JSM's BEGGING FOR BAN THREAD #17 6/21/10 - 7/08/10

[Green Eyes]

Back to the kitchen I go. Catch up with you guys in a bit. LOL

I'm waiting for a little taste of everything  LOL

You gt it. LOL

[Brandi]

Well, it is 2:42 Eastern Daylight time and the site has not yet been down. Maybe they took a page from NoRose's repairman's book !

LOL  Oh no I hope not.

They were supposed to do maintenance Wed at 2 AM ET, then last night at 11 PM CST ....I don't think it ever went down yet for said maintenance. Could have last night, but I don't think so.)

I just wish they'd upgrade the server. It really does not take a lot of time to do that!

Hello everyone, hope you are having a good holiday weekend.

[Green Eyes]

Back to the kitchen I go. Catch up with you guys in a bit. LOL

Well,the first Faker guest has just changed into his swim trunks...in the front yard.At least this one had under wear on .
Try to get that image out of you head while you are in the kitchen.LMAO

Gee thanks Trimm. What a lovely picture you have given me. LOL

[no rose colored glasses]

Back to the kitchen I go. Catch up with you guys in a bit. LOL

I'm waiting for a little taste of everything  LOL

You gt it. LOL

Good, my husband hasn't asked what we are having for supper yet  LOL  Tomorrow being the 4th, one feels they are forced into frying out in their backyard or park. We haven't had a grill for years, I got rid of it when my husband burned the hairs off of his one arm. I'm glad he wasn't hurt, but it sure made for a good laugh, I can't trust him with a barbeque.  LOL  Maybe I will buy one of those little disposable grills, don't think he can do to much damage with that, or could he?.........

[no rose colored glasses]

Well, it is 2:42 Eastern Daylight time and the site has not yet been down. Maybe they took a page from NoRose's repairman's book !

LOL  Oh no I hope not.

They were supposed to do maintenance Wed at 2 AM ET, then last night at 11 PM CST ....I don't think it ever went down yet for said maintenance. Could have last night, but I don't think so.)

I just wish they'd upgrade the server. It really does not take a lot of time to do that!

Hello everyone, hope you are having a good holiday weekend.

I was surprised when I got on here this morning, wasn't expecting that.

[Brandi]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

I think the way you do, no rose. Concerning your daughter. If her bf makes her feel bad about her weight, he is not the right person for her. Period. No excuse for a man doing that.

About Kyron, this porn ring talk started yesterday I believe and I cannot/won't get on board with that, myself. Mainly because I don't know much about porn rings and I don't see any indication that this is the direction this case should be going in. At all.

Seems just too far out there for me. And not worth speculating on, because that is all it is, speculation. I see no evidence that suggests we should focus n that direction, but it has gone that way, unfortunately.

JMO.

[Brandi]

Wanted to say hello also to JSM, hope you are enjoying skating today, and being at home this weekend. LOL

Trimm: Hi!!! Been missing you a lot this week. I found it funny that Trimm trimmed her hair today and was painging trim yesterday at her parents That's 2 nouns and a verb. Let's add that the very trim Trimm painted trim at her parents after she trimmed her hair. There ya go, and an adjective. LOL

TBM ... nice to see you.

[Green Eyes]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

Oh NRCG  What a creep he is. If he is telling here stuff like that now it wont change when they get married. It will only get worse. sounds like my ex brother in law. I know it's none of my business but I should would try and get her away from him. Damn it not everyone is skinny. I hate that there is so much emphasis on being skinny. It's not healthy. My daughter fights her weight all the time. It's just the way she is. As long as your daughter is healthy and has no health problems who gives a rats azz if she is not a size 0.  I would like to give the jerk a kick in the azz.  I don't blame you for being up set. ((( HUGS)))

[no rose colored glasses]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

I think the way you do, no rose. Concerning your daughter. If her bf makes her feel bad about her weight, he is not the right person for her. Period. No excuse for a man doing that.

