JSM's BEGGING FOR BAN THREAD #17 6/21/10 - 7/08/10

[no rose colored glasses]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

When my sister was 21/22 she got involved with a guy who was 20 years older than her.He was divorced,but involved with another woman closer to his age on the side.She was very upset when she found out.She broke it off and started seeing a good friend of mine who was married and separated.In the middle of this he was seeing another woman who he wound up marrying.I thought I would lose my mind.During this time my sister lost her job and just floated around.It went on for several months and I did not speak to my guy friend for a while.I was so pissed.
Buckle up,and get ready to ride it out unless your dad can get through to her.

OMG I had to read this two times. Like a soap opera, I know I would have lost my mind. She is getting an earful again today from me, but I have to be careful, that I don't run her off more to him.

[joesamas mama]

Is Josef feeling better this morning, I sure hope so.

Yes he is thanks for asking. Just gave him his Pepcid, but now he is freaking out because I got the suitcase out. Will just do laundry and wait to start packing on Wed night.

[joesamas mama]

I can't believe your BIL went out with your family. He has no shame.

Not only that and acted like nothing was wrong. I found out that while he was in there, they werent going to give him his medications until my step dad told the jail he would have seizures if he didn't get them. Too bad he got his meds, maybe he learned his lesson. I sure hope so.

How does one do that, I would be so ashamed I would not show my face. I hope he learned his lesson, maybe he did.

IDK No Rose, I would be so ashamed, embarrased. I do hope he learned his lesson and it never happens again.

Yesterday my brother asked when I was going to have my friend guy down to meet the crazy family. I said NEVER!!!!!!! Good Lord between the BIL and sister you would think we were from Satsuma. : )

LOL, you know eventually your friend is going to have to meet the family. It must have been hard for your mom to act nice around him, I'm not sure what I would have done to be honest.

I will delay it as long as possible. Maybe years from now LOL. I think it was hard for my mom, but she is trying to be there for my sister and let her make her own decision be it the wrong or right one. : (

[no rose colored glasses]

Is Josef feeling better this morning, I sure hope so.

Yes he is thanks for asking. Just gave him his Pepcid, but now he is freaking out because I got the suitcase out. Will just do laundry and wait to start packing on Wed night.

Glad to hear that. And thanks for the info. I just don't understand how someone is allowed to hack into somebody's account, heck, I don't even know how you do that  LOL This dummy is going to war to pay off the bills this separated wife has racked up and this makes zero sense. Like my dad said again to me this morning, he is nothing but a jackazz and my daughter is going along for the ride. Plus he said more, but I can't post it  LOL

[joesamas mama]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

When my sister was 21/22 she got involved with a guy who was 20 years older than her.He was divorced,but involved with another woman closer to his age on the side.She was very upset when she found out.She broke it off and started seeing a good friend of mine who was married and separated.In the middle of this he was seeing another woman who he wound up marrying.I thought I would lose my mind.During this time my sister lost her job and just floated around.It went on for several months and I did not speak to my guy friend for a while.I was so pissed.
Buckle up,and get ready to ride it out unless your dad can get through to her.

WOW Trimm, your poor sister. I can't imagine going through that. Awful how men can be such a holes.

[no rose colored glasses]

I understand, and I guess that is what I would do just like your mom. She doesn't want to alienate your sister, so I understand, but must be very hard.

[no rose colored glasses]

That's for sure JSM some men can be such a holes. Glad your sister found herself out of that mess and doesn't live like that anymore. Are you and your sister going to go paint again tomorrow?  LOL

[joesamas mama]

Can you take me on your Florida trip JSM? I've never been there, and I'll behave, I will not play chaperon and let you two do what ever you want  LOL I will come along to Hopespring Dr with you and the jail. I don't do sports or swim or anything like that, I can hang out at the hotel.

I would love for you to come to Florida. I can't wait to go to Hopesprings Drive, I want a picture of me sticking my tongue out at G&C. Flipping the bird wouldn't be too ladylike I'm afraid. (but I never said I was a lady) ; )

[no rose colored glasses]

Can you take me on your Florida trip JSM? I've never been there, and I'll behave, I will not play chaperon and let you two do what ever you want  LOL I will come along to Hopespring Dr with you and the jail. I don't do sports or swim or anything like that, I can hang out at the hotel.

I would love for you to come to Florida. I can't wait to go to Hopesprings Drive, I want a picture of me sticking my tongue out at G&C. Flipping the bird wouldn't be too ladylike I'm afraid. (but I never said I was a lady) ; )

Maybe Lee will be hanging around and you can snap a picture. I would like to come always wanted to go to Disney World, even though Disneyland is right here  LOL

[joesamas mama]

Is Josef feeling better this morning, I sure hope so.

Yes he is thanks for asking. Just gave him his Pepcid, but now he is freaking out because I got the suitcase out. Will just do laundry and wait to start packing on Wed night.

