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JakesSister
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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There is nothing new. Detective Gomez is still checking with all of the other states' DMV to see if Jake's car has surfaced and someone is trying to get a title for it. I'm really hoping that AMW picks up his story. We really need to get Jake's face nationwide.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Quote from: ka8lhi on April 06, 2010, 03:43:23 PM
Family Searches for Missing Loved One
Posted: 4/6/2010
A northern Michigan family is searching for a loved one who hasn't been seen in nearly a week.
Family members say Jacob Cabinaw of Traverse City went missing Wednesday evening, March 31st.
They say he dropped off a friend that night and told him he had to go home to study for a test, but he hasn't been seen since.
Cabinaw's sister says it's unlike him to run off without telling anyone.
http://www.9and10news.com/Category/Story/?id=218393&cID=1
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Thank you so much JakesSister. Keeping up the prayers!
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Jake's info is now posted on several billboards in Northern Michigan. With FBI clearance, the billboards can go nation wide. Still waiting for someone to say that they have seen him.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Quote from: JakesSister on June 15, 2010, 04:28:35 PM
Jake's info is now posted on several billboards in Northern Michigan. With FBI clearance, the billboards can go nation wide. Still waiting for someone to say that they have seen him.
Oh good for you! This will help, I'm sure. I wish there was some way for me to reach you. Are you on facebook too? Can I reach you through there?
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Quote from: JakesSister on June 15, 2010, 04:28:35 PM
Jake's info is now posted on several billboards in Northern Michigan. With FBI clearance, the billboards can go nation wide.
Still waiting for someone to say that they have seen him.
(Bolded by me)
The waiting must seem an eternity. I Hope you get word of Jake soon.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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I am on Facebook. You can either post a message on the "Find Jacob Cabinaw" page and I will respond (I am one of the co-managers), or you can find me directly. Sandra Cabinaw Cranson
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I am going to have Klaas pass an email to you through this site. Thanks for your response.
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Still nothing new. The waiting and wondering is torture. Still getting requests for flyers about Jake and sending them all over the country. Someone, somewhere, knows something.
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Quote from: JakesSister on August 08, 2010, 06:39:07 PM
Still nothing new. The waiting and wondering is torture. Still getting requests for flyers about Jake and sending them all over the country. Someone, somewhere, knows something.
I'm so sorry JakesSister.
I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. I hope there will be some information leading to Jake soon.
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I'm so sorry JakesSister. How awful to not know where he is. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers!
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JakesSister...are you still around???? Please tell me we just missed it and you have some news! Maybe some good news or leads? If not, my gosh the longing for any answer must just be so painful for you and your family. Can we, I'm in the NW FL area, do anything. I can put up flyers down I75 when I go to Tampa next week if you think it would help? God Bless you and fam.
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We are still looking for Jake and praying for any news about his whereabouts. Mom spoke with Det. Gomez this week and once again he has nothing to report. I spoke with a reporter yesterday and left a message for another reporter today. I am desperately trying to keep Jake's name/face in the public eye and would be happy to email anyone a flyer to distribute who would like to help us. Please don't forget us.
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Quote from: JakesSister on November 16, 2010, 06:20:44 PM
We are still looking for Jake and praying for any news about his whereabouts. Mom spoke with Det. Gomez this week and once again he has nothing to report. I spoke with a reporter yesterday and left a message for another reporter today. I am desperately trying to keep Jake's name/face in the public eye and would be happy to email anyone a flyer to distribute who would like to help us.
Please don't forget us.
I'm hoping and praying Jake will be found soon.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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JakesSister
Please know that your brother and his family are not forgotten. They remain in our prayers. Please keep us advised on any updates.
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Quote from: JakesSister on November 16, 2010, 06:20:44 PM
We are still looking for Jake and praying for any news about his whereabouts. Mom spoke with Det. Gomez this week and once again he has nothing to report. I spoke with a reporter yesterday and left a message for another reporter today. I am desperately trying to keep Jake's name/face in the public eye and would be happy to email anyone a flyer to distribute who would like to help us. Please don't forget us.
Leave me an email addy to write you first and I would be happy to put them at a few of the truck stops I pass from N. FL I-10 all the way down to Tampa via I-75. I will help anyway possible. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family esp. difficult during the holidays I suppose. Be strong!! Maybe he just needed a break and he may not be the type to worry folks but we all face at one time or another a situation where we don't see an option and maybe he just thought going away for a while would help things. Not allowing myself to think bad things in his direction.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Quote from: MuffyBee on November 16, 2010, 07:45:25 PM
Quote from: JakesSister on November 16, 2010, 06:20:44 PM
We are still looking for Jake and praying for any news about his whereabouts. Mom spoke with Det. Gomez this week and once again he has nothing to report. I spoke with a reporter yesterday and left a message for another reporter today. I am desperately trying to keep Jake's name/face in the public eye and would be happy to email anyone a flyer to distribute who would like to help us.
Please don't forget us.
I'm hoping and praying Jake will be found soon.
Ditto......