About Kyron, this porn ring talk started yesterday I believe and I cannot/won't get on board with that, myself. Mainly because I don't know much about porn rings and I don't see any indication that this is the direction this case should be going in. At all.

Seems just too far out there for me. And not worth speculating on, because that is all it is, speculation. I see no evidence that suggests we should focus n that direction, but it has gone that way, unfortunately.

JMO.

I agree with you on both accounts. No excuse for this, and since she also had troubles with anorexia I just hate to see that happen again, I'm going to do everything in my power for it to not happen. I can't get on board with the porn ring, I've tried and tried and it isn't coming together for me. Not that this doesn't happen, happens way more than one wants to believe, I just don't see it here, but who knows I guess?

[no rose colored glasses]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

Oh NRCG  What a creep he is. If he is telling here stuff like that now it wont change when they get married. It will only get worse. sounds like my ex brother in law. I know it's none of my business but I should would try and get her away from him. Damn it not everyone is skinny. I hate that there is so much emphasis on being skinny. It's not healthy. My daughter fights her weight all the time. It's just the way she is. As long as your daughter is healthy and has no health problems who gives a rats azz if she is not a size 0.  I would like to give the jerk a kick in the azz.  I don't blame you for being up set. ((( HUGS)))

I know you have been saying about your ex brother in law and your sister, and your sister's eating problems because of it HUGS   I just got so many red flags pop up this morning just in a ten minute conversation, it made me ill. I told her what was on my mind about it, and didn't hold back, so I'm waiting to see what she does. With her, it takes her awhile to digest what I say to her, sometimes it doesn't take long, other times it does, she is not a dumb girl, so I hope she makes the right decisions. And of course my husband's two cents, he doesn't like it one bit, but she is old enough to make her own decisions, I'm going to scream if I hear that one more time. Not many people in a size 0 that is for sure. Constant battle for most people, just like your daughter, my daughter and myself. She gets lab work done every few months because of a medication she is on, and diabetes and nothing else bad has ever showed up.

[Brandi]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

I think the way you do, no rose. Concerning your daughter. If her bf makes her feel bad about her weight, he is not the right person for her. Period. No excuse for a man doing that.

About Kyron, this porn ring talk started yesterday I believe and I cannot/won't get on board with that, myself. Mainly because I don't know much about porn rings and I don't see any indication that this is the direction this case should be going in. At all.

Seems just too far out there for me. And not worth speculating on, because that is all it is, speculation. I see no evidence that suggests we should focus n that direction, but it has gone that way, unfortunately.

JMO.

I agree with you on both accounts. No excuse for this, and since she also had troubles with anorexia I just hate to see that happen again, I'm going to do everything in my power for it to not happen. I can't get on board with the porn ring, I've tried and tried and it isn't coming together for me. Not that this doesn't happen, happens way more than one wants to believe, I just don't see it here, but who knows I guess?

Just got caught up on the Kyron thread.

I cannot believe they were trying to say Terri is in some swingers club because she posted to a Cruise thread. I found that thread a few days ago and read it. It is about people taking Ocean cruises. Someone asked about not wanting to miss lobster night, and Terri told her how to get a menu for the week so she would not miss it.

Nothing wrong with that! Nothing odd about it.

I see since I am not on board about James being involved or about the porn/swinging slant, my posts do not get answered anymore. LOL

Oh well. I am still going to post my opinions.

[no rose colored glasses]

I just mentioned the name James in that one post, but I really don't think he had anything to do with it at all. As far as swingers go, I can't imagine a mad swinger going after somebody's kid for revenge, I suppose anything could happen, but I don't see it. As far as Terri goes and this swinging lifestyle, months and months ago maybe I could see it, but this is a woman who has let herself go, and I believe it is from depression. She has depression written all over her face to me, I don't see a woman dating and swinging.