Glad to hear that. And thanks for the info. I just don't understand how someone is allowed to hack into somebody's account, heck, I don't even know how you do that  LOL This dummy is going to war to pay off the bills this separated wife has racked up and this makes zero sense. Like my dad said again to me this morning, he is nothing but a jackazz and my daughter is going along for the ride. Plus he said more, but I can't post it  LOL

Your dad is right and I hope your daughter can get away from him while he is gone. Separated wife is just going to run up more bills and your daughter is going to get hurt in the process.

I'm hungry, wish I had some beans on toast.

[joesamas mama]

I understand, and I guess that is what I would do just like your mom. She doesn't want to alienate your sister, so I understand, but must be very hard.

Yeah, she is kind of like you trying to keep the peace, but still speaking her mind when need be.

[joesamas mama]

Can you take me on your Florida trip JSM? I've never been there, and I'll behave, I will not play chaperon and let you two do what ever you want  LOL I will come along to Hopespring Dr with you and the jail. I don't do sports or swim or anything like that, I can hang out at the hotel.

I would love for you to come to Florida. I can't wait to go to Hopesprings Drive, I want a picture of me sticking my tongue out at G&C. Flipping the bird wouldn't be too ladylike I'm afraid. (but I never said I was a lady) ; )

Maybe Lee will be hanging around and you can snap a picture. I would like to come always wanted to go to Disney World, even though Disneyland is right here  LOL

Hopefully they will all be out doing the yard when I do my drive by. I love Disney World only been to Disney Land once, all us kids were fighting and my dad went ballistic. Only time I ever saw him lose his temper LOL. We were on our best behavior after that.

[no rose colored glasses]

Is Josef feeling better this morning, I sure hope so.

Yes he is thanks for asking. Just gave him his Pepcid, but now he is freaking out because I got the suitcase out. Will just do laundry and wait to start packing on Wed night.

Glad to hear that. And thanks for the info. I just don't understand how someone is allowed to hack into somebody's account, heck, I don't even know how you do that  LOL This dummy is going to war to pay off the bills this separated wife has racked up and this makes zero sense. Like my dad said again to me this morning, he is nothing but a jackazz and my daughter is going along for the ride. Plus he said more, but I can't post it  LOL

Your dad is right and I hope your daughter can get away from him while he is gone. Separated wife is just going to run up more bills and your daughter is going to get hurt in the process.
 
I'm hungry, wish I had some beans on toast.

I never had beans on toast in my life never heard of that, but I do have donuts  LOL   Separated wife has a good racket going, and why give that up?

[no rose colored glasses]

I understand, and I guess that is what I would do just like your mom. She doesn't want to alienate your sister, so I understand, but must be very hard.

Yeah, she is kind of like you trying to keep the peace, but still speaking her mind when need be.

That's about all you can do, and since there is a little one involved she doesn't want to cause a conflict so she can't see him I'm sure.

[joesamas mama]

WOW!! decided to go through some drawers and found some shorts that haven't fit in years. Woo Hoo, I don't have to go shop for clothes. Although I did by a dress and some heels to wear to Mass while I am there. Don't know if they allow soccer hooligan outfits at church in Florida. Although I will be wearing my England shirt even though they are out.

[joesamas mama]

Is Josef feeling better this morning, I sure hope so.

Yes he is thanks for asking. Just gave him his Pepcid, but now he is freaking out because I got the suitcase out. Will just do laundry and wait to start packing on Wed night.

Glad to hear that. And thanks for the info. I just don't understand how someone is allowed to hack into somebody's account, heck, I don't even know how you do that  LOL This dummy is going to war to pay off the bills this separated wife has racked up and this makes zero sense. Like my dad said again to me this morning, he is nothing but a jackazz and my daughter is going along for the ride. Plus he said more, but I can't post it  LOL

Your dad is right and I hope your daughter can get away from him while he is gone. Separated wife is just going to run up more bills and your daughter is going to get hurt in the process.
 
I'm hungry, wish I had some beans on toast.

I never had beans on toast in my life never heard of that, but I do have donuts  LOL   Separated wife has a good racket going, and why give that up?

Beans on toast is an English thing and I love them. I love donuts too!! Wish I had some, forgot to get food while I was at the store. Maybe a pizza is the order of the day.

Separated wife has a good racket and if she can string him along after twenty years she gets full benefits for life.

[joesamas mama]

I understand, and I guess that is what I would do just like your mom. She doesn't want to alienate your sister, so I understand, but must be very hard.

Yeah, she is kind of like you trying to keep the peace, but still speaking her mind when need be.

That's about all you can do, and since there is a little one involved she doesn't want to cause a conflict so she can't see him I'm sure.

You just hit the nail on the head No Rose

[no rose colored glasses]

WOW!! decided to go through some drawers and found some shorts that haven't fit in years. Woo Hoo, I don't have to go shop for clothes. Although I did by a dress and some heels to wear to Mass while I am there. Don't know if they allow soccer hooligan outfits at church in Florida. Although I will be wearing my England shirt even though they are out.

Excellent, and now no shopping. I would have no idea what one wears to church in Florida.

[no rose colored glasses]

Thanks for not only the info about beans on toast, but the stringing him along and full benefits, didn't know that either.

[joesamas mama]

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-make-baked-beans-on-toast

Beans on toast video. I don't like cheese on my beans on toast.