JSM's BEGGING FOR BAN THREAD #17 6/21/10 - 7/08/10

[Green Eyes]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

It's a shame he is such a jerk. Lets hope his jail time scared him. I hate to say it but I doubt it. Unless he admits and wants to change I just don't see it happening. I am sorry to say. IMO. But miracles do happen.

Yesterday granddaughters boyfriend came over. He was so cute he sang and played guitar for her. Then youngest grandson was so impressed he had him play and sing to us. Poor thing. He did a real good job. I thought it was cute. Oh to be young. LOL

[joesamas mama]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Hopefully he just wants to walk and get awat from the suitcase. LOL

He just wanted to walk and now he is hot and laying on the floor. Wouldn't even eat his cookie : (

[no rose colored glasses]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

It's a shame he is such a jerk. Lets hope his jail time scared him. I hate to say it but I doubt it. Unless he admits and wants to change I just don't see it happening. I am sorry to say. IMO. But miracles do happen.

Yesterday granddaughters boyfriend came over. He was so cute he sang and played guitar for her. Then youngest grandson was so impressed he had him play and sing to us. Poor thing. He did a real good job. I thought it was cute. Oh to be young. LOL

How cute, yes to be young again would be great. My husband can't find the barrels, OMG I am going to scream.

[joesamas mama]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

That's what I am going to do too NRCG. LOL

We trimmed some things in the backyard, and since my husband was going to Target I asked him to pick up the big plastic barrel container with rope handles, I need one in the backyard in the corner to put some brooms and stuff in. I showed him those the other night and they were discounted to three dollars, you would think I'm asking him to find some strange object at Target  LOL  I'm expecting a phone call that he can't find it, even though it is big and colorful.

Hahaha, he will be calling.

[joesamas mama]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

Well, maybe the stint in jail will change him, he knows people are watching him now big time, so hopefully he will change.

I think it did No Rose, he was awfully nice yesterday. Too nice if you ask me.

[joesamas mama]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

It's a shame he is such a jerk. Lets hope his jail time scared him. I hate to say it but I doubt it. Unless he admits and wants to change I just don't see it happening. I am sorry to say. IMO. But miracles do happen.

Yesterday granddaughters boyfriend came over. He was so cute he sang and played guitar for her. Then youngest grandson was so impressed he had him play and sing to us. Poor thing. He did a real good job. I thought it was cute. Oh to be young. LOL

How sweet he played for her. Oh I wish I were young. I think jail may have worked. He is a paranoid freak now about having to ever go back LOL

[no rose colored glasses]

I'm glad JSM that may have just straightened him up, he doesn't want to go back to jail.  I had three things on a list, two he can't find. After I finishing watering I will go to Target, and they will be right where I told him they are.

[joesamas mama]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

It's a shame he is such a jerk. Lets hope his jail time scared him. I hate to say it but I doubt it. Unless he admits and wants to change I just don't see it happening. I am sorry to say. IMO. But miracles do happen.

Yesterday granddaughters boyfriend came over. He was so cute he sang and played guitar for her. Then youngest grandson was so impressed he had him play and sing to us. Poor thing. He did a real good job. I thought it was cute. Oh to be young. LOL

How cute, yes to be young again would be great. My husband can't find the barrels, OMG I am going to scream.

I knew he would he calling you

[joesamas mama]

I'm glad JSM that may have just straightened him up, he doesn't want to go back to jail.  I had three things on a list, two he can't find. After I finishing watering I will go to Target, and they will be right where I told him they are.

I hope it did straighten him up. Sorry you have to go to Target. I know exactly what you are talking about and he couldn't find it after you showed it to him? Oh my

[joesamas mama]

I am losing my mind. Just bought Advil and for the life of me couldn't find it. Almost thought I had thrown it in the trash. It was sitting right where I left it. Argh

[no rose colored glasses]

I am losing my mind. Just bought Advil and for the life of me couldn't find it. Almost thought I had thrown it in the trash. It was sitting right where I left it. Argh

At least you found it, I lose so many things inside this house, and how is that possible, I think because my mind is all over the place thinking about a ton of things at once. Going to go water the plants, and then think about Target.

[joesamas mama]

I am losing my mind. Just bought Advil and for the life of me couldn't find it. Almost thought I had thrown it in the trash. It was sitting right where I left it. Argh

At least you found it, I lose so many things inside this house, and how is that possible, I think because my mind is all over the place thinking about a ton of things at once. Going to go water the plants, and then think about Target.

I'm glad I found it too. I lose my glasses every morning like people lose their keys. Then I start freaking out because those are the only ones I have and can't drive without them. I should put them by my purse at night, but I don't.

[trimmonthelake]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

When my sister was 21/22 she got involved with a guy who was 20 years older than her.He was divorced,but involved with another woman closer to his age on the side.She was very upset when she found out.She broke it off and started seeing a good friend of mine who was married and separated.In the middle of this he was seeing another woman who he wound up marrying.I thought I would lose my mind.During this time my sister lost her job and just floated around.It went on for several months and I did not speak to my guy friend for a while.I was so pissed.
Buckle up,and get ready to ride it out unless your dad can get through to her.

OMG I had to read this two times. Like a soap opera, I know I would have lost my mind. She is getting an earful again today from me, but I have to be careful, that I don't run her off more to him.

I don't make sense when I type sometimes.LMAO
You have to keep the lines of communication open,and remember we have all been young.I have done some crazy chit myself.
Off to Walmart to get some mulch.Maybe if i only go in the garden side I won't buy anything else............yeah right.
See you monkeys in a bit.