[trimmonthelake]

Back to the kitchen I go. Catch up with you guys in a bit. LOL

I'm waiting for a little taste of everything  LOL

You gt it. LOL

Good, my husband hasn't asked what we are having for supper yet  LOL  Tomorrow being the 4th, one feels they are forced into frying out in their backyard or park. We haven't had a grill for years, I got rid of it when my husband burned the hairs off of his one arm. I'm glad he wasn't hurt, but it sure made for a good laugh, I can't trust him with a barbeque.  LOL  Maybe I will buy one of those little disposable grills, don't think he can do to much damage with that, or could he?.........

The last time my hubby cooked on the grill he burned a hole in the monkey bunky porch.........you should have been here.It wasn't pretty.I told him I built it I'll grill it if I want it gone.That was years ago.
He thought his life expectancy was in severe jeopardy that day.I still grill on the screened in deck,but if anyone else has wants to  grill ..... it will be outside in the sun.LMAO
It is one of Tink's rules.

[trimmonthelake]

I just mentioned the name James in that one post, but I really don't think he had anything to do with it at all. As far as swingers go, I can't imagine a mad swinger going after somebody's kid for revenge, I suppose anything could happen, but I don't see it. As far as Terri goes and this swinging lifestyle, months and months ago maybe I could see it, but this is a woman who has let herself go, and I believe it is from depression. She has depression written all over her face to me, I don't see a woman dating and swinging.

My previous husband was a musician,so we saw it all.The swingers I encountered were pretty cool,but as far as I know it was strictly adults.(they tell you all kinds of stories)
Terri looks so different,wow.This case needs to be solved.I don't want to see it months down the road like Haleigh.
She does look depressed.IMO

[Brandi]

I just mentioned the name James in that one post, but I really don't think he had anything to do with it at all. As far as swingers go, I can't imagine a mad swinger going after somebody's kid for revenge, I suppose anything could happen, but I don't see it. As far as Terri goes and this swinging lifestyle, months and months ago maybe I could see it, but this is a woman who has let herself go, and I believe it is from depression. She has depression written all over her face to me, I don't see a woman dating and swinging.

Oh, not to worry. James has been mentioned quite a few times before by others. I just think he is a good kid, personally, and he is a minor, and I kinda hate to see his name mentioned in this mess. That's just me.

And still, no one replies to my posts there. LOL

[trimmonthelake]

Hubby was just discussing what we were eating today.....get this.....
I looked at him and said"I werked hard this week,if you want dinner go get pizza."
Is the server safe now?Haven't been kicked out today,so I guess that is a major improvement.
Going to check Blink out.

Pizza sounds great to me  LOL               Here come a rant, I'm very upset again, my daughter came home to get some clothes to go with her boyfriend to Wild Animal Park, she was given free tickets from a vendor at work. I could tell she was upset, and I just said, what I'm going to say is because I'm a mother and I love you and if you get mad, what can I say? Brought up that divorce issue, and she coiled and said not talking about, I said okay, fine, what else is wrong? My oldest daughter is skinny and always been so, my younger daughter has weight issues and has suffered greatly with it just like me. She could lose 10 pounds, who couldn't. I encourage her and tell her look you have lost weight keep up the good work. Evidently her boyfriend, who is as skinny as a rail, makes snide comments. My daughter drinks a lot of water and because of it goes to the bathroom a lot, again, who wouldn't. Today he started with her having diabetes, I'm assuming and know I'm right, it is because of her extra weight. I flat out told her, if he has a problem with your weight, let him go find a skinny little girl and then there won't be a problem. Then she says, but I don't tell you the nice things he says as well. Reminded me of a wife whose husband hits her, and the wife says, but he doesn't hit me all the time. I'm mad as he!! right now, and if he wants to come here and say some snide comment, I will tell him exactly what is on my mind, in plain English.

I think the way you do, no rose. Concerning your daughter. If her bf makes her feel bad about her weight, he is not the right person for her. Period. No excuse for a man doing that.

About Kyron, this porn ring talk started yesterday I believe and I cannot/won't get on board with that, myself. Mainly because I don't know much about porn rings and I don't see any indication that this is the direction this case should be going in. At all.

Seems just too far out there for me. And not worth speculating on, because that is all it is, speculation. I see no evidence that suggests we should focus n that direction, but it has gone that way, unfortunately.

JMO.

I agree with you on both accounts. No excuse for this, and since she also had troubles with anorexia I just hate to see that happen again, I'm going to do everything in my power for it to not happen. I can't get on board with the porn ring, I've tried and tried and it isn't coming together for me. Not that this doesn't happen, happens way more than one wants to believe, I just don't see it here, but who knows I guess?

Just got caught up on the Kyron thread.

I cannot believe they were trying to say Terri is in some swingers club because she posted to a Cruise thread. I found that thread a few days ago and read it. It is about people taking Ocean cruises. Someone asked about not wanting to miss lobster night, and Terri told her how to get a menu for the week so she would not miss it.

Nothing wrong with that! Nothing odd about it.

I see since I am not on board about James being involved or about the porn/swinging slant, my posts do not get answered anymore. LOL

Oh well. I am still going to post my opinions.

Brandi,I am trying to catch up over there.I think all opinions should be welcome.I can't stand the thoughts of it being like the Haleigh thread.

[no rose colored glasses]

Back to the kitchen I go. Catch up with you guys in a bit. LOL

I'm waiting for a little taste of everything  LOL

You gt it. LOL

Good, my husband hasn't asked what we are having for supper yet  LOL  Tomorrow being the 4th, one feels they are forced into frying out in their backyard or park. We haven't had a grill for years, I got rid of it when my husband burned the hairs off of his one arm. I'm glad he wasn't hurt, but it sure made for a good laugh, I can't trust him with a barbeque.  LOL  Maybe I will buy one of those little disposable grills, don't think he can do to much damage with that, or could he?.........

The last time my hubby cooked on the grill he burned a hole in the monkey bunky porch.........you should have been here.It wasn't pretty.I told him I built it I'll grill it if I want it gone.That was years ago.
He thought his life expectancy was in severe jeopardy that day.I still grill on the screened in deck,but if anyone else has wants to  grill ..... it will be outside in the sun.LMAO
It is one of Tink's rules.

I don't blame you, and glad I'm not the only one with a husband that is a danger around grills  LOL  I would have been very angry with that escapade.

[trimmonthelake]

NRCG,on your rant....give them he!!.

Okay I am going over to read in the the Kyron thread.
I was really hoping to get more news on Morgan.She is in my heart,big time.

[Brandi]

Trimm,

The longer this goes on, the more it may get like the Haleigh thread, IMO.

But Klaas has been there a lot and I am sure she'll nip that in the bud if she sees it.

Often, I do not go along with the crowd. Always been that way. Doesn't really bother me that others don't agree.

heh

[no rose colored glasses]

I just mentioned the name James in that one post, but I really don't think he had anything to do with it at all. As far as swingers go, I can't imagine a mad swinger going after somebody's kid for revenge, I suppose anything could happen, but I don't see it. As far as Terri goes and this swinging lifestyle, months and months ago maybe I could see it, but this is a woman who has let herself go, and I believe it is from depression. She has depression written all over her face to me, I don't see a woman dating and swinging.

My previous husband was a musician,so we saw it all.The swingers I encountered were pretty cool,but as far as I know it was strictly adults.(they tell you all kinds of stories)
Terri looks so different,wow.This case needs to be solved.I don't want to see it months down the road like Haleigh.
She does look depressed.IMO

I know no swingers, but I can't imagine a mad swinger taking a child. She does, and I believe it all went downhill when her son James had to leave the house because he and Kaine butted heads, give me a break. If that were the case every teen in the world would be asked to leave the house.