He is not forgotten. Looking at the main board for 'missing' it shows his thread has 5895 views
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?board=3.0
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Quote from: Nut44x4 on November 20, 2010, 08:26:21 AM
Quote from: MuffyBee on November 16, 2010, 07:45:25 PM
Quote from: JakesSister on November 16, 2010, 06:20:44 PM
We are still looking for Jake and praying for any news about his whereabouts. Mom spoke with Det. Gomez this week and once again he has nothing to report. I spoke with a reporter yesterday and left a message for another reporter today. I am desperately trying to keep Jake's name/face in the public eye and would be happy to email anyone a flyer to distribute who would like to help us.
Please don't forget us.
I'm hoping and praying Jake will be found soon.
Ditto......
He is not forgotten. Looking at the main board for 'missing' it shows his thread has 5895 views
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?board=3.0
Jacob is not forgotten.
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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http://ipr.interlochen.org/ipr-news-features/episode/11114
Together: Family Copes With Loss, Unanswered Questions
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Most recent picture of Jake Cabinaw (left), Just a few family members who miss him (right).
By Linda Stephan
Last year at this time, IPR's Linda Stephan brought us the story of an extraordinary family that chose to ride out Michigan's economic storm together, three generations under one small roof. This year for Thanksgiving, she caught up with a different family, one that's leaning on each another through an extraordinary kind of loss.
We head to a home in Grand Traverse County where a missing-person flier hangs in the front window.
Growing Up
The Cabinaw siblings grew up, all 10 of them, laughing. And they still laugh about all those good times and funny childhood moments.
"He's the one who shoved me into a river!" Sara Brown giggles as she remembers a typical, pesky little-brother who, years ago, who made her fear for her life. She was maybe six, he was perhaps three. She got caught in the current after he pushed her in.
"And since then I haven't went swimming very often," she says, smiling and laughing. "I'm not much of a water person."
They're all adults now, with children of their own.
Jake's oldest sister compares her kid brother (kid number seven) to a wiry stick figure with broad shoulders and a round head, a character from Nightmare Before Christmas.
"I always thought Jake reminded me of Jack the Pumpkin King," Sandra Cranson says, also laughing. "He (Jake) is so skinny and tall, and he had his head shaved, and Jack had no hair. And he always just reminded me of that."
"He's a joker," they all agree.
"A joker, but serious," says mom, Mavis Clous. "He was, you know, I think very serious about making sure things were in their place, and things were clean and easy to find.
"Otherwise, yeah, a joker."
Living With The Unknown
Jake Cabinaw's family sometimes talks about him in the present tense, and other times as if he were only a part of the past. They just don't know how to put it.
And these days the tears come just as easily as the laughter.
"We love Jake, and we need him to come home," Clous says.
Jake probably won't be at any of the family Thanksgiving parties this year. The 31 year old from Grawn disappeared last spring.
"I think, for me, it's difficult to enjoy the holiday, enjoy your family, enjoy what you have, when you don't know how he's doing," Sandra says. "It's like, survivor's guilt. How do you keep living when you don't know?"
What Is Known
Jake Cabinaw was last seen on a Thursday. At 1:00 that morning, cell phone records show he made a call to an automated system to confirm he was still taking community college classes.
After that he used his debit card at a gas station in Kalamazoo, and the card would be used one more time in Texas. But then, nothing. His cell phone, no longer in service today, was flooded with messages he never checked.
And mom says none of it makes sense: "He wasn't a loner. He needed to have other people around to share with."
Family members say law enforcement officials believe he must have left on his own. There's no sign of foul play. His silver Chevy Malibu has never turned up.
Sandra says the family was dumbfounded when people first started suggesting that Jake might have left on his own. Now, after the better part of a year has passed, that's become the hope the family clings to.
"But, if you really look at who Jacob was - or is, then it's not an option," she says. "But that would be the only option if we think he's coming home."
A Good Dad
Sandra says there were no warning signs. He didn't seem over-stressed. Jake was doing his homework days before. He was in the National Guard, had a job. He's the guy you'd call when you have car problems; He built his mom a back deck.
And his son says Jake's a good dad, too.
"We did a lot of, like, hiking and Frisbee golfing and stuff like that," says Jacob, a student at Traverse City East. "And I can't stop thinking about it."
"I'm sad for the children, especially," says Jake's ex-wife and the mother of his children, Rachel Cabinaw. "And I hope he does return. They talk about it a considerable amount. Zander's in therapy right now. But they're pretty resilient kids, too, they're doing very well in school and things."
Zander is in first grade. He plays with a cousin in the next room.
"We try to talk about him (Jake), and, you know, obviously not forget him, and we pray often and they've got pictures in their rooms of him and things like that," Rachel says.
And the whole extended family tries to go on doing what they do best, to enjoy each other, to laugh when they're together.
Going On Anyway
Tomorrow's not the first holiday with an empty seat at the table for Jake. He disappeared just days before Easter. He had a birthday June 6th.
But Jake's oldest sister says he will have a gift from her under the tree:
"'Cause what if he shows up? I want him to know we're thinking about him," Sandra says.
She adds, laughing: "A bucket of popcorn, that's what everyone's getting this year."
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Re: Jacob Cabinaw 31, missing March 31, 2010, Traverse City, Michigan
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Here is my email address,
cabinaw4@hotmail.com
. I will try to post the flyer we have been using on this sight but if it doesn't work please send me an email message and I will send a flyer to you. Sandra
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