You always make sense to me Trimm. I usually go to the garden side so I don't buy anything else. LOL

I did so good.I got 6 bags of mulch to get me started in my yard,anf treats for the dogs.Then I had a craving for those baked beans with meat in them from the deli.Yummy.
But then I passed by what i call "the pretend grocery store" LMAO I bought a pizza and a gallon of rainbow sherbert.It was calling my name.  :0
Now I get back and see the beans on toast recipe....alright!I'll try that.

[trimmonthelake]

BBL, gonna walk Josef, he is acting like his belly is bothering him. : (

Oh no, hopefully he just wants to go for a walk. I have leftovers also, that I will serve for supper, so that is easy at least  LOL

Thanks for the leftovers, sounds wonderful. Too bad my BIL is an A hole, or I would invite them over so he could BBQ on the grill at the pool.

It's a shame he is such a jerk. Lets hope his jail time scared him. I hate to say it but I doubt it. Unless he admits and wants to change I just don't see it happening. I am sorry to say. IMO. But miracles do happen.

Yesterday granddaughters boyfriend came over. He was so cute he sang and played guitar for her. Then youngest grandson was so impressed he had him play and sing to us. Poor thing. He did a real good job. I thought it was cute. Oh to be young. LOL

My husband that was a musician used to sing to me all the time,or just drum my favorite songs.Sigh.......we did have some good times. 
His daughter just married a drummer.I wonder what he would have thought about that.LMAO

[Brandi]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

She will learn, I just hope she doesn't get hurt. At first I thought this was the man of her life, now I am having bad feelings about him. : (

She thinks this is the man, I thought that they were good together and all, but I recently had many red flags come up.

And these red flags popping up so early is what really bothers me. Oh and  one more thing, I don't know if this is still the case, but used to if you were deployed in the military the wife couldn't file for divorce. Not sure if that is the case now, but he will still be married for a long time if it is still the rules

I'm not understanding, the papers are all done and she hasn't signed them. The papers were filed while he was in the US years ago. But what I don't get, if you are separated, and your separated wife hacks into your band account and steals money is that not a federal offense? I really need to know this answer, thanks.

Many states are community property states, and what belongs to one spouse belongs to the other.

And if they are still married (albeit separated) then I don't think this is a crime.

I am not a lawyer, but that's how I see it.

[joesamas mama]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

When my sister was 21/22 she got involved with a guy who was 20 years older than her.He was divorced,but involved with another woman closer to his age on the side.She was very upset when she found out.She broke it off and started seeing a good friend of mine who was married and separated.In the middle of this he was seeing another woman who he wound up marrying.I thought I would lose my mind.During this time my sister lost her job and just floated around.It went on for several months and I did not speak to my guy friend for a while.I was so pissed.
Buckle up,and get ready to ride it out unless your dad can get through to her.

OMG I had to read this two times. Like a soap opera, I know I would have lost my mind. She is getting an earful again today from me, but I have to be careful, that I don't run her off more to him.

I don't make sense when I type sometimes.LMAO
You have to keep the lines of communication open,and remember we have all been young.I have done some crazy chit myself.
Off to Walmart to get some mulch.Maybe if i only go in the garden side I won't buy anything else............yeah right.
See you monkeys in a bit.

You always make sense to me Trimm. I usually go to the garden side so I don't buy anything else. LOL

I did so good.I got 6 bags of mulch to get me started in my yard,anf treats for the dogs.Then I had a craving for those baked beans with meat in them from the deli.Yummy.
But then I passed by what i call "the pretend grocery store" LMAO I bought a pizza and a gallon of rainbow sherbert.It was calling my name.  :0
Now I get back and see the beans on toast recipe....alright!I'll try that.

Glad you got what you needed at Walmart Trimm. I so wish I had those beans right now. How funny you saw the beans on toast recipe when you got back, that is some delicious eattin

[joesamas mama]

My dad and her get along real well, and he told me yesterday that if he has to come out here and deal with it, that he would never allow someone to hurt her.

Good for your dad. I will pitch in for a plane ticket.

If pappa is coming to town,we better chip in for some Xanax. 

He is so mad about this situation with my daughter. I told him what more can I do? She is 23 I have said everything that is on my mind and then some. She will have to learn this on her own I'm afraid.

She will learn, I just hope she doesn't get hurt. At first I thought this was the man of her life, now I am having bad feelings about him. : (

She thinks this is the man, I thought that they were good together and all, but I recently had many red flags come up.

And these red flags popping up so early is what really bothers me. Oh and  one more thing, I don't know if this is still the case, but used to if you were deployed in the military the wife couldn't file for divorce. Not sure if that is the case now, but he will still be married for a long time if it is still the rules

I'm not understanding, the papers are all done and she hasn't signed them. The papers were filed while he was in the US years ago. But what I don't get, if you are separated, and your separated wife hacks into your band account and steals money is that not a federal offense? I really need to know this answer, thanks.

Many states are community property states, and what belongs to one spouse belongs to the other.

And if they are still married (albeit separated) then I don't think this is a crime.

I am not a lawyer, but that's how I see it.

Thats what I thought too Brandi. Hi BTW

[trimmonthelake]

Interesting post by Gizzie in the Caylee thread.

[no rose colored glasses]

Thanks for that info, oh well, if that is the case, then the dumbazz needs to stop complaining and get the wife to sign the papers, I have no sympathy for him anymore.  Rainbow sherbert that sounds good, haven't had that in awhile.

[joesamas mama]

Interesting post by Gizzie in the Caylee thread.

Thanks Trimm