer Signature  Supervisor Signature 
 Complainant Signature  Case Status
 Further Investigation
 Inactive
 Closed/Cleared
 Closed/Leads Exhausted  Case Disposition
 Unfounded  Juvenille/No Custody  Extradiction Declined
 Cleared by Arrest  Refuse to Cooperate
 Cleared by Arrest by Another Agency
 Death of Offender  Prosecution Declined 

http://police.ci.fayetteville.nc.us/print_report_page1.asp
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« Reply #1237 on: November 21, 2009, 10:17:57 PM »


Hello Monkeys and Guests,

I wasn't aware of Funeral Etiquette:(



Shaniya Davis' funeral scheduled for Sunday

http://www.examiner.com/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m11d21-Shaniya-Davis-funeral-scheduled-for-Sunday



Funeral Etiquette

http://www.mountcastle.net/funeral.htm


In the South, the etiquette is to take fried chicken and potato salad and a banana pudding to
the family as soon as you hear of the death.


I was born and raised in the Deep South, and I have never taken those food items anywhere. Please don't generalize, or spread myths. Southerners take all kinds of food  on all kinds of occasions. I have been to funerals where the deceased person's family had a caterer take care of the food.

I don't believe she was talking about the funeral, just food to comfort the family.  In my experience, food was always taken to the family so they wouldn't have to cook while they were dealing with all the other issues.  Certainly true in my Georgia family. 
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« Reply #1238 on: November 21, 2009, 10:18:30 PM »


Hello Monkeys and Guests,

I wasn't aware of Funeral Etiquette:(



Shaniya Davis' funeral scheduled for Sunday

http://www.examiner.com/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m11d21-Shaniya-Davis-funeral-scheduled-for-Sunday



Funeral Etiquette

http://www.mountcastle.net/funeral.htm


In the South, the etiquette is to take fried chicken and potato salad and a banana pudding to
the family as soon as you hear of the death.


I was born and raised in the Deep South, and I have never taken those food items anywhere. Please don't generalize, or spread myths. Southerners take all kinds of food  on all kinds of occasions. I have been to funerals where the deceased person's family had a caterer take care of the food.

PHD3,

I am sorry, I hope you are not offended, I understood that Fried Chicken, Potato Salad and (wonderful) Banana Pudding was a tradition of the South, and I respect tradition, especially, if the person was elderly and the mourners were of the same age,
the chicken, potatoe salad and pudding would be great comfort food.  I like all kinds of food myself, I am grateful that the
monkeys share their world of experiences. P.S. I bet monkeys would love the banana pudding:)
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« Reply #1239 on: November 21, 2009, 10:18:43 PM »


Hello Monkeys and Guests,

I wasn't aware of Funeral Etiquette:(



Shaniya Davis' funeral scheduled for Sunday

http://www.examiner.com/x-29636-Surry-County-CPS-Examiner~y2009m11d21-Shaniya-Davis-funeral-scheduled-for-Sunday



Funeral Etiquette

http://www.mountcastle.net/funeral.htm


In the South, the etiquette is to take fried chicken and potato salad and a banana pudding to
the family as soon as you hear of the death.


I was born and raised in the Deep South, and I have never taken those food items anywhere. Please don't generalize, or spread myths. Southerners take all kinds of food  on all kinds of occasions. I have been to funerals where the deceased person's family had a caterer take care of the food.

I apologize PDH3.  I did not mean to spread myths. 